
arabcell
we are born to suffer
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so for some backstory:
this girl i rarely talk to had a strong crush on me 3 months back, but slowly it has faded away. within this last week, shes been starting convos between us. me n her have been snapping since last week wednesday, on the way to a party on friday im 1day on delivered, she still sparks convo. we both take shots together (she has a much higher tolerance than me) but early on she starts saying I always look good, touches me and when her friends ask her for help or somethign she makes some bs excuse.
we talk for a combined time of like 2.5 hours (party was from 7pm till 11pm) but spend 1.5hrs of the time from 9pm onwards. before this, him and some guy whos 6 foot 3 mtn ( im 6 foot 4 mtn) talks to her for like 45 mins straight. now keep in mind he was meant to leave at 10:40pm, i even greeted him on the way out, but stays till 11:10pm (when i leave) just waiting for me to stop talking to this girl, I also asked him at the start of the night if he liked her or not and he said yes, so the whole time hes deathstaring me but it is what it is.
I ask her if he was okay to the girl because I saw he still hasnt left but then she asks me why do i care and i stutter and say some bs (i didnt really care tbh bcs it was kinda obvious i liked her).
once i leave, she starts spamming me and making convo and how people were wondering why me n her where in the laundry room door closed for so long etc. shes spamming me all of saturday too.
now here comes the weird part again:
i snapped her back 11pm (when our texting was done and then it just became snapping), and since then ive been on delivered for 18 fucking hours. her snapscore is going up too. its so confusing bcs in person shes crushing on me but online its a whole different situation.
please help
is this girl playing me for attention ?
im thinking of leaving her back on delivered when she snaps back for like 3-4 days, she works right next to where i live so if she sees me in person walking every now and then while shes on delivered, does this make it worth it? lmk
this girl i rarely talk to had a strong crush on me 3 months back, but slowly it has faded away. within this last week, shes been starting convos between us. me n her have been snapping since last week wednesday, on the way to a party on friday im 1day on delivered, she still sparks convo. we both take shots together (she has a much higher tolerance than me) but early on she starts saying I always look good, touches me and when her friends ask her for help or somethign she makes some bs excuse.
we talk for a combined time of like 2.5 hours (party was from 7pm till 11pm) but spend 1.5hrs of the time from 9pm onwards. before this, him and some guy whos 6 foot 3 mtn ( im 6 foot 4 mtn) talks to her for like 45 mins straight. now keep in mind he was meant to leave at 10:40pm, i even greeted him on the way out, but stays till 11:10pm (when i leave) just waiting for me to stop talking to this girl, I also asked him at the start of the night if he liked her or not and he said yes, so the whole time hes deathstaring me but it is what it is.
I ask her if he was okay to the girl because I saw he still hasnt left but then she asks me why do i care and i stutter and say some bs (i didnt really care tbh bcs it was kinda obvious i liked her).
once i leave, she starts spamming me and making convo and how people were wondering why me n her where in the laundry room door closed for so long etc. shes spamming me all of saturday too.
now here comes the weird part again:
i snapped her back 11pm (when our texting was done and then it just became snapping), and since then ive been on delivered for 18 fucking hours. her snapscore is going up too. its so confusing bcs in person shes crushing on me but online its a whole different situation.
please help

im thinking of leaving her back on delivered when she snaps back for like 3-4 days, she works right next to where i live so if she sees me in person walking every now and then while shes on delivered, does this make it worth it? lmk