Friend says that rock climbing, book clubs/stores and after-work events are full of “husband hunters”

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And often 75% post-uni aged women exclusively seeking an LTR/husband. Friend says he wants to slay.
Why’s this so nowadays? @Always Stay You @Whatever

Also this guy talks about slaying women from these places (which from my hMTN athletic mulatto friend’s experience is quite hard, because 99% of the women there are husband hunting)

Other physical/outdoorsy hobbies like climbing, hiking, running, biking. In every city there are usually clubs or groups where you can do things like this with other people. Art/painting/drawing, reading/book clubs. Go to events in your city or town. Sure, you probably arent going to meet raunchy slayer dudes in a hiking or book club but you can meet normal guys to have a beer with. There’s also a shit ton of women that join these clubs/do activities like that. If you look good and stand out you can slay that way.

Equinox gyms are also full of husband hunters complaining about no attention or the men are gay.

 
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Proof?
 
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My guess is that oofy doofy potential beta buxxers indulge in those hobbies. They can meet chad to pump and dump them on instagram.

And often 75% post-uni aged women exclusively seeking an LTR/husband. Friend says he wants to slay.

They take so much dick starting from early teens normally. They can settle down mid 20s. See my thread:

 
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@RealNinja
 
My guess is that oofy doofy potential beta buxxers indulge in those hobbies. They can meet chad to pump and dump them on instagram.
My wife’s half ethnic htb friend is with a Chad ltr and didn’t meet off IG. They met off mutual professional networking
They take so much dick starting from early teens normally. They can settle down mid 20s. See my thread:

@Whatever even mentioned that women are getting promiscuous at younger ages and that 20 is the new 25
 
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My wife’s half ethnic htb friend is with a Chad ltr and didn’t meet off IG. They met off mutual professional networking

@Whatever even mentioned that women are getting promiscuous at younger ages and that 20 is the new 25
asian?
 
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It's probably true, I didn't know about the rock climbing part
But women who hunt for husbands are a giant red flag IMO, also they're the ones that always have unreal expectations of what men they want.
 
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And often 75% post-uni aged women exclusively seeking an LTR/husband. Friend says he wants to slay.
Why’s this so nowadays? @Always Stay You @Whatever

Also this guy talks about slaying women from these places (which from my hMTN athletic mulatto friend’s experience is quite hard, because 99% of the women there are husband hunting)



Equinox gyms are also full of husband hunters complaining about no attention or the men are gay.

Thanks. Now I know where I’m going next
 
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Big on the running shit here in LA. See so many fucking slaves running and running deteriorating their bodys.
 
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And often 75% post-uni aged women exclusively seeking an LTR/husband. Friend says he wants to slay.
Why’s this so nowadays? @Always Stay You @Whatever

Also this guy talks about slaying women from these places (which from my hMTN athletic mulatto friend’s experience is quite hard, because 99% of the women there are husband hunting)



Equinox gyms are also full of husband hunters complaining about no attention or the men are gay.

@basedblackpiller
 
Lol I’m a teenager brah I’ve never even been to a fucking hiking club or book club. I just know there’s a lot of women at those places. It makes sense that they could be in their mid-late 20s and have their pussy under lock and key. But we all know that there are zero rules for Chad
 
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anything else?
Lol I’m a teenager brah I’ve never even been to a fucking hiking club or book club. I just know there’s a lot of women at those places. It makes sense that they could be in their mid-late 20s and have their pussy under lock and key. But we all know that there are zero rules for Chad
You said these places are for slaying. However, 90% of the women there are LTR only, to find a husband—even those who are 20 and uni-aged.
Also, they get pumped and dumped by nerds, indie guys, oofy doofies (as proof on reddit and "are we dating the same guy" groups). Women who are husband hunting are ironically AFRAID OF HTN+ men.
 
And often 75% post-uni aged women exclusively seeking an LTR/husband. Friend says he wants to slay.
Why’s this so nowadays?

Also this guy talks about slaying women from these places (which from my hMTN athletic mulatto friend’s experience is quite hard, because 99% of the women there are husband hunting)
it is a good observation.

Dating through work is frowned upon nowadays and men don't approach anymore because they don't want to have their career prospects tampered with because they "sexually harassed" a co-worker. Also, it's becoming increasingly rare for people in urban environments to have a good social circle in their late 20s or early 30s. So they revert to sports clubs etc. to meet new people.

