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So yesterday I went on a date with this one girl and you guys have been giving me some tips! :love:

I took her out to a Greek restaurant. She was a little late at first tho. Ppl were staring at me thinking my date wouldn't show up. So I was visibly stressing. :forcedsmile: She eventually came though and I was relieved. We talked about various stuff and I held nice eye contact with her and she was laughing and shi. She looked amazing too (htb imo) she wore a black dress with some cleavage.

We were talking abt past relationships and stuff, tell me why this girl tells me she fucked 1 dude before me. But now she wants to be a good christian and doesn't wanna do nothing til marriage. (I'm not taking that serious). My place was close to the restaurant aswell so I was gonna to take her there afterwards.

1.5 hours went by and my friends must've seen my snapchat story and decided to come to the restaurant. I didn't tell them where I was at lmao. Already promised them that we were gonna go to the casino after my date. So they were waiting at the parking lot of the restaurant while me and this foid were still in there. Date went a little longer than I expected. They came around the time I told them I was probably gonna be free after the date. Mfs were tired of waiting so they came into the restaurant. Fucking cockblockers lmfao. I was mad asf and took them outside for a bit and told them I was gonna be done soon. They were like "I didn't know you were gonna take her home bro"... JFL.

Took my date to the nearest tram station and then we made out a bit (I think I did a decent job at kissing). She seemed like she enjoyed our time together. We then said our goodbyes and she had this cute smile.



I can honestly say I'm proud of myself. I was a bit nervous because she seemed quite dry and distant on text, but she was really warm and nice in person.



tagging some people from my previous thread: @PsychoDsk @PlayersGetPlayed @normie_joe
 
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good shit bro
 
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Chad ramblings :ogre:
 
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So yesterday I went on a date with this one girl and you guys have been giving me some tips! :love:

I took her out to a Greek restaurant. She was a little late at first tho. Ppl were staring at me thinking my date wouldn't show up. So I was visibly stressing. :forcedsmile: She eventually came though and I was relieved. We talked about various stuff and I held nice eye contact with her and she was laughing and shi. She looked amazing too (htb imo) she wore a black dress with some cleavage.

We were talking abt past relationships and stuff, tell me why this girl tells me she fucked 1 dude before me. But now she wants to be a good christian and doesn't wanna do nothing til marriage. (I'm not taking that serious). My place was close to the restaurant aswell so I was gonna to take her there afterwards.

1.5 hours went by and my friends must've seen my snapchat story and decided to come to the restaurant. I didn't tell them where I was at lmao. Already promised them that we were gonna go to the casino after my date. So they were waiting at the parking lot of the restaurant while me and this foid were still in there. Date went a little longer than I expected. They came around the time I told them I was probably gonna be free after the date. Mfs were tired of waiting so they came into the restaurant. Fucking cockblockers lmfao. I was mad asf and took them outside for a bit and told them I was gonna be done soon. They were like "I didn't know you were gonna take her home bro"... JFL.

Took my date to the nearest tram station and then we made out a bit (I think I did a decent job at kissing). She seemed like she enjoyed our time together. We then said our goodbyes and she had this cute smile.


I can honestly say I'm proud of myself. I was a bit nervous because she seemed quite dry and distant on text, but she was really warm and nice in person.



tagging some people from my previous thread: @PsychoDsk @PlayersGetPlayed @normie_joe
Whats ur psl
 
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Good job
 
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Nice now my turn :feelswhy:
 
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Friendly tip - try to steer conversation away from exes on a first date.
 
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Rule #1 you don't take girl out to restaurants on first dates

Doesn't matter if youre incel. Always opt for coffee . Its simple and easy. Do not pay at the restaurant for someone you barely know and may or may not be compatible with.
 
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So yesterday I went on a date with this one girl and you guys have been giving me some tips! :love:

I took her out to a Greek restaurant. She was a little late at first tho. Ppl were staring at me thinking my date wouldn't show up. So I was visibly stressing. :forcedsmile: She eventually came though and I was relieved. We talked about various stuff and I held nice eye contact with her and she was laughing and shi. She looked amazing too (htb imo) she wore a black dress with some cleavage.

