Full breakdown of indicators of interest (IOI). Are you delusional or in touch with reality?

[moreroidsmoredates]

So, many users here lack self-awareness when it comes down to these things.
They are very clueless and uneducated when it comes down to human body language.

So, from what i’ve seen when observing sub 5s, normies and chads IRL and reading scientific literature, articles and watching tons of videos about this subject; here is what I’ve concluded:

- Women looking at you:

So, does every women who looks at you is interested in you? The answer is obviously no.
But does that mean there is zero intrest from every women? The answer is again no.

Look, a lot of people have a binary worldview about these signs. It’s either ‘approach’ or ‘cope’. They all fail to read in between the lines.

But what does it mean when a women looks at me?

A women who constantly looks at you in public, whether that be in the gym, grocery store, school etc. That’s not normal. Women don’t look at guys they don’t find attractive.
Why? Because they don’t want to give you the idea that they might be interested in you, so they do everything in their power to prevent any ‘mistake’.

Unless you’re wearing something that catches their attention in a negative way or you’re doing something obnoxious which again catches the attention in a negative way.
Also, if you’re giving a presentation and have a high importance somewhere they obviously going to look and listen.
Common sense and contexts matters here.

And guys, when a women looks at you when you enter a public place for example that’s obviously not an IOI. It’s normal to give a quick glance when someone walks somewhere in.

But to summarize;
It’s very likely that at the very least there is some sort of interest when a women constantly looks at you if you’re not doing anything stupid.

- Physical touch:

I hope this is common sense. Women aren’t going out of their way to make physical touch with men they don’t find attractive.

If you notice that a women is touchy around you, it’s a good sign most of the time.

- Approaching:

If a women comes up to you and ask for your number or socials its a clear IOI.

Almost every approach can be counted as an IOI. Women don’t approach guys they don’t find attractive. They would do the opposite.
Obviously they are cases when women approach and aren’t interested.

For example: You work at an airport and she asks you where the gate is. Again use your common sense.

A waitress bringing your food to your table is also not an IOI. But but… she smiled
and came up to me?! No need to further explain these scenarios.

Will do a part 2 soon. I had many more, but accidentally placed the thread before finishing.

 

[Aesthetic]

didnt read but bump to help the aspies out there

 

[grungymallard97]

So, many users here lack self-awareness when it comes down to these things.
They are very clueless and uneducated when it comes down to human body language.

So, from what i’ve seen when observing sub 5s, normies and chads IRL and reading scientific literature, articles and watching tons of videos about this subject; here is what I’ve concluded:

- Women looking at you:

So, does every women who looks at you is interested in you? The answer is obviously no.
But does that mean there is zero intrest from every women? The answer is again no.

Look, a lot of people have a binary worldview about these signs. It’s either ‘approach’ or ‘cope’. They all fail to read in between the lines.

But what does it mean when a women looks at me?

A women who constantly looks at you in public, whether that be in the gym, grocery store, school etc. That’s not normal. Women don’t look at guys they don’t find attractive.
Why? Because they don’t want to give you the idea that they might be interested in you, so they do everything in their power to prevent any ‘mistake’.

Unless you’re wearing something that catches their attention in a negative way or you’re doing something obnoxious which again catches the attention in a negative way.
Also, if you’re giving a presentation and have a high importance somewhere they obviously going to look and listen.
Common sense and contexts matters here.

And guys, when a women looks at you when you enter a public place for example that’s obviously not an IOI. It’s normal to give a quick glance when someone walks somewhere in.

But to summarize;
It’s very likely that at the very least there is some sort of interest when a women constantly looks at you if you’re not doing anything stupid.

- Physical touch:

I hope this is common sense. Women aren’t going out of their way to make physical touch with men they don’t find attractive.

If you notice that a women is touchy around you, it’s a good sign most of the time.

- Approaching:

If a women comes up to you and ask for your number or socials its a clear IOI.

Almost every approach can be counted as an IOI. Women don’t approach guys they don’t find attractive. They would do the opposite.
Obviously they are cases when women approach and aren’t interested.

For example: You work at an airport and she asks you where the gate is. Again use your common sense.

A waitress bringing your food to your table is also not an IOI. But but… she smiled
and came up to me?! No need to further explain these scenarios.

Will do a part 2 soon. I had many more, but accidentally placed the thread before finishing.

make this thread sticky I DNR but it’s probs very helpful

 

[moreroidsmoredates]

@MakinItHappen thoughts?

 

[diditeverbegin]

First one is what users here brag about

 

[Suns9999]

bookmarking. will read later

 

[wollet2]

she just keeps looking and smiling at me

 

[wollet2]

all girls smile at me

 

[colin73]

So, many users here lack self-awareness when it comes down to these things.
They are very clueless and uneducated when it comes down to human body language.