Slaying these women is probably not that hard if you invite them to a dinner and pretend to be looking to settle down too. Still, you're poisoning the well if you start sleeping, and basically stringing along the same women in a small group - this is asking for trouble.
I'd argue that Salse classes/evenings are different, as they attract a different crowd, more passionate or sexually open-minded women who are seeking physical contact with other men, rather than trying to force them into a marriage.
 
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it is a good observation.

Dating through work is frowned upon nowadays and men don't approach anymore because they don't want to have their career prospects tampered with because they "sexually harassed" a co-worker.
Women also complain that the workplace has men they don't want (often older men) - they ideally want a man in his prime that's about their age.
Also, it's becoming increasingly rare for people in urban environments to have a good social circle in their late 20s or early 30s. So they revert to sports clubs etc. to meet new people.
Especially men. It seems most women still have it good up to this regard, it's just that many seem to be afraid of OLD or social media because they will be competing with many other women for men.
Slaying these women is probably not that hard if you invite them to a dinner and pretend to be looking to settle down too.
Some women (not all) are VERY VERY GOOD at manipulating the man to get him locked into an LTR/marriage. They will vet endlessly and test you.
Still, you're poisoning the well if you start sleeping, and basically stringing along the same women in a small group - this is asking for trouble.
They WILL put you on "are we dating the same guy" groups if you do that and your reputation will be tarnished.
I'd argue that Salse classes/evenings are different, as they attract a different crowd, more passionate or sexually open-minded women who are seeking physical contact with other men, rather than trying to force them into a marriage.
Their endgoal is still marriage
 
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it is a good observation.

Dating through work is frowned upon nowadays and men don't approach anymore because they don't want to have their career prospects tampered with because they "sexually harassed" a co-worker. Also, it's becoming increasingly rare for people in urban environments to have a good social circle in their late 20s or early 30s. So they revert to sports clubs etc. to meet new people.

Slaying these women is probably not that hard if you invite them to a dinner and pretend to be looking to settle down too. Still, you're poisoning the well if you start sleeping, and basically stringing along the same women in a small group - this is asking for trouble.

I'd argue that Salse classes/evenings are different, as they attract a different crowd, more passionate or sexually open-minded women who are seeking physical contact with other men, rather than trying to force them into a marriage.
It's probably true, I didn't know about the rock climbing part
But women who hunt for husbands are a giant red flag IMO, also they're the ones that always have unreal expectations of what men they want.
Thanks. Now I know where I’m going next
My guess is that oofy doofy potential beta buxxers indulge in those hobbies. They can meet chad to pump and dump them on instagram.



They take so much dick starting from early teens normally. They can settle down mid 20s. See my thread:

another comment I found off Wheat Waffles:
Traditional betabuxxing is not the way to go, definitely. However, what 100% of blackpillers including wheat waffles himself never mention is the "darkbetabuxxing", the hidden side of betabuxxing.
Basically if you make good money or a lot of money, let's say you're a doctor, which is probably like top 5% in income/status, you can use that as bait for attractive women in the 27-33 range who are looking for marriage and shopping for a husband.
You deceive them with promises of commitment and marriage, you dangle the commitment carrot in front of them. You don't even have to spend serious money on them. And once they take the bait, you pump and dump them.
Tyrone and Chad used their looks as a bait, you now use your money and stability as a bait.
Women increasingly make more and more money, but somehow their hypergamy still goes strong, especially when they are looking for marriage.
Also, the sexual revolution has put sex before marriage, which means you can deceive your way in without actual penalties. It's not only the Chads and Tyrones who can use that to their advantage in order to get laid. Successful guys can use that to their advantage as well, except it only works for women in their late 20s and up, instead of women in their late teens and early 20s.
Also, mentioning your occupation, let's say being a doctor, might not work very well on TInder, but it definitely works to some extent on Hinge and Bumble, especially with hot single moms looking for a stepdad or hot women approaching 30 who are shopping for a husband.
When you mix subterfuge with betabuxxing, you get darkbetabuxxing. It might not get you the wife you want, but it will definitely get your dick wet. Assuming of course you achieve a good amount of success first.
 
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it is a good observation.

Dating through work is frowned upon nowadays and men don't approach anymore because they don't want to have their career prospects tampered with because they "sexually harassed" a co-worker. Also, it's becoming increasingly rare for people in urban environments to have a good social circle in their late 20s or early 30s. So they revert to sports clubs etc. to meet new people.

