fashion, gymmaxxing, roids, mental health, skincare, sports, thugmaxxing

[car12345]

(sorry for shitty useless thread in advance but please read)

after like eternity of not doing anything about my looks, hygiene and health i have thought for like 30 mins and have decided that i should probably atleast try.

anyways i would say i have an average frame im average height in my country and i am very lean (not muscular), my face is kinda bad looking tho.

basically ive thought about a few things, first would be i have to get my fucking hygiene up, genuinely cant be bothered with this bullshit tho, i've recently started taking ritalin again tho so maybe it gets better, anyone have any tips? and also what kind of hygiene should i all do and how much etc. Then also skincare maybe, my face is kinda weirdly irritated and i have like Keratosis pilaris on my arms and legs. Is it worth it to spend money and time on this? or should i rather set other priorities first.

Gymmaxxing and Sports: i have been to the gym in the past (was lowk a gymcel), i lost like 15kg of mass since then and massive amounts of strengths but my physique is not that ass, i still believe its cope tho and i also cant be bothered going to the gym with all those fuckass people, so ive thought about stuff like caliaesthetics and climbing, but at the same time im probably ass at them, and way to lazy to grind that long. Ive also thought about doing combat sports again, ive done boxing but i was terrible at it (my reaction time is kinda fucked up bc of my adhd, maybe if i take ritalin before training it will help, havent tried that yet tho). If you have any other suggestions lmk. I have thought about Sarms, steroids etc. personally i do not believe they're worth it, it has way too many health riscs compared to the benefits, also at the same time i do not have bad muscles building genetics and decent test.

im not really gonna "thugmax" (ts sounds corny ass hell), but basically i have thought about some fashion and behaviour choices, like wearing those fuckass jackets etc and the fashion that most of the teenagers nowadays wear, and also get some haircut similar to theirs, so basically fashion change and hairstyle, i cant be bothered with spending much money on clothes tho and i have no idea of fashion. anyways regarding the behaviour, ive noticed all of the guys around me act like "super tough" and "toxic" (ykwim?) anyways ive always been like very unaggresive and usually always took shit, i will get back to this in the mental health part.

Mental health: right so basically i really want to change my behaviour like i want to be more aggressive and shit rather than just this weird quiet kid, i used to take a lot of shit in like 5-9th grade, i was also a jester, luckily i stopped now, but my behaviour is still super weird. should i just take like roids or something, can anyone help me out with this. Also I really lost motivation in life, i can hardly get motivated for anything nowadays, like for example im currently trying to set up a homelab and it just doesnt feel like fun but sometimes i still kinda have the motivation to do it, but basically where im trying to get at with this is how to enjoy things again, im also talking about sports etc, im trying to get back into stuff i used to enjoy, I'll probably also try to use ritalin to make it easier to get into it again. but yeah, i'll not be talking about all the stuff going on in my life and shit here, but yeah, If anyone can give me advice and help me it would be nice.

 

[hopelessgymcel]

Here’s a compact reply you can use:


You’re already doing the hardest part by deciding to make changes. Start small: basic daily hygiene, a simple skincare routine, and consistent sleep will already make you feel a lot better. For training, pick something you actually enjoy—calisthenics, climbing, or boxing are all fine as long as you stick to it. Skip steroids; not worth it.


You don’t need to act “tough” to improve socially—focus on confidence, boundaries, and taking yourself seriously. Motivation comes back once routines stabilize, so keep things simple and build up slowly.

 

[car12345]

Here’s a compact reply you can use:


You’re already doing the hardest part by deciding to make changes. Start small: basic daily hygiene, a simple skincare routine, and consistent sleep will already make you feel a lot better. For training, pick something you actually enjoy—calisthenics, climbing, or boxing are all fine as long as you stick to it. Skip steroids; not worth it.


You don’t need to act “tough” to improve socially—focus on confidence, boundaries, and taking yourself seriously. Motivation comes back once routines stabilize, so keep things simple and build up slowly.

im crine dis nigger hit me with the fucking chatgpt awnser

 

[Orka]

ive thought about stuff like caliaesthetics and climbing, but at the same time im probably ass at them

Good idea, builds your back & shoulders really well and increases lifespan & mobility, 100x better than lifting weights

and way to lazy to grind that long. Ive also thought about doing combat sports again

Grind it, it'll be super worth it, combat sports are pretty shit for your physique alone

i have thought about some fashion and behaviour choices, like wearing those fuckass jackets etc and the fashion that most of the teenagers nowadays wear, and also get some haircut similar to theirs, so basically fashion change and hairstyle, i cant be bothered with spending much money on clothes tho and i have no idea of fashion.

If you want cheaper clothes you can just buy reps, find some spreadsheets for ACFans or other places and buy the clothes for 1/10th of the price

Mental health: right so basically i really want to change my behaviour like i want to be more aggressive and shit rather than just this weird quiet kid, i used to take a lot of shit in like 5-9th grade, i was also a jester, luckily i stopped now, but my behaviour is still super weird. should i just take like roids or something, can anyone help me out with this. Also I really lost motivation in life, i can hardly get motivated for anything nowadays, like for example im currently trying to set up a homelab and it just doesnt feel like fun but sometimes i still kinda have the motivation to do it, but basically where im trying to get at with this is how to enjoy things again, im also talking about sports etc, im trying to get back into stuff i used to enjoy, I'll probably also try to use ritalin to make it easier to get into it again. but yeah, i'll not be talking about all the stuff going on in my life and shit here, but yeah, If anyone can give me advice and help me it would be nice.