We were talking abt past relationships and stuff, tell me why this girl tells me she fucked 1 dude before me. But now she wants to be a good christian and doesn't wanna do nothing til marriage. (I'm not taking that serious). My place was close to the restaurant aswell so I was gonna to take her there afterwards.

1.5 hours went by and my friends must've seen my snapchat story and decided to come to the restaurant. I didn't tell them where I was at lmao. Already promised them that we were gonna go to the casino after my date. So they were waiting at the parking lot of the restaurant while me and this foid were still in there. Date went a little longer than I expected. They came around the time I told them I was probably gonna be free after the date. Mfs were tired of waiting so they came into the restaurant. Fucking cockblockers lmfao. I was mad asf and took them outside for a bit and told them I was gonna be done soon. They were like "I didn't know you were gonna take her home bro"... JFL.

Took my date to the nearest tram station and then we made out a bit (I think I did a decent job at kissing). She seemed like she enjoyed our time together. We then said our goodbyes and she had this cute smile.


I can honestly say I'm proud of myself. I was a bit nervous because she seemed quite dry and distant on text, but she was really warm and nice in person.



tagging some people from my previous thread: @PsychoDsk @PlayersGetPlayed @normie_joe
Ur friends coming in was actually a positive play asf my boy

High status, and you're busy with events with your boys

Barely enough time for her

They like that shit. You're In :chad:
 
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Good shit bhai
Do not wait till marriage and fuck that foid asap :feelsyay:
 
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Ur friends coming in was actually a positive play asf my boy

High status, and you're busy with events with your boys

Barely enough time for her

They like that shit. You're In :chad:
Exactly, mf got busy
 
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Friendly tip - try to steer conversation away from exes on a first date.
Yeahh I was trying to keep that topic short lmaoo. Shit is brutal
 
SO MANY TALES ITS BRUTAL
 
Rule #1 you don't take girl out to restaurants on first dates

Doesn't matter if youre incel. Always opt for coffee . Its simple and easy. Do not pay at the restaurant for someone you barely know and may or may not be compatible with.
Well its technically a 2nd date since I went on a date w her before we were in a relationship. But its the first one since we’ve been in a relationship.
 
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Sounds like a reddit copypasta
 
So yesterday I went on a date with this one girl and you guys have been giving me some tips! :love:

I took her out to a Greek restaurant. She was a little late at first tho. Ppl were staring at me thinking my date wouldn't show up. So I was visibly stressing. :forcedsmile: She eventually came though and I was relieved. We talked about various stuff and I held nice eye contact with her and she was laughing and shi. She looked amazing too (htb imo) she wore a black dress with some cleavage.

We were talking abt past relationships and stuff, tell me why this girl tells me she fucked 1 dude before me. But now she wants to be a good christian and doesn't wanna do nothing til marriage. (I'm not taking that serious). My place was close to the restaurant aswell so I was gonna to take her there afterwards.

1.5 hours went by and my friends must've seen my snapchat story and decided to come to the restaurant. I didn't tell them where I was at lmao. Already promised them that we were gonna go to the casino after my date. So they were waiting at the parking lot of the restaurant while me and this foid were still in there. Date went a little longer than I expected. They came around the time I told them I was probably gonna be free after the date. Mfs were tired of waiting so they came into the restaurant. Fucking cockblockers lmfao. I was mad asf and took them outside for a bit and told them I was gonna be done soon. They were like "I didn't know you were gonna take her home bro"... JFL.

Took my date to the nearest tram station and then we made out a bit (I think I did a decent job at kissing). She seemed like she enjoyed our time together. We then said our goodbyes and she had this cute smile.


I can honestly say I'm proud of myself. I was a bit nervous because she seemed quite dry and distant on text, but she was really warm and nice in person.



tagging some people from my previous thread: @PsychoDsk @PlayersGetPlayed @normie_joe
That was the saddest thing I read so far today, thank you, buddy. I feel so much better about myself. Thank you!
 
no sex on first date=you never see her again
 
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Well its technically a 2nd date since I went on a date w her before we were in a relationship. But its the first one since we’ve been in a relationship.
You are officially in a relationship after just one date?

