foids can't feel empathetic for you.

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one thing that i experienced most of my life was limerence. Limerence is a state of intense longing and attachment for another person, often someone perceived as unavailable or perfect. A lot of times the feelings I have felt for the females were unrequited. In other words, one-sided. When we feel these deep feelings of love and connection for this person that doesn't feel the same way this isn't really love. The reason for this is you guys don't actually share a connection. It's all in your head. The memories you thought you shared with her were just her thinking of you as her subhuman attention pet. And most of the time expressing these feelings will just make them hate you more. Because they truly don't understand. And they truly are unable to. I was talking to a girl on the phone and she told me a story of how she was a camp counselor and she had to reject the kids who liked her romanticly. Her response to this was, "I don't understand why they were crying," And she wasn't lying. She truly can't understand the feelings of rejection they feel, and she will never be able to understand or empathize with you. The only feeling a female can ever feel for you is pity, they can't feel empathy because to be empathetic you have to understand the other person's feelings. The feeling of being rejected and thrown out as genetic trash at a young age is strong even for a kid who doesn't understand why its happening. And this experience a female will never be able to experience, so she can never understand. And it's a cruel thing but at the same time there is no reason to be upset about it or hate anyone because its just the way girls are programmed and the way the world works.
 
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did u make this account only to talk about limerence? is this a self improvement forum or circle jerking?
 
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dnr
 
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one thing that i experienced most of my life was limerence. Limerence is a state of intense longing and attachment for another person, often someone perceived as unavailable or perfect. A lot of times the feelings I have felt for the females were unrequited. In other words, one-sided. When we feel these deep feelings of love and connection for this person that doesn't feel the same way this isn't really love. The reason for this is you guys don't actually share a connection. It's all in your head. The memories you thought you shared with her were just her thinking of you as her subhuman attention pet. And most of the time expressing these feelings will just make them hate you more. Because they truly don't understand. And they truly are unable to. I was talking to a girl on the phone and she told me a story of how she was a camp counselor and she had to reject the kids who liked her romanticly. Her response to this was, "I don't understand why they were crying," And she wasn't lying. She truly can't understand the feelings of rejection they feel, and she will never be able to understand or empathize with you. The only feeling a female can ever feel for you is pity, they can't feel empathy because to be empathetic you have to understand the other person's feelings. The feeling of being rejected and thrown out as genetic trash at a young age is strong even for a kid who doesn't understand why its happening. And this experience a female will never be able to experience, so she can never understand. And it's a cruel thing but at the same time there is no reason to be upset about it or hate anyone because its just the way girls are programmed and the way the world works.
Fuark 10/10 of what happened with my oneitis
 
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Happened to me in 8th grade, confessed to one, she was 4y older, guess I'm a low inhib mf.

Nice post.
 
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Happened to me in 8th grade, confessed to one, she was 4y older, guess I'm a low inhib mf.

Nice post.
ty i knew people would relate
 
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Yah this is why even if your gl never show weakness to a foid or she’ll leave u
 
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They only feel empathy towards Chad
 
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True but foids do feel this as well with their oneitis
 
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True but foids do feel this as well with their oneitis
its not the same :ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO: their oneitis is chad while our oneitisis are our looksmatches, and they can get chad if they put in a little bit of effort. No amount of effort is gonna change their opinion
 
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one thing that i experienced most of my life was limerence. Limerence is a state of intense longing and attachment for another person, often someone perceived as unavailable or perfect. A lot of times the feelings I have felt for the females were unrequited. In other words, one-sided. When we feel these deep feelings of love and connection for this person that doesn't feel the same way this isn't really love. The reason for this is you guys don't actually share a connection. It's all in your head. The memories you thought you shared with her were just her thinking of you as her subhuman attention pet. And most of the time expressing these feelings will just make them hate you more. Because they truly don't understand. And they truly are unable to. I was talking to a girl on the phone and she told me a story of how she was a camp counselor and she had to reject the kids who liked her romanticly. Her response to this was, "I don't understand why they were crying," And she wasn't lying. She truly can't understand the feelings of rejection they feel, and she will never be able to understand or empathize with you. The only feeling a female can ever feel for you is pity, they can't feel empathy because to be empathetic you have to understand the other person's feelings. The feeling of being rejected and thrown out as genetic trash at a young age is strong even for a kid who doesn't understand why its happening. And this experience a female will never be able to experience, so she can never understand. And it's a cruel thing but at the same time there is no reason to be upset about it or hate anyone because its just the way girls are programmed and the way the world works.
Well written.
 
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