Just make sure this doesn't seem too forced or you'll look like a loser

 

[hopelessgymcel]

im crine dis nigger hit me with the fucking chatgpt awnser

your fault for making a post so long i can't read it. i have a dompanine addiction can't focus for that long

 

[sansero]

Dnr the whole, you gotta put effort into looks it’s not smth that just comes naturally. Combat sports are indeed good ways for androgen expression, if you hop on roids in a moderate dosage you will become a jackass nigga.

 

[ssxjdgh]

Here’s a compact reply you can use:


You’re already doing the hardest part by deciding to make changes. Start small: basic daily hygiene, a simple skincare routine, and consistent sleep will already make you feel a lot better. For training, pick something you actually enjoy—calisthenics, climbing, or boxing are all fine as long as you stick to it. Skip steroids; not worth it.


You don’t need to act “tough” to improve socially—focus on confidence, boundaries, and taking yourself seriously. Motivation comes back once routines stabilize, so keep things simple and build up slowly.

chatgpt

 

[ssxjdgh]

(sorry for shitty useless thread in advance but please read)

after like eternity of not doing anything about my looks, hygiene and health i have thought for like 30 mins and have decided that i should probably atleast try.

anyways i would say i have an average frame im average height in my country and i am very lean (not muscular), my face is kinda bad looking tho.

basically ive thought about a few things, first would be i have to get my fucking hygiene up, genuinely cant be bothered with this bullshit tho, i've recently started taking ritalin again tho so maybe it gets better, anyone have any tips? and also what kind of hygiene should i all do and how much etc. Then also skincare maybe, my face is kinda weirdly irritated and i have like Keratosis pilaris on my arms and legs. Is it worth it to spend money and time on this? or should i rather set other priorities first.

Gymmaxxing and Sports: i have been to the gym in the past (was lowk a gymcel), i lost like 15kg of mass since then and massive amounts of strengths but my physique is not that ass, i still believe its cope tho and i also cant be bothered going to the gym with all those fuckass people, so ive thought about stuff like caliaesthetics and climbing, but at the same time im probably ass at them, and way to lazy to grind that long. Ive also thought about doing combat sports again, ive done boxing but i was terrible at it (my reaction time is kinda fucked up bc of my adhd, maybe if i take ritalin before training it will help, havent tried that yet tho). If you have any other suggestions lmk. I have thought about Sarms, steroids etc. personally i do not believe they're worth it, it has way too many health riscs compared to the benefits, also at the same time i do not have bad muscles building genetics and decent test.

im not really gonna "thugmax" (ts sounds corny ass hell), but basically i have thought about some fashion and behaviour choices, like wearing those fuckass jackets etc and the fashion that most of the teenagers nowadays wear, and also get some haircut similar to theirs, so basically fashion change and hairstyle, i cant be bothered with spending much money on clothes tho and i have no idea of fashion. anyways regarding the behaviour, ive noticed all of the guys around me act like "super tough" and "toxic" (ykwim?) anyways ive always been like very unaggresive and usually always took shit, i will get back to this in the mental health part.

Mental health: right so basically i really want to change my behaviour like i want to be more aggressive and shit rather than just this weird quiet kid, i used to take a lot of shit in like 5-9th grade, i was also a jester, luckily i stopped now, but my behaviour is still super weird. should i just take like roids or something, can anyone help me out with this. Also I really lost motivation in life, i can hardly get motivated for anything nowadays, like for example im currently trying to set up a homelab and it just doesnt feel like fun but sometimes i still kinda have the motivation to do it, but basically where im trying to get at with this is how to enjoy things again, im also talking about sports etc, im trying to get back into stuff i used to enjoy, I'll probably also try to use ritalin to make it easier to get into it again. but yeah, i'll not be talking about all the stuff going on in my life and shit here, but yeah, If anyone can give me advice and help me it would be nice.

That sounds great dnr

 

[car12345]

Good idea, builds your back & shoulders really well and increases lifespan & mobility, 100x better than lifting weights

yea ill probably also have to do some streatching and stuff for my back, i lowk have scoliosis

Grind it, it'll be super worth it, combat sports are pretty shit for your physique alone

yea maybe if i can find a way to actually enjoy it

If you want cheaper clothes you can just buy reps, find some spreadsheets for ACFans or other places and buy the clothes for 1/10th of the price

lowk scared to buy fake shit bc if someone notices ts is gonna be really humiliating, because even though i only see my coworkers and people in the train they are still ruthless, when it comes to shit like this.

Just make sure this doesn't seem too forced or you'll look like a loser

yea thats my problem i kinda wanna be like that without it bheing forced, its like sometimes im like this but somehow my personality completly changes in a few hours and i become "weak" again and it just sucks idk what that is but its genuinely a struggle, i usually hate myself really much then and then im really vulnerable for some reason but if im not i usually just hate everything wich maybe is still bad but way better than the other thing. Anotehr thing that i have is like really weird crashouts, for example i come home and just want to kill my whole family, in the end i mostly end up destroying shit but anyways its really weird. Its very hard to describe.