Found out my wife was sexting a “promoter.” I’m lost, angry and confused, but I’m to blame. Advice?

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I’m an idiot. My wife was laid off from her job, and felt a lot of pressure to help financially, since I had a seizure and had to take a temporary leave from work.

She floated the idea of doing OnlyFans, and I was 100% against it, but she said it would only be feet content (not showing her face or being nude)

She starts her OnlyFans, and kept her word, but here’s where it gets sticky.

She meets some “promoter” here on Reddit. He claims that he helped girls in the past promote their OnlyFans.

He then proceeds to offer to fly her out, and sent her a picture, and she responds “there’s a difference between thinking someone is attractive and physically cheating on my husband”

Things escalated after this. He asked for a picture for “promo” with his UN written on her butt. She sends it, and he makes a comment about how steady her handwriting looks, and that she probably gives good hand jobs and she says “I know that’s right”

Things continue to escalate from here. He asks for more pictures for “promo” She sends them. She send him random pics during the day. He’s sending her pictures of his penis and him doing things with other girls. Saying he’s imagining her sucking his dick and she says “I’m good at it” she then asks him “do you taste sweet? My husband always does”

She had a fake Snapchat, and he called her to talk about his “idea” (he wanted her to make a YT account of her feet). She deleted the call from her log, but it showed in snap. After this call, he makes a comment about her feet “I love your feet, I can only imagine what the rest of your body looks like”

She sends a picture of her chest and face with her nipples covered with the caption “come suck on these titties”

Fast forward a few days, he asks her for JOI (jerk off instructions) and she helps him to completion, she also sends videos of her rubbing her feet together.

They had other conversations about sex and he asked her to do things with him, and she said “I’d rather do that with my husband”

When I found out, I was broken. She didn’t tell me all the details, and lied when pressed about the situation.

She said “I found him attractive from the first picture, but changed my mind when I saw more”

She claimed she never told him to do anything to her (remember the come suck on these picture!?). She claimed she forgot she sent that.

She said she had a thought about stopping and how wrong she felt doing this, but then helped him masterbate after.

She said, it was hard to stop because she thought he was actually promoting here and she felt good about herself. She said she was using him and following what other girls in this OF group said to do. That if she stopped, she thought he wouldn’t help.

She lied so much in the beginning, and I don’t know what to believe. This guy is a creeper, and just said a bunch of shit to me that wasn’t true.

This entire ordeal lasted 2 weeks. I thought she had feelings for him, she said no, never, that she was using him.

What the hell do I do?
 
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I’m an idiot. My wife was laid off from her job, and felt a lot of pressure to help financially, since I had a seizure and had to take a temporary leave from work.

She floated the idea of doing OnlyFans, and I was 100% against it, but she said it would only be feet content (not showing her face or being nude)

She starts her OnlyFans, and kept her word, but here’s where it gets sticky.

She meets some “promoter” here on Reddit. He claims that he helped girls in the past promote their OnlyFans.

He then proceeds to offer to fly her out, and sent her a picture, and she responds “there’s a difference between thinking someone is attractive and physically cheating on my husband”

Things escalated after this. He asked for a picture for “promo” with his UN written on her butt. She sends it, and he makes a comment about how steady her handwriting looks, and that she probably gives good hand jobs and she says “I know that’s right”

Things continue to escalate from here. He asks for more pictures for “promo” She sends them. She send him random pics during the day. He’s sending her pictures of his penis and him doing things with other girls. Saying he’s imagining her sucking his dick and she says “I’m good at it” she then asks him “do you taste sweet? My husband always does”

She had a fake Snapchat, and he called her to talk about his “idea” (he wanted her to make a YT account of her feet). She deleted the call from her log, but it showed in snap. After this call, he makes a comment about her feet “I love your feet, I can only imagine what the rest of your body looks like”

She sends a picture of her chest and face with her nipples covered with the caption “come suck on these titties”

Fast forward a few days, he asks her for JOI (jerk off instructions) and she helps him to completion, she also sends videos of her rubbing her feet together.

They had other conversations about sex and he asked her to do things with him, and she said “I’d rather do that with my husband”

When I found out, I was broken. She didn’t tell me all the details, and lied when pressed about the situation.

She said “I found him attractive from the first picture, but changed my mind when I saw more”

She claimed she never told him to do anything to her (remember the come suck on these picture!?). She claimed she forgot she sent that.

She said she had a thought about stopping and how wrong she felt doing this, but then helped him masterbate after.

She said, it was hard to stop because she thought he was actually promoting here and she felt good about herself. She said she was using him and following what other girls in this OF group said to do. That if she stopped, she thought he wouldn’t help.

She lied so much in the beginning, and I don’t know what to believe. This guy is a creeper, and just said a bunch of shit to me that wasn’t true.

This entire ordeal lasted 2 weeks. I thought she had feelings for him, she said no, never, that she was using him.

What the hell do I do?
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