Fear of missing out

[Bipolar Vamp6ix]

So talking to alot of people and seeing online, those who havent gone to uni/college have a big fear of missing out on the "social side of it" and how fun it apparently seems.

imo people dont go to college for 3 reasons.
Either you know what youre doing and dont see it as a way to your future career, youre grades were absolute ass and youre basically a bum, or youre taking a gap year, which falls somewhere in between the two.

But regardless in all 3 scenarios you wont really be "missing out" on anything, i get that college is kinda a social enviorment and it would be easier to socialise there but at the end of the day its cuz youre a shy ass bum

 

[Alexanderr]

Basically, if you had a strong social circle coming out of highschool, not going to college won't be a deal breaker, you'd still get invited to the parties

 

[Darkeningstar]

Universities are often no fun at all, full of people who don't want to socialise and already have a social group. People take classes and mind their own business. You need social skills and patience

 

[BWC_virgin]

Universities are often no fun at all, full of people who don't want to socialise and already have a social group. People take classes and mind their own business. You need social skills and patience

This, also where I go to university the parties are boring. People basically just get drunk late at night (people usually go to parties with friends that they hangout with) and people barely hookup from what I have heard. If they do it’s girls who are hoes