Fear of creeping girls out. Having no confidence and forever being insecure

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Is there a fix to stop feeling like every girl you even make eye contact with gets freaked out without having to be intoxicated. I have absolutely NO CONFIDENCE. The only time I don't feel like a creep talking to a girl is she has authority over me as in she works somewhere and has information I need or when I'm drunk and off drugs. Regardless I ran the hinge experiment which should've also worked to increase my confidence and got a lot of matches but I can't help to still feel insecure. I don't know what happened to me and how I became so afraid of the world judging me but my brain has fully rotted where I just like the safety of my bed due to me not being judged by randoms based off my appearance which I can only control so much. When I see girls from my high school now and say hi to them and wave it always feels like they do it out of pity idk if it's in my head but I just can't help but want to ldar. It's making me want to rot and only come out when I drink as that's the only way I feel secure. How can I fix, would getting a job and finding a gf and having a new life help. I don't have problems making friends as I mentioned previously I think the gym is pretty nt but I'm still just so nd with confidence. I also think this has to do with how mean women are in general but wtv
 
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Is there a fix to stop feeling like every girl you even make eye contact with gets freaked out without having to be intoxicated. I have absolutely NO CONFIDENCE. The only time I don't feel like a creep talking to a girl is she has authority over me as in she works somewhere and has information I need or when I'm drunk and off drugs. Regardless I ran the hinge experiment which should've also worked to increase my confidence and got a lot of matches but I can't help to still feel insecure. I don't know what happened to me and how I became so afraid of the world judging me but my brain has fully rotted where I just like the safety of my bed due to me not being judged by randoms based off my appearance which I can only control so much. When I see girls from my high school now and say hi to them and wave it always feels like they do it out of pity idk if it's in my head but I just can't help but want to ldar. It's making me want to rot and only come out when I drink as that's the only way I feel secure. How can I fix, would getting a job and finding a gf and having a new life help. I don't have problems making friends as I mentioned previously I think the gym is pretty nt but I'm still just so nd with confidence. I also think this has to do with how mean women are in general but wtv
start from small are you at school? having a value help to boost confidence a lot
 
i dont even have to read a word to know you're on the spectrum

start bonesmashing and get on a raw meat diet
 
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Yeah just gym max follow your own advice
 
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i dont even have to read a word to know you're on the spectrum

start bonesmashing and get on a raw meat diet
There's no way I'm on the spectrum. There's a chance I feel like I may be a high functioning autist but I don't think I'm autistic for being insecure
 
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start from small are you at school? having a value help to boost confidence a lot
No matter how many good interactions I get i automatically think it's pity and the girls can sense I'm autistic and are nice to me for that reason
 
There's no way I'm on the spectrum. There's a chance I feel like I may be a high functioning autist but I don't think I'm autistic for being insecure
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Is there a fix to stop feeling like every girl you even make eye contact with gets freaked out without having to be intoxicated. I have absolutely NO CONFIDENCE. The only time I don't feel like a creep talking to a girl is she has authority over me as in she works somewhere and has information I need or when I'm drunk and off drugs. Regardless I ran the hinge experiment which should've also worked to increase my confidence and got a lot of matches but I can't help to still feel insecure. I don't know what happened to me and how I became so afraid of the world judging me but my brain has fully rotted where I just like the safety of my bed due to me not being judged by randoms based off my appearance which I can only control so much. When I see girls from my high school now and say hi to them and wave it always feels like they do it out of pity idk if it's in my head but I just can't help but want to ldar. It's making me want to rot and only come out when I drink as that's the only way I feel secure. How can I fix, would getting a job and finding a gf and having a new life help. I don't have problems making friends as I mentioned previously I think the gym is pretty nt but I'm still just so nd with confidence. I also think this has to do with how mean women are in general but wtv
stop being sub 5
 
