Finally Sent My Ex the Apology I Needed to Say

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I finally sent her the message I had been holding inside for weeks. An apology. Not to make her forgive me, not to get a response, just to take responsibility for my own mistakes and hold myself accountable.

We had something that mattered for a while. We met, we got close, we shared moments, and then things fell apart. I made mistakes, she made mistakes, and somewhere along the way we hurt each other. For a long time I carried all of that with me, replaying it in my head, wishing I could fix it.

I don’t expect a reply. I don’t need one. I even logged off my secondary Instagram account I used to send the message. That part of my life is over.

It’s strange, letting go. She was an important person for me, but now she’s gone, and I have to accept it. Sending that apology wasn’t about changing her mind, it wasn’t about saving anything. It was about me finally doing the thing I should have done a long time ago.

There’s a weight off my chest now. A strange mix of relief and sadness. Relief because I’ve done what I could to make things right, sadness because a chapter I cared about is closing for good.

Now I just have to move on. Grieve. Learn. Grow.
 
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Never apologize, especially to foids
 
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couldn’t be me. my girl and i are chillingggg
 
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Good thing you did it bhai because it will torment you if you didn’t. Some chapters are meant to be read and closed bhai.you did what you felt was the right response now it’s up to her to reignite, and ultimately you can’t control the actions of foids so it’s best to move on to better things. Acceptance is hard but necessary to keep your peace :Comfy:
 
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Good thing you did it bhai because it will torment you if you didn’t. Some chapters are meant to be read and closed bhai.you did what you felt was the right response now it’s up to her to reignite, and ultimately you can’t control the actions of foids so it’s best to move on to better things. Acceptance is hard but necessary to keep your peace :Comfy:
Thank you so much, fella.
 
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why you cheated ?
 
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why you cheated ?
Because I was impatient. I didn’t want to wait for real connection, I just wanted instant gratification. I was an asshole.
 
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apologising for cheating is the most cucked shit ever
 
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You're apologising while he's fucking her.
 
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I finally sent her the message I had been holding inside for weeks. An apology. Not to make her forgive me, not to get a response, just to take responsibility for my own mistakes and hold myself accountable.

We had something that mattered for a while. We met, we got close, we shared moments, and then things fell apart. I made mistakes, she made mistakes, and somewhere along the way we hurt each other. For a long time I carried all of that with me, replaying it in my head, wishing I could fix it.

I don’t expect a reply. I don’t need one. I even logged off my secondary Instagram account I used to send the message. That part of my life is over.

It’s strange, letting go. She was an important person for me, but now she’s gone, and I have to accept it. Sending that apology wasn’t about changing her mind, it wasn’t about saving anything. It was about me finally doing the thing I should have done a long time ago.

There’s a weight off my chest now. A strange mix of relief and sadness. Relief because I’ve done what I could to make things right, sadness because a chapter I cared about is closing for good.

Now I just have to move on. Grieve. Learn. Grow.
I keep telling myself i would say my apologize after the break up but its been a year now and i havent said a single word
 
I finally sent her the message I had been holding inside for weeks. An apology. Not to make her forgive me, not to get a response, just to take responsibility for my own mistakes and hold myself accountable.

We had something that mattered for a while. We met, we got close, we shared moments, and then things fell apart. I made mistakes, she made mistakes, and somewhere along the way we hurt each other. For a long time I carried all of that with me, replaying it in my head, wishing I could fix it.

I don’t expect a reply. I don’t need one. I even logged off my secondary Instagram account I used to send the message. That part of my life is over.

It’s strange, letting go. She was an important person for me, but now she’s gone, and I have to accept it. Sending that apology wasn’t about changing her mind, it wasn’t about saving anything. It was about me finally doing the thing I should have done a long time ago.

There’s a weight off my chest now. A strange mix of relief and sadness. Relief because I’ve done what I could to make things right, sadness because a chapter I cared about is closing for good.

Now I just have to move on. Grieve. Learn. Grow.
im proud of you
 
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