She must be a teenager. Mirin' , reminds me to never date women above the age of 20 for better experiences.


Women in their 20s always have a fwb or are dating multiple people at once. They dont get attached that fast/easily
 
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You are officially in a relationship after just one date?
Well I met her way before that. Like a year ago while on vacation with my mom, my mom’s friend and her daughter.
My mom’s friend brought her own friend, and that friend brought her two daughters (one became my now-girlfriend) along on vacation.

During that vacation, I was at the mall with my mom’s friend’s daughter, my now-girlfriend, and her sister.
At some point, the others went off, leaving just my girlfriend and me. I was confused at first, but then decided to just spend some time with her. And they stayed away for a pretty long time. We had a great time and really clicked, especially when I discovered she was into anime, (which was a surprise to me cuz none of my friends are into that).

She must be a teenager. Mirin' , reminds me to never date women above the age of 20 for better experiences.
Yeah we're both 19. I was still talking to some other girl at the time I met her and I didnt know if I liked her so I let her go.. Forgot to ask her contacts :forcedsmile:. Then a year went by and I luckily met her again and talked to her again. From then on we hung out and started dating.

Haven't been able to have sex with her yet. But we did basically everything else, so its just a matter of time now.
 
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Well I met her way before that. Like a year ago while on vacation with my mom, my mom’s friend and her daughter.
My mom’s friend brought her own friend, and that friend brought her two daughters (one became my now-girlfriend) along on vacation.

During that vacation, I was at the mall with my mom’s friend’s daughter, my now-girlfriend, and her sister.
At some point, the others went off, leaving just my girlfriend and me. I was confused at first, but then decided to just spend some time with her. And they stayed away for a pretty long time. We had a great time and really clicked, especially when I discovered she was into anime, (which was a surprise to me cuz none of my friends are into that).


Yeah we're both 19. I was still talking to some other girl at the time I met her and I didnt know if I liked her so I let her go.. Forgot to ask her contacts :forcedsmile:. Then a year went by and I luckily met her again and talked to her again. From then on we hung out and started dating.

Haven't been able to have sex with her yet. But we did basically everything else, so its just a matter of time now.
Mirin teenage romance dream.

Im 29yo will be hard to find teenage girls for me ngl
 
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TLDR ?
 
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no sex on first date=you never see her again
Thats only for a lot of the mid-twenties roasties that we were/are forced to date.

Forcing intimacy on first/2nd date becomes really important with these roasties unfortunately. Lack of doing so will be seen as weak, unconfident, inexperienced, etc.

Its sad to be an inexperienced man in your (late)20s.

I reinstalled dating apps today and frauding 25yo as 29yo. Theres no other way
 
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Forcing intimacy on first/2nd date becomes really important with these roasties unfortunately. Lack of doing so will be seen as weak, unconfident, inexperienced, etc.
i did that with my oneitis, didnt go very well.
 
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So yesterday I went on a date with this one girl and you guys have been giving me some tips! :love:

I took her out to a Greek restaurant. She was a little late at first tho. Ppl were staring at me thinking my date wouldn't show up. So I was visibly stressing. :forcedsmile: She eventually came though and I was relieved. We talked about various stuff and I held nice eye contact with her and she was laughing and shi. She looked amazing too (htb imo) she wore a black dress with some cleavage.

We were talking abt past relationships and stuff, tell me why this girl tells me she fucked 1 dude before me. But now she wants to be a good christian and doesn't wanna do nothing til marriage. (I'm not taking that serious). My place was close to the restaurant aswell so I was gonna to take her there afterwards.

1.5 hours went by and my friends must've seen my snapchat story and decided to come to the restaurant. I didn't tell them where I was at lmao. Already promised them that we were gonna go to the casino after my date. So they were waiting at the parking lot of the restaurant while me and this foid were still in there. Date went a little longer than I expected. They came around the time I told them I was probably gonna be free after the date. Mfs were tired of waiting so they came into the restaurant. Fucking cockblockers lmfao. I was mad asf and took them outside for a bit and told them I was gonna be done soon. They were like "I didn't know you were gonna take her home bro"... JFL.