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Is there a fix to stop feeling like every girl you even make eye contact with gets freaked out without having to be intoxicated. I have absolutely NO CONFIDENCE. The only time I don't feel like a creep talking to a girl is she has authority over me as in she works somewhere and has information I need or when I'm drunk and off drugs. Regardless I ran the hinge experiment which should've also worked to increase my confidence and got a lot of matches but I can't help to still feel insecure. I don't know what happened to me and how I became so afraid of the world judging me but my brain has fully rotted where I just like the safety of my bed due to me not being judged by randoms based off my appearance which I can only control so much. When I see girls from my high school now and say hi to them and wave it always feels like they do it out of pity idk if it's in my head but I just can't help but want to ldar. It's making me want to rot and only come out when I drink as that's the only way I feel secure. How can I fix, would getting a job and finding a gf and having a new life help. I don't have problems making friends as I mentioned previously I think the gym is pretty nt but I'm still just so nd with confidence. I also think this has to do with how mean women are in general but wtv
The only way for you to start feeling human in your own skin is to ascend if your growth plates r fused n u don’t want surgery it’s over but jsyk when you ascend ts dotn get better i had an ascension somewhat from what i used to look like the social anxiety fear of being judged and always thinking your creeping her out only intensifies the more you think about it how you look best thing to do would try and either ascend or leave lm in the past
 
The only way for you to start feeling human in your own skin is to ascend if your growth plates r fused n u don’t want surgery it’s over but jsyk when you ascend ts dotn get better i had an ascension so.mewhat from what i used to look like the social anxiety fear of being judged and always thinking your creeping her out only intensifies the more you think about it how you look best thing to do would try and either ascend or leave lm in the past
well I didn't feel this way when I was fat it's only now i def think it's neurological but not being as social as I should've been in hs cooked me for at least a good amount of time rn. I have been building up confidence but it goes away randomly and im back to square one
 
well I didn't feel this way when I was fat it's only now i def think it's neurological but not being as social as I should've been in hs cooked me for at least a good amount of time rn. I have been building up confidence but it goes away randomly and im back to square one
Hmm maybe it would be best to take a break from lm becuase sounds like it’s making you self conciuese wich is reasonable
 
Hmm maybe it would be best to take a break from lm becuase sounds like it’s making you self conciuese wich is reasonable
I mean maybe but I'd still feel like i'd be giving girls an ick I think the only way this goes away is if i get a gf
 
Press her against a wall if she freaks out go like shhh its ok bby
 
Is there a fix to stop feeling like every girl you even make eye contact with gets freaked out without having to be intoxicated. I have absolutely NO CONFIDENCE. The only time I don't feel like a creep talking to a girl is she has authority over me as in she works somewhere and has information I need or when I'm drunk and off drugs. Regardless I ran the hinge experiment which should've also worked to increase my confidence and got a lot of matches but I can't help to still feel insecure. I don't know what happened to me and how I became so afraid of the world judging me but my brain has fully rotted where I just like the safety of my bed due to me not being judged by randoms based off my appearance which I can only control so much. When I see girls from my high school now and say hi to them and wave it always feels like they do it out of pity idk if it's in my head but I just can't help but want to ldar. It's making me want to rot and only come out when I drink as that's the only way I feel secure. How can I fix, would getting a job and finding a gf and having a new life help. I don't have problems making friends as I mentioned previously I think the gym is pretty nt but I'm still just so nd with confidence. I also think this has to do with how mean women are in general but wtv
you gotta realize most people don't think the same things you are thinking i doubt any women think you are weird or creeping them out by you looking at them just follow your own advice and do what you think will help make you feel more confident
 
you gotta realize most people don't think the same things you are thinking i doubt any women think you are weird or creeping them out by you looking at them just follow your own advice and do what you think will help make you feel more confident
yeah maybe even with making eye contact it's not like they make ugly faces i just avoid it cause i'm too introverted
 
Even as an ND eventually ur head toggles, how old are you?
 
Is there a fix to stop feeling like every girl you even make eye contact with gets freaked out without having to be intoxicated. I have absolutely NO CONFIDENCE. The only time I don't feel like a creep talking to a girl is she has authority over me as in she works somewhere and has information I need or when I'm drunk and off drugs. Regardless I ran the hinge experiment which should've also worked to increase my confidence and got a lot of matches but I can't help to still feel insecure. I don't know what happened to me and how I became so afraid of the world judging me but my brain has fully rotted where I just like the safety of my bed due to me not being judged by randoms based off my appearance which I can only control so much. When I see girls from my high school now and say hi to them and wave it always feels like they do it out of pity idk if it's in my head but I just can't help but want to ldar. It's making me want to rot and only come out when I drink as that's the only way I feel secure. How can I fix, would getting a job and finding a gf and having a new life help. I don't have problems making friends as I mentioned previously I think the gym is pretty nt but I'm still just so nd with confidence. I also think this has to do with how mean women are in general but wtv
"There's no way I'm in the spectrum"
 
