TerminatorGenisys9
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Is there a fix to stop feeling like every girl you even make eye contact with gets freaked out without having to be intoxicated. I have absolutely NO CONFIDENCE. The only time I don't feel like a creep talking to a girl is she has authority over me as in she works somewhere and has information I need or when I'm drunk and off drugs. Regardless I ran the hinge experiment which should've also worked to increase my confidence and got a lot of matches but I can't help to still feel insecure. I don't know what happened to me and how I became so afraid of the world judging me but my brain has fully rotted where I just like the safety of my bed due to me not being judged by randoms based off my appearance which I can only control so much. When I see girls from my high school now and say hi to them and wave it always feels like they do it out of pity idk if it's in my head but I just can't help but want to ldar. It's making me want to rot and only come out when I drink as that's the only way I feel secure. How can I fix, would getting a job and finding a gf and having a new life help. I don't have problems making friends as I mentioned previously I think the gym is pretty nt but I'm still just so nd with confidence. I also think this has to do with how mean women are in general but wtv