Fucking brutal. A bit of a heightpill (maybe agepill also)

[eduardkoopman]

First I didn't get/understand why this guy got so many pretty bad/harsh rejections. And then it dawned upon me. It's his height (i'm tall myself, so I always tend to forget that factor).

This one is pretty brutal, to watch.
While this guy is actually really respectful and nice in his style/approach towards women.

Many guys do this, me included often in the past.
- When getting bad vibe from the get go, trying to stay in there and make something of it. Besides it being a waiste of time, it's also confidence/feeling/mood crushing. Just eject, even without a word if the repsonse is bad/rejective/uninterested. Because, reminder to oneself and all guys chatting up women. Women know within a few seconds they find you bangeable or not; and if she finds you bangeable and is up for that idea she won't re-act bad/rejective when you approach in her. So you screen when chatting up, for finding the women that in these 3 seconds thought "he's bangeable, and I would like to bang him". If a normie, then it will only be few women who think that.
- While at the same time, when it is going well and the woman act interested us men might way to often be the one saying goodbye/ejecting (way to soon).
Likewise this dude. Could be better in seeing, the limited times, when the women that did have interest from the get go, to have longer conversation and setup for new meetup, telephone number exchange, or immediately going somewhere to sit down or etc..

 

[eduardkoopman]

reminder to others and self.
This is (that white blond guy with no game); what interest looks like. If you don't get a similar reaction from a woman like this blond dude. Aka:
attention (aka them looking at you, and following you with eyes plus body position to where you stand),
eye contact,
smile - vibe,
body language ;
them engagement in words.

If it's not a bit like that. Then eject that convo, because fucking waisting your time.



That dude, has like no game.
Yet, women are standing around him like this (all attention on him), while is boring as fuck.

 

[Effortless]

Why are you watching this dogshit?

 

[Deleted member 3328]

I'm not reading that for free

 

[eduardkoopman]

Why are you watching this dogshit?

Getting ready to soon start chatting up randoms women again. And kinda mentally preparing myself again, for the brutal stuff I will likely have to endure. Maybe my expectations are wrong, i hope so.

 

[Effortless]

Never mind, I watched it too.

Also retarded comparison, comparing a 50 year old approaching uni students, to a normie approaching middle aged women? Who do you think will have more success? also different time line, females expectations have changed a lot since when ever the bottom one was filmed.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Also retarded comparison, comparing a 50 year old approaching uni students,

i agree, that that seems for this dude a sigfnificant factor, that doesn't help in his case. Although i also understand, that this dude finds uni-girls most attractive. because whatever age a man is, 20 year olds always look the best.
I would assume this man would do better with women that are older. But I noticed he actually is kinda short, which is big hindrance actually I heard.

a normie approaching middle aged women? Who do you think will have more success?

I would assume that a normie younger man, would have an easier time approaching middle aged women. At least easier as in, that he will be met with more friendliness. Success as in sex; I don't know.

also different time line, females expectations have changed a lot since when ever the bottom one was filmed.

the bottom one, was from when I was still young-ish. Like 2007 orso It must have been. Pre Tinder/dating apps time. Although I would think a dude looking like that, would do pretty similar as back then. Although I don't have hard evidence for that.