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I feel that many users here are misinformed as to how looks and personality relate to one another, especially in a dating context.
I have read comments like 'looks is 90%, personality is 10%', or 'personality is cope'.
The truth is, being an attractive, successful man in modern society is neither a pure art or science. To try and reduce it to percentages (in this way) is as misguided as adopting the 'looks don't matter bro!' paradigm.
Let me begin by stating that looks are hugely important, and that the higher PSL you are, the easier, and better your life will be.
However, I feel many fail to grasp the context-dependant importance of personality.
Personality begins to hold huge importance once you pass the looks threshold of who you're interacting with, and in what manner you're interacting with them.
For example:
Let's now take this average SMV individual (we will call him x) and place them him into different contexts.
I know opinion will vary on whether this is 'average', but please bear with me for argument's sake.
Definitions:
Unattractively - shy, submissive, weird and awkward
Attractively - outgoing, assertive, cool and funny
With 6.5+ PSL female
If you are below average, then (unfortunately) there is a slightly different set of rules. People will be less accepting of you acting attractively (as detailed above).
The solution is to:
Jack Ma can behave how he likes - people will always treat him well, because they know that (beyond subconscious behavioural shifts that take place in the presence of high status), should he take a liking to them, their lives will change forever.
Best Wishes To All.
I have read comments like 'looks is 90%, personality is 10%', or 'personality is cope'.
The truth is, being an attractive, successful man in modern society is neither a pure art or science. To try and reduce it to percentages (in this way) is as misguided as adopting the 'looks don't matter bro!' paradigm.
Let me begin by stating that looks are hugely important, and that the higher PSL you are, the easier, and better your life will be.
However, I feel many fail to grasp the context-dependant importance of personality.
Personality begins to hold huge importance once you pass the looks threshold of who you're interacting with, and in what manner you're interacting with them.
For example:
- If you are bottom 5% SMV, and/or you dress poorly and have bad hygiene, you will receive poor treatment from that vast majority of individuals.
- If you are average SMV, dress well and have good hygiene, you will receive good treatment from the majority of individuals.
Let's now take this average SMV individual (we will call him x) and place them him into different contexts.
I know opinion will vary on whether this is 'average', but please bear with me for argument's sake.
Definitions:
Unattractively - shy, submissive, weird and awkward
Attractively - outgoing, assertive, cool and funny
With 6.5+ PSL female
- If he acts unattractively, she will be repelled by him.
- If he acts attractively, she will enjoy his company. It is unlikely (though not impossible) that she will seriously consider him as a romantic option, but it is possible she will want to hang out with him more in a friendship capacity. This will boost his status, and give him access to more social events, and her more attainable friends.
- If he acts unattractively, she will feel neutral/negative about him.
- If he acts attractively she will likely find him attractive/consider him as a romantic option. The burden will then be on him (in most cases) to make a move.
If you are below average, then (unfortunately) there is a slightly different set of rules. People will be less accepting of you acting attractively (as detailed above).
The solution is to:
- Try your best to get to average (at which point you should forever continue Looksmaxing, but consider that your behaviour will have much more of an impact on how people treat you).
- If you know you will never get to average, commit yourself to becoming an expert in a chosen field.
Jack Ma can behave how he likes - people will always treat him well, because they know that (beyond subconscious behavioural shifts that take place in the presence of high status), should he take a liking to them, their lives will change forever.
Best Wishes To All.
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