Slaying these women is probably not that hard if you invite them to a dinner and pretend to be looking to settle down too. Still, you're poisoning the well if you start sleeping, and basically stringing along the same women in a small group - this is asking for trouble.

I'd argue that Salse classes/evenings are different, as they attract a different crowd, more passionate or sexually open-minded women who are seeking physical contact with other men, rather than trying to force them into a marriage.
@Brus Wane

Salsa/Bachata/Cha Cha/Tango

I saw a few classes that my local is recommending to me

It's obvious that is a blind dating session in disguise

It's relatively cheap

About 15-25 bucks per session , nothing above 30

Pros : nearly all the men are below MTN

Cons : nearly all the women are above 30
 
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Salsa/Bachata/Cha Cha/Tango

I saw a few classes that my local is recommending to me

It's obvious that is a blind dating session in disguise

It's relatively cheap

About 15-25 bucks per session , nothing above 30

Pros : nearly all the men are below MTN

Cons : nearly all the women are above 30
And of course, the women are husband shopping?
I also why the men are usually below MTN. Yes, women complain about this
 
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And of course, the women are husband shopping?
Idts they subconsciously know that the good men are elsewhere

They just want social interaction and attention from guys who think they will get lucky

I also why the men are usually below MTN. Yes, women complain about this
Brutal

Sub 5 women complaining about being with sub5 guys
 
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Idts they subconsciously know that the good men are elsewhere

They just want social interaction and attention from guys who think they will get lucky


Brutal

Sub 5 women complaining about being with sub5 guys
ironically some of these women are white HTBs.
 
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Idts they subconsciously know that the good men are elsewhere

They just want social interaction and attention from guys who think they will get lucky


Brutal

Sub 5 women complaining about being with sub5 guys
another comment found on lolcow.farm

Ntayrt but your post kind of encapsulates the issue. Nobody is wasting anybody else's time by not texting back because nobody is entitled to anybody else's time. Nobody has to respond to you if they don't want to, and you don't have to respond to anybody if you don't want to. That's just how the world works. Getting angry that someone "ghosted" you is similar to getting angry that someone didn't hold the door open for you or didn't let you merge into their lane on the road.
Lol no, especially if it happened in a dating context, the moids absolutely do have an obligation. Post those ghosting fuckers on AWDTSG so the rest of us can avoid them, ladies. They're pieces of shit.
Yes it happened in a “dating context” where we had sex and now he hasn’t responded to my texts for a week. I know he’s not that busy because I’ve checked and his Instagram is active. I don’t feel entitled to his time I just feel used and gross because even one single “hey I don’t want to see you anymore” text would at least feel slightly better than radio silence…also I know, I won’t do this kind of thing again, I’m becoming celibate because this experience is so embarrassing.
yeah I think he’s an asshole too, what the fuck. It was literally the chase/fuck/ghost cliche, like he was soooo into me until I degraded myself for HIS PLEASURE. He’s not that cute and I don’t even like him that much but it’s bugging me that he’s probably sitting there laughing about how he won and telling him friends about his conquest. ew
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He's a piece of shit. Fuckboy got what he wanted and then bounced. I highly suggest following FDS guidelines for dating, which states NO SEX until the guy makes an explicit commitment (which means different things to different people, but personally I would suggest waiting until the boyfriend/girlfriend label is made official)

Sadly this is something a lot of women go through, and some even consider it a form of sexual assault (rape by deception, ie the guy lures you into sex under the false pretenses of wanting a serious relationship but he just wants sex, so it's not informed consent). Feeling used and gross afterwards is normal, because this is not what you consented to.
 
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@Always Stay You (about women being pumped and dumped and wanting it to be formally labelled "rape by deception")
 
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I went rock climbing one time and it was a sausage fest
 
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I went rock climbing one time and it was a sausage fest
How long ago was this?
Friend says here, it's 75% women aged 21-35 "clearly looking for a LTR/husband"
 
How long ago was this?
Friend says here, it's 75% women aged 21-35 "clearly looking for a LTR/husband"

Few months ago like 5
 
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might be different dynamics in kangarooland compared to the UK. What's it like down there?
@Ritalincel tagging kangaroocel
 
Salsa/Bachata/Cha Cha/Tango

I saw a few classes that my local is recommending to me

It's obvious that is a blind dating session in disguise

It's relatively cheap

About 15-25 bucks per session , nothing above 30

Pros : nearly all the men are below MTN

Cons : nearly all the women are above 30
Facts. But another positive: the few women under 25 are turbosluts.
 
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