Took my date to the nearest tram station and then we made out a bit (I think I did a decent job at kissing). She seemed like she enjoyed our time together. We then said our goodbyes and she had this cute smile.


I can honestly say I'm proud of myself. I was a bit nervous because she seemed quite dry and distant on text, but she was really warm and nice in person.



tagging some people from my previous thread: @PsychoDsk @PlayersGetPlayed @normie_joe
Most girls are dry on text don’t take anything they do srs they are only toilets to be used and discarded when need be lol
 
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You are officially in a relationship after just one date?

She must be a teenager. Mirin' , reminds me to never date women above the age of 20 for better experiences.


Women in their 20s always have a fwb or are dating multiple people at once. They dont get attached that fast/easily
Wish this wasn’t true but it’s true
 
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How was the casino?
 
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So yesterday I went on a date with this one girl and you guys have been giving me some tips! :love:

I took her out to a Greek restaurant. She was a little late at first tho. Ppl were staring at me thinking my date wouldn't show up. So I was visibly stressing. :forcedsmile: She eventually came though and I was relieved. We talked about various stuff and I held nice eye contact with her and she was laughing and shi. She looked amazing too (htb imo) she wore a black dress with some cleavage.

We were talking abt past relationships and stuff, tell me why this girl tells me she fucked 1 dude before me. But now she wants to be a good christian and doesn't wanna do nothing til marriage. (I'm not taking that serious). My place was close to the restaurant aswell so I was gonna to take her there afterwards.

1.5 hours went by and my friends must've seen my snapchat story and decided to come to the restaurant. I didn't tell them where I was at lmao. Already promised them that we were gonna go to the casino after my date. So they were waiting at the parking lot of the restaurant while me and this foid were still in there. Date went a little longer than I expected. They came around the time I told them I was probably gonna be free after the date. Mfs were tired of waiting so they came into the restaurant. Fucking cockblockers lmfao. I was mad asf and took them outside for a bit and told them I was gonna be done soon. They were like "I didn't know you were gonna take her home bro"... JFL.

Took my date to the nearest tram station and then we made out a bit (I think I did a decent job at kissing). She seemed like she enjoyed our time together. We then said our goodbyes and she had this cute smile.


I can honestly say I'm proud of myself. I was a bit nervous because she seemed quite dry and distant on text, but she was really warm and nice in person.



tagging some people from my previous thread: @PsychoDsk @PlayersGetPlayed @normie_joe
fakecel
 
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Wish this wasn’t true but it’s true
Its not completely true, as in theres women in their 20s who dont treat dating like this. But they are rare which means the general rule is to go for girls as young as possible to avoid this shitshow as much as possible
 
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How was the casino?
Well I didnt do nun crazy, I think I placed a chip on red at a roulette table because the numbers were black a lot of times. And It ended up on black AGAIN JFL. So I was like fuck this and I didn't do much more after that. I just saw my friends do a few machines and we then went home. Cuz we're too young for 21+ clubs and theres jack shit to do in my city under 21 on that day.
 
Its not completely true, as in theres women in their 20s who dont treat dating like this. But they are rare which means the general rule is to go for girls as young as possible to avoid this shitshow
I’m aware in life nothing is an 100% guarantee but the majority of women are like this I should know as an incel 😢 like you sonny jim. We should leave Anglo land (I consider Dutch Anglo as well genetically they are the closest to the English and both women are ugly and super picky) we need to go somewhere anywhere else but Protestant Anglo belt shitholes
 
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I’m aware in life nothing is an 100% guarantee but the majority of women are like this I should know as an incel 😢 like you sonny jim. We should leave Anglo land (I consider Dutch Anglo as well genetically they are the closest to the English and both women are ugly and super picky) we need to go somewhere anywhere else but Protestant Anglo belt shitholes
I remember meeting Polish acquintainces from the countryside. 18-19yo girls, religious. They were looking for marriage. At the time I was 21yo khhv and couldnt take it serious since marriage at this age is unheard of here. There was some sexual tension but with how serious they were and how inexperienced I was, it didnt go anywhere.

Realistically I shouldve gone for it tho, and could still do so.

City life
Western life
Non-religious life
Globalist life

Aka the life all westerners are living.

It just aint it
 
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