from social retard to cream of the social circle

[flamboyant]

did someone went from being socially retard with no friends to maxxing social circle? if so what are ur tips?

 

[Entschuldigung]

I did the reverse way

 

[NVRH]

Kinda did it. Before high school I was a geek loner with very few friends ; not autistic still.

During High school, I made sure to befriend the coolest people around and ended as one of the most popular kids in my town. Ofc, that involved a lot of parties, drugs, not going to class etc in order to socialmaxx.

Thing is, this shit lasts 3 y and then you're just a nobody again, but with poor health / grades / future.

Thats why the people who peak in high school are often depressed and struggle to fit in the adult world.

 

[JustAFewMM]

I did the reverse way

Same lol, how tf did that happen

 

[Entschuldigung]

Same lol, how tf did that happen

For me it was staying too much inside instead of going out

 

[Deleted member 4209]

For me it was staying too much inside instead of going out

i was never popular but i had small group friends in school

then puberty happened.


then they told me it would improve in uni and it got worse.

 

[Entschuldigung]

i was never popular but i had small group friends in school

then puberty happened.


then they told me it would improve in uni and it got worse.

Real bro
I have 0 real friends in Uni right now ded srs, already and I accepted I won't have any friend there
I don't fit with the people there so it's over but I can hold a conversation or whatever

 

[Deleted member 4209]

Real bro
I have 0 real friends in Uni right now ded srs, already and I accepted I won't have any friend there
I don't fit with the people there so it's over but I can hold a conversation or whatever

mogs me

for the first 2 years i would leave my lunch half eaten and just walk out of the cafeteria if a girl sat opposite me

 

[Entschuldigung]

mogs me

for the first 2 years i would leave my lunch half eaten and just walk out of the cafeteria if a girl sat opposite me

I'm low ihnib maybe that's why but i don't feel comfortable with them

 

[CrazyFitLover]

Yes, everyone is soialy retartd at some point, you just have to expose yourselft aand you will learn what's acceptable and what's not. I was kinda introvert before 14-15, then i exposed my self to more people, sometimes said cringy things, hovewer i learned and improved, now i have good social inteligence, i can sense what's going on, whaat to say and such.

 

[CommanderCope]

I did the reverse way

Same ahahah. Though my friendships from secondary school were already fading away years prior (due to a shift in our interests, i.e they got shit faced drunk a lot and it had 0 appeal to me) so it wasn't an immediate drop into friendlessness.