First date with a girl

[IBlameEveryoneElse]

So this week im hanging out with this girl for the first time. She approached me at a convention and asked for my insta so i already know for sure she's somewhat attracted to me. She's also been texting first for a few days and after some small talk i set up a date for this weekend.
The problem with this is that im a turboautist virgin and fumbled a couple of htb's in the past due to my inability to escalate irl. What should i do not to fuck up this time?
I need advice on how to escalate phisically, make the convos less boring and bring up sex eventually.
Sexhavers any advice is welcome.

 

[Regressive]

kys

 

[Darkeningstar]

Mogs me. I once ghosted one because I had to play Pokémon Black

 

[Troglodyte452]

So this week im hanging out with this girl for the first time. She approached me at a convention and asked for my insta so i already know for sure she's somewhat attracted to me. She's also been texting first for a few days and after some small talk i set up a date for this weekend.
The problem with this is that im a turboautist virgin and fumbled a couple of htb's in the past due to my inability to escalate irl. What should i do not to fuck up this time?
I need advice on how to escalate phisically, make the convos less boring and bring up sex eventually.
Sexhavers any advice is welcome.

if you're attractive, you should go for bops and get your xp up. I've been fucking around with bops from tinder at first and from them I got so much game I get called a player from more normal foids when im actually high inhib

 

[IBlameEveryoneElse]

if you're attractive, you should go for bops and get your xp up. I've been fucking around with bops from tinder at first and from them I got so much game I get called a player from more normal foids when im actually high inhib

I hate sluts

 

[Troglodyte452]

I hate sluts

same, but game is game. I always make sure to hint that I know they're a bop during convo so that the bitch doesn't think she's top tier manipulator and im gonna fall for her. Once I straight up replied to her with "bop" and immediately deleted the message, she responded with "I saw that" and continued to message me anyway

 

[IBlameEveryoneElse]

Bump need legit advice

 

[sub5outsider]

physical touches are important she wouldnt mind if she attracted to you

 

[Copeful]

go for a one arm but not side hug when you first see her
hold strong eye contact
tease her
ask questions like "whats your type in guys" which can transition into more sexual topics
but you dont wanna be too overt or sexual you have to build up to it
look up coach kyle he goes more into depth

 

[whknows34]

So this week im hanging out with this girl for the first time. She approached me at a convention and asked for my insta so i already know for sure she's somewhat attracted to me. She's also been texting first for a few days and after some small talk i set up a date for this weekend.
The problem with this is that im a turboautist virgin and fumbled a couple of htb's in the past due to my inability to escalate irl. What should i do not to fuck up this time?
I need advice on how to escalate phisically, make the convos less boring and bring up sex eventually.
Sexhavers any advice is welcome.

How yall niggas live without knowing how to talk with women

 

[notalive]

How yall niggas live without knowing how to talk with women

how do you talk to women? can you make a guide please

 

[whknows34]

how do you talk to women? can you make a guide please

Mann i don't even know how to explain it's just natural to me icl. Just be flirty/playful with them and make them laugh they'll like u more don't always be serious and shit.

 

[notalive]

Mann i don't even know how to explain it's just natural to me icl. Just be flirty/playful with them and make them laugh they'll like u more don't always be serious and shit.

what if they run away after seeing me?

 

[whknows34]

what if they run away after seeing me?

then you're cooked

 

[delonisliterallyme]

treat her like a normal human, ask many questions about her, women love to talk about themselves, at the end if you feel like it ask her if she’d like you to kiss her
good luck bhai

 

[Troglodyte452]

Bump need legit advice

are you gonna be chilling at your house with her or outside? You dont mention such important things

 

[IBlameEveryoneElse]

are you gonna be chilling at your house with her or outside? You dont mention such important things

I dont live really close so we're gonna be outside. I still dont know if shes worth to ltr but for now she seems genuinely nice

 

[Troglodyte452]

I dont live really close so we're gonna be outside. I still dont know if shes worth to ltr but for now she seems genuinely nice

a lot harder to initiate then. Probably start of with a hug, what I do is I spread arms like good 2 meters before being next to her so that she sees im going in for the hug. Then during the date all you can try is like touch her shoulder when doing something but don't spam it. If the date is going really well you can try holding her hand but only if you know that she fucks with you. Then when it comes to kiss it's always tricky, all depends on the setting, if you wanna kiss during the date/when saying goodbye

 

[BadLuck7892]

I'm unable to give advice.

I'm going to commiserate, however, and mention that I'm also an autist with a hard time escalating (even though I'm no virgin)

 

[Unhuman]

So this week im hanging out with this girl for the first time. She approached me at a convention and asked for my insta so i already know for sure she's somewhat attracted to me. She's also been texting first for a few days and after some small talk i set up a date for this weekend.
The problem with this is that im a turboautist virgin and fumbled a couple of htb's in the past due to my inability to escalate irl. What should i do not to fuck up this time?
I need advice on how to escalate phisically, make the convos less boring and bring up sex eventually.
Sexhavers any advice is welcome.

She'll have sex with you if she trusts you. Give her time to trust you.

 

[rory4579]

So this week im hanging out with this girl for the first time. She approached me at a convention and asked for my insta so i already know for sure she's somewhat attracted to me. She's also been texting first for a few days and after some small talk i set up a date for this weekend.
The problem with this is that im a turboautist virgin and fumbled a couple of htb's in the past due to my inability to escalate irl. What should i do not to fuck up this time?
I need advice on how to escalate phisically, make the convos less boring and bring up sex eventually.
Sexhavers any advice is welcome.

Bring some alcohol e.g beer,wine,vodka and share it with her

a small amount alc will make u and her more confident and social, this will make it easier to get into a deep convo/intimacy

However abusing it will fuck u up or make you do something stupid that fumbles the date
Just be drunk theory
Thats how a baldcel like me pulled

Sex is an afterthought if u don't have the basics