same thing is happening to me rn. Ngl bro its fucking over if they dont invite you to all hang outs. thats my view of things tbh
Used to have a friend group exactly like this i was pretty neglected and got ignored and kicked out of gc's the second school ended they all stopped being friends with me, its been like 2+ years of me having no friends now lmao but atleast i dont have fake friends
I wouldn’t say there’s any differences. What I can say is that they call me out for being “rude” and “mean” (I’m brutally honest about my opinions in whatever is being talked about I could care less) but then again people are comforted more by lies then the truth jfl so when they hear the truth it’s perceived as rude or mean. I’ve kept the NT act up but some of my friends do know about the blackpill and looksmax have called it out in hangouts but never opened my mouth about it. Other then that I don’t really know, kinda went off topic mb
you two might have autism, especially if you accidentally come off as rude. it's a NT thing to be polite and not tell the truth, if they're not invitting you then you're just a supplementary friend.
Yea I figured.
jfl theres no such thing as a supplementary friend. You're just a gullible retard that they want to use. You're either a friend or not one at all
Brutal too actually hear this but I started to not talk as much in the hangouts I was included in due to being called out. My fault tbh
it's fine bro we're all autistic here, i stopped eating gluten and it greatly improved my social life
similarly my group of friends is amazing and they occasionally leave me out (or blame me when i can’t hang out that day because my family has something planned or i was busy doing other stuff to even see the messages) but for the most part they’re great.
I was also hated on for not doing substances so I indulged in them, fucked me up. I smoked everyday for like 6-8 months but I had my run with weed and I’m high off life now so I’m winning, unlike my group who is still drinking and smoking and who knows what else they’re putting in their body.
So real bro, it seems like it is a requirement to check on them like everyday or the relationship will strain even over the holidays. Sometimes I just want to be left alone but I don’t want to feel alone idk how to explain it man you feel me
I’ve gave up even trying to hit them up first or talk to them I honestly just do not care anymore. Now I’d prefer to be alone than with them and tbh I feel a lot better. There’s only a couple I’d actually call real friends but they live in a different city and only visit a couple a times.So real bro, it seems like it is a requirement to check on them like everyday or the relationship will strain even over the holidays. Sometimes I just want to be left alone but I don’t want to feel alone idk how to explain it man you feel me
I don’t know, it seems really hard to get real genuine friends man. I don’t think the problem is making one but more or so finding a real one. For some reason all the real ones are all retarded and autistic
I get you, the group of “friends” I had in 7th grade were people that did not acknowledge me at all and I was only with them to have some sort of value and too feel something for my self but they could’ve cared less about me. The group of I’m talking about now I met in 8th grade and have been my “friends” since then I mean there all good people but don’t really care about one another no more I don’t really know what happened. The ones I’ve labeled as “real” kinda know me personally but they don’t know much of what I’ve been through but it’s also because I don’t speak up much about it. (There’s way more too this but it would be to much to type, gets confusing and mb for going off)
High key Im in the same exact situation but I think Im kinda lucky because Im still friends with my OG crew from elementary school so I still have a backup friend group
Nah being the supplementary friend is high IQ. From an outside perspective you get the status that comes along with being in a friendship group, but you don't actually have to do anything with them because they don't invite you to anything. It's a win-win, they get to 'clown' you for being the 'group victim' (jfl if you care about normies clowning you), while you get higher status for doing absolutely nothing.
Stick with the OGs tbh it’s probably for the better and we actually plan on getting together today and only inviting some of the real friends and not the other selfish ones. We don’t give a fuck if they find out cus they don’t see their wrong doings but I kinda hope they do find out just so they can feel what others do.
This is actually a goated method
