For God's sake i cannot approach a girl at the gym

[iblameb]

there's a girl at my gym that i kinda of want to approach but then sometimes i feel like I'm so good alone cuz i don't have to stress about talking and planning anything. But i do kind of want to approach but I cannoooootttt. My heart rate spikes higher than the fuckin piramids when i just see her walk. Jfl funny thing is i think she's a year younger than me but I'm so afraid of going and embarrassing myself

 

[snuggylion5]

High inhib classic

 

[iblameb]

High inhib classic

I know

 

[optimisticzoomer]

How are guys still not celibacymaxxing in 2026?

 

[iblameb]

How are guys still not celibacymaxxing in 2026?

Speak for yourself

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Speak for yourself

I’m celibacymaxxing

 

[Ergogenic]

there's a girl at my gym that i kinda of want to approach but then sometimes i feel like I'm so good alone cuz i don't have to stress about talking and planning anything. But i do kind of want to approach but I cannoooootttt. My heart rate spikes higher than the fuckin piramids when i just see her walk. Jfl funny thing is i think she's a year younger than me but I'm so afraid of going and embarrassing myself

Do not approach if you are not attractive.

 

[iblameb]

I’m celibacymaxxing

No regrets?

 

[iblameb]

Do not approach if you are not attractive.

5'11, black long hair, around mtn

 

[Iblame2023]

Fuck i hate being high inhib

 

[iblameb]

Fuck i hate being high inhib

Same. Wanna kms

 

[optimisticzoomer]

No regrets?

I’m only 23 but no

 

[iblameb]

I’m only 23 but no

Hope u get married one day

 

[karmacitathugmaxx]

approaching at the gym when 5 guys in the immediate vicinity mog u is a choice forsure

 

[iblameb]

approaching at the gym when 5 guys in the immediate vicinity mog u is a choice forsure

Honestly i don't really get mogged that hard at the gym. Everyone is either a gymcel with ugly face or short or idk. I stand my ground

 

[karmacitathugmaxx]

Honestly i don't really get mogged that hard at the gym. Everyone is either a gymcel with ugly face or short or idk. I stand my ground

So find a way to talk to her then damn

if you see her a lot you can literally just start off with a hey when you pass by her

 

[iblameb]

So find a way to talk to her then damn

if you see her a lot you can literally just start off with a hey when you pass by her

Too afraid. I'm a scared cuck. I gotta go up to her one day and start introducing myself

 

[karmacitathugmaxx]

Too afraid. I'm a scared cuck. I gotta go up to her one day and start introducing myself

what specifically are you scared of tbh

 

[ThraxxGlo]

girls going to the gym is so unappealing anyways

 

[iblameb]

what specifically are you scared of tbh

Embarrassing myself, stuttering or seeming very dumb and stupid. Word spreading i fucked up

 

[iblameb]

girls going to the gym is so unappealing anyways

Well yes but that one has a thick ass abs big tits

 

[ThraxxGlo]

Well yes but that one has a thick ass abs big tits

attention whores

 

[iblameb]

attention whores

Nuh, she doesn't even dress aggressively, very quiet but even in baggy pants i can see that ass

 

[tomahawk]

Just go bro

 

[iblameb]

Just go bro

Requires too much courage from me

 

[karmacitathugmaxx]

Embarrassing myself, stuttering or seeming very dumb and stupid. Word spreading i fucked up

ok all valid fears but surely the guys you see grunting while doing the fucking pec dec are more embarrassing and they still do that shit every time

Word spreading to who exactly? Im assuming nobody in the gym knows your ass, cause if they did you wouldn't be in there alone

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

there's a girl at my gym that i kinda of want to approach but then sometimes i feel like I'm so good alone cuz i don't have to stress about talking and planning anything. But i do kind of want to approach but I cannoooootttt. My heart rate spikes higher than the fuckin piramids when i just see her walk. Jfl funny thing is i think she's a year younger than me but I'm so afraid of going and embarrassing myself

Give her a sample.

Next time you see her, run to the locker room and jerk off into your hand. Carrying the icebreaker, go to her and introduce yourself with your hand. After she shakes it, if she freaks out and says, "The fuck was that?"

Tell her, "That was a sample."