Even as an ND eventually ur head toggles, how old are you?
19. . .
like i said i'm not nd well i was nd once and can go mute whilte drunk but usually it makes it go away which makes me think i'm really nt when i shut my brain off but i worry way too much during the day about ts
 
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Is there a fix to stop feeling like every girl you even make eye contact with gets freaked out without having to be intoxicated. I have absolutely NO CONFIDENCE. The only time I don't feel like a creep talking to a girl is she has authority over me as in she works somewhere and has information I need or when I'm drunk and off drugs. Regardless I ran the hinge experiment which should've also worked to increase my confidence and got a lot of matches but I can't help to still feel insecure. I don't know what happened to me and how I became so afraid of the world judging me but my brain has fully rotted where I just like the safety of my bed due to me not being judged by randoms based off my appearance which I can only control so much. When I see girls from my high school now and say hi to them and wave it always feels like they do it out of pity idk if it's in my head but I just can't help but want to ldar. It's making me want to rot and only come out when I drink as that's the only way I feel secure. How can I fix, would getting a job and finding a gf and having a new life help. I don't have problems making friends as I mentioned previously I think the gym is pretty nt but I'm still just so nd with confidence. I also think this has to do with how mean women are in general but wtv
Are you gonna still feel like a creep when you're plowing her from behind with a palm full of ass?

The truck is to not care whether or not they think you're a creep. Society wants to scared as a man. Scared and worried about accident doing the wrong thing. fuck that shit. I'll do the "wrong" thing on purpose just because you pig fucks want me to be scared of doing it.

Shoot, I'll scold women in public.
 
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19. . .
like i said i'm not nd well i was nd once and can go mute whilte drunk but usually it makes it go away which makes me think i'm really nt when i shut my brain off but i worry way too much during the day about ts
Id say at 25 tops you figure this out even as ND. Overthinking like that distracts you too much, I've been there
 
Are you gonna still feel like a creep when you're plowing her from behind with a palm full of ass?

The truck is to not care whether or not they think you're a creep. Society wants to scared as a man. Scared and worried about accident doing the wrong thing. fuck that shit. I'll do the "wrong" thing on purpose just because you pig fucks want me to be scared of doing it.

Shoot, I'll scold women in public.
mirin the idgaf mindset honestly way more valid and pretty sure it works as my friends who went to private school all think like this and have actual lives where they interact with women so good message
 
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Id say at 25 tops you figure this out even as ND. Overthinking like that distracts you too much, I've been there
yeah hopefully it will go away soon and i just start to not care once it does go away i'll be chilling living happy!
 
mirin the idgaf mindset honestly way more valid and pretty sure it works as my friends who went to private school all think like this and have actual lives where they interact with women so good message
You really must stop caring.
 
Is there a fix to stop feeling like every girl you even make eye contact with gets freaked out without having to be intoxicated. I have absolutely NO CONFIDENCE. The only time I don't feel like a creep talking to a girl is she has authority over me as in she works somewhere and has information I need or when I'm drunk and off drugs. Regardless I ran the hinge experiment which should've also worked to increase my confidence and got a lot of matches but I can't help to still feel insecure. I don't know what happened to me and how I became so afraid of the world judging me but my brain has fully rotted where I just like the safety of my bed due to me not being judged by randoms based off my appearance which I can only control so much. When I see girls from my high school now and say hi to them and wave it always feels like they do it out of pity idk if it's in my head but I just can't help but want to ldar. It's making me want to rot and only come out when I drink as that's the only way I feel secure. How can I fix, would getting a job and finding a gf and having a new life help. I don't have problems making friends as I mentioned previously I think the gym is pretty nt but I'm still just so nd with confidence. I also think this has to do with how mean women are in general but wtv
Why would you be afraid of freaking out girls? Who gives a fuck?
 
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there’s just an archetype of these low iq fucks who post the same long dumb paragraph over and over again
 

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