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Female love is not what most men think it is, it’s not unconditional, it’s not eternal, and it’s not the same as how men love. What women often feel is infatuation, excitement, and fantasy about a man’s potential, the issue is that no man is perfect and eventually reality shows itself. The modern environment has only amplified this, feeding into a woman’s self-serving survival instinct, you can’t moralize it, you can’t hate them for it, but you can observe it and adjust your expectations. If you understand this you won’t be disappointed and you can still enjoy women for what they are, but don’t expect her to be your savior or to stay forever when things get very hard. If you fall sick, if you lose your drive, or if you disappear for long periods her loyalty has limits. Women are constantly scanning consciously or unconsciously for the best possible option, men are the prize, if she believes she is the prize and you are not she loses respect and walks away. This is why attraction breaks down when the roles flip, our values have evolved too quickly and most modern ideas are fragmented built around hedonism and the female desire for pleasure.
When women lack strong masculine guidance they tend to drift and lose structure.
Historically women didn’t create systems of morality or religion and when they did it was usually centered on goddess worship on self-adoration, this makes sense self-love was part of survival a way to be chosen a way to secure resources. Today that same instinct shows up in social behavior saying the right thing in public on apps in interviews projecting an image of high morality or value, but deep down their real attraction patterns often conflict with what they claim to want, women are paradoxical and the best way to deal with this is simply to observe not to chase or to moralize. Women can be amazing fun and inspiring but they cannot be the center of your life, your mission your purpose and your focus must stay first.
If you build your life around the feminine you will lose yourself.
When women lack strong masculine guidance they tend to drift and lose structure.
Historically women didn’t create systems of morality or religion and when they did it was usually centered on goddess worship on self-adoration, this makes sense self-love was part of survival a way to be chosen a way to secure resources. Today that same instinct shows up in social behavior saying the right thing in public on apps in interviews projecting an image of high morality or value, but deep down their real attraction patterns often conflict with what they claim to want, women are paradoxical and the best way to deal with this is simply to observe not to chase or to moralize. Women can be amazing fun and inspiring but they cannot be the center of your life, your mission your purpose and your focus must stay first.
If you build your life around the feminine you will lose yourself.