 

[iblameb]

ok all valid fears but surely the guys you see grunting while doing the fucking pec dec are more embarrassing and they still do that shit every time

Had a grown man squatting 50kg yelling at his hardest

Word spreading to who exactly? Im assuming nobody in the gym knows your ass, cause if they did you wouldn't be in there alone

I know like all the guys in the gym but good thing that girl prolly only knows like 1-2

 

[iblameb]

Give her a sample.

Next time you see her, run to the locker room and jerk off into your hand. Carrying the icebreaker, go to her and introduce yourself with your hand. After she shakes it, if she freaks out and says, "The fuck was that?"

Tell her, "That was a sample."

And i thought i was creative. Good advice

 

[karmacitathugmaxx]

Had a grown man squatting 50kg yelling at his hardest

I know like all the guys in the gym but good thing that girl prolly only knows like 1-2

You know all the guys in there and cant ask for an assist bruh?

Come on now

seriously mane the next time you walk by her just smile and say hey then keep walking maybe she will say something to u the next time u see her

or she will ignore u, and the one guy who was watching will think 'damn brutal ' and then go back to his set

 

[iblameb]

You know all the guys in there and cant ask for an assist bruh?

How, what do i plan?

or she will ignore u, and the one guy who was watching will think 'damn brutal ' and then go back to his set

U think so? I might try

 

[White_Bwoi]

Low inhibition is literally the most important thing tbh... There is 10x more chance when im near blackout drunk that ill woke up with peak blonde next to me, then sober (happened few days ago).

Just take pregabalin for that specific case.

 

[iblameb]

Just take pregabalin for that specific case.

Too late, I'm not waiting for my order to be delivered and don't got enough money

Low inhibition is literally the most important thing tbh... There is 10x more chance when im near blackout drunk that ill woke up with peak blonde next to me, then sober (happened few days ago).

Successful slay, congrats bhai. But yeah i know when I'm drunk all anxiety is wiped out

 

[karmacitathugmaxx]

How, what do i plan?

U think so? I might try

yeah i used this method at work its pretty solid

if you're known for being the type of person who doesn't go up and introduce himself, then a light signal of interest like a smile and wave can get her to introduce herself instead. Figure out what specific exercises that you both do, then you have shit to talk about if she does start a conversation.

 

[iblameb]

yeah i used this method at work its pretty solid

if you're known for being the type of person who doesn't go up and introduce himself, then a light signal of interest like a smile and wave can get her to introduce herself instead. Figure out what specific exercises that you both do, then you have shit to talk about if she does start a conversation.

Isn't it a bit weird smiling and saying hi to a girl u don't know at all?

 

[Brava]

Gym is cope that’s why you are scared because you are in a place that is un natural. When I used to go to the gym I wanted to approach a older women and tell her a compliment because I wanted to be more social ( I never did that and quit the gym 2 weeks later)

 

[iblameb]

( I never did that and quit the gym 2 weeks later)

Brutal

Gym is cope that’s why you are scared because you are in a place that is un natural. When I used to go to the gym I wanted to approach a older women and tell her a compliment because I wanted to be more social

Well yes but having muscle is a great cope and super attractive to women

 

[karmacitathugmaxx]

Isn't it a bit weird smiling and saying hi to a girl u don't know at all?

No? You're just trying to establish familiarity with someone that you see often.

Alternatively, you can ask one of your gym buddies (who already has a gf) to get his gf to approach the girl for you. Either easy dubs or you can get your L without any guys knowing about it

 

[Brava]

Brutal

Well yes but having muscle is a great cope and super attractive to women

just get slim shredded and have a aesthetic slim muscular build that’s it no need for bodybuilding g

 

[iblameb]

No? You're just trying to establish familiarity with someone that you see often.

Alternatively, you can ask one of your gym buddies (who already has a gf) to get his gf to approach the girl for you. Either easy dubs or you can get your L without any guys knowing about it

Hhmm, gotta give it a go. Thanks dude

 

[iblameb]

just get slim shredded and have a aesthetic slim muscular build that’s it no need for bodybuilding g

Very hard to cut and only lose fat + i need hormone optimization

 

[Brava]

Very hard to cut and only lose fat + i need hormone optimization

Just do all the gym and debloating shit after puberty

 

[iblameb]

Just do all the gym and debloating shit after puberty