bleedinginfras
i love tall women
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a few days ago my girlfriend broke up with me i was actually the one who caused the situation because she had done quite a few things that really broke my heart and made me not love her anymore
i wanted her to be the one to end it because i couldnt do it ( she would ruin my reputation or hurt herself )
the thing is, a few days later, she came back to me crying telling me that she loves me and that she wants us to fix things but i dont want that and i really dont love her anymore
the problem is that it really hurts to see her crying like that, i feel some kind of guilt even though i know its not really my fault or my responsibility
i dont know what to do to stop feeling this way especially since she keeps contacting me, ive blocked her everywhere except her phone number in case she has a few last things to say before we completely stop talking but i feel like shes trying to make me feel guilty by sending me messages ( “i thought i saw love in your eyes, but it was only the reflection of my own” and other messages ) i ignore them but it makes me sad, im not a monster
also at my high school people have started spreading rumors
she and her friends have been saying that i cheated on her and thats why we broke up
thats not true at all i never even came close to cheating when we were together, shes saying that because toward the end of our relationship i was very cold and distant with her so she started thinking i was cheating
my relationship with her completely destroyed my social life i wasn’t allowed to have female friends and since i spent so much time with her i didn’t really have real friends anymore more like acquaintances than actual friends
and now i dont know how to expand my social circle both with guys and girls, i also dont know how to go out with a larger group of friends or how to be included in parties, things like that
i have excellent social skills, i can make a conversation with almost everyone and make them laugh and im not socialy awkward
i just dont know how to start
and im not that bad physicaly, in tall and have a slightly above average face, maybe it will help with social life ?
i feel like i forgot a few things so ill add them later when ill remember them
any advice ?
im 16
i wanted her to be the one to end it because i couldnt do it ( she would ruin my reputation or hurt herself )
the thing is, a few days later, she came back to me crying telling me that she loves me and that she wants us to fix things but i dont want that and i really dont love her anymore
the problem is that it really hurts to see her crying like that, i feel some kind of guilt even though i know its not really my fault or my responsibility
i dont know what to do to stop feeling this way especially since she keeps contacting me, ive blocked her everywhere except her phone number in case she has a few last things to say before we completely stop talking but i feel like shes trying to make me feel guilty by sending me messages ( “i thought i saw love in your eyes, but it was only the reflection of my own” and other messages ) i ignore them but it makes me sad, im not a monster
also at my high school people have started spreading rumors
she and her friends have been saying that i cheated on her and thats why we broke up
thats not true at all i never even came close to cheating when we were together, shes saying that because toward the end of our relationship i was very cold and distant with her so she started thinking i was cheating
my relationship with her completely destroyed my social life i wasn’t allowed to have female friends and since i spent so much time with her i didn’t really have real friends anymore more like acquaintances than actual friends
and now i dont know how to expand my social circle both with guys and girls, i also dont know how to go out with a larger group of friends or how to be included in parties, things like that
i have excellent social skills, i can make a conversation with almost everyone and make them laugh and im not socialy awkward
i just dont know how to start
and im not that bad physicaly, in tall and have a slightly above average face, maybe it will help with social life ?
i feel like i forgot a few things so ill add them later when ill remember them
any advice ?
im 16
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