So, from what i’ve seen when observing sub 5s, normies and chads IRL and reading scientific literature, articles and watching tons of videos about this subject; here is what I’ve concluded:

- Women looking at you:

So, does every women who looks at you is interested in you? The answer is obviously no.
But does that mean there is zero intrest from every women? The answer is again no.

Look, a lot of people have a binary worldview about these signs. It’s either ‘approach’ or ‘cope’. They all fail to read in between the lines.

But what does it mean when a women looks at me?

A women who constantly looks at you in public, whether that be in the gym, grocery store, school etc. That’s not normal. Women don’t look at guys they don’t find attractive.
Why? Because they don’t want to give you the idea that they might be interested in you, so they do everything in their power to prevent any ‘mistake’.

Unless you’re wearing something that catches their attention in a negative way or you’re doing something obnoxious which again catches the attention in a negative way.
Also, if you’re giving a presentation and have a high importance somewhere they obviously going to look and listen.
Common sense and contexts matters here.

And guys, when a women looks at you when you enter a public place for example that’s obviously not an IOI. It’s normal to give a quick glance when someone walks somewhere in.

But to summarize;
It’s very likely that at the very least there is some sort of interest when a women constantly looks at you if you’re not doing anything stupid.

- Physical touch:

I hope this is common sense. Women aren’t going out of their way to make physical touch with men they don’t find attractive.

If you notice that a women is touchy around you, it’s a good sign most of the time.

- Approaching:

If a women comes up to you and ask for your number or socials its a clear IOI.

Almost every approach can be counted as an IOI. Women don’t approach guys they don’t find attractive. They would do the opposite.
Obviously they are cases when women approach and aren’t interested.

For example: You work at an airport and she asks you where the gate is. Again use your common sense.

A waitress bringing your food to your table is also not an IOI. But but… she smiled
and came up to me?! No need to further explain these scenarios.

Will do a part 2 soon. I had many more, but accidentally placed the thread before finishing.

What if I got pantsed and had a ADS on, and all the Stacy’s rapidly stared me up and down. Good sign?

 

[Suns9999]

what the fuck. that was it ? drop part 2 already

 

[MakinItHappen]

@MakinItHappen thoughts?

You have typed up an entire thesis on attraction triggers with regard to a group of men on this site that do not approach women and/or do anything when they do give the woman an attraction trigger.

What do you want me to think about exactly?

How insignificant, meaningless and fruitless this conversation is?

The only thoughts I have is that you are wrapped in a bubble that is absolutely worthless and have lost touch with your inner world and have now become an overwhelmingly boring person. Find that inner boy again and build yourself into the real man that lies ahead.

Or stay a man-child that tells the next new 14 year old that joins that he is a high MTN and flex about how your theories are so based and how real you are for not coping and seeing reality and female biology for what it is. It's not women you seek, it's men, friends.

 

[Narroworbits]

This perspective relies heavily on assumptions and simplifies social interactions into rigid categories. While some women may look at or approach men they find attractive, assuming all body language cues as indicators of interest (IOIs) can lead to misunderstandings.

Firstly, attraction isn’t universally signaled by glances or physical contact. Women might glance for countless reasons—curiosity, familiarity, or even noticing something unusual in someone’s demeanor. Similarly, touch can be cultural or incidental, not necessarily a marker of attraction. Assigning intentions to these cues based solely on gendered expectations risks overlooking individual differences in communication styles and comfort levels.

Additionally, treating IOIs as a primarily looks-based concept dismisses the complexity of human attraction, which can stem from personality, confidence, and even a person’s attitude. Over-focusing on supposed signs can also pressure interactions into unnatural scripts, leading to misinterpretations and awkwardness.

A more balanced approach would involve reading body language in context, noting patterns over isolated cues, and being mindful of both parties' comfort in social interactions. This fosters more genuine, respectful connections.

 

[Suns9999]

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This perspective relies heavily on assumptions and simplifies social interactions into rigid categories. While some women may look at or approach men they find attractive, assuming all body language cues as indicators of interest (IOIs) can lead to misunderstandings.

Firstly, attraction isn’t universally signaled by glances or physical contact. Women might glance for countless reasons—curiosity, familiarity, or even noticing something unusual in someone’s demeanor. Similarly, touch can be cultural or incidental, not necessarily a marker of attraction. Assigning intentions to these cues based solely on gendered expectations risks overlooking individual differences in communication styles and comfort levels.

Additionally, treating IOIs as a primarily looks-based concept dismisses the complexity of human attraction, which can stem from personality, confidence, and even a person’s attitude. Over-focusing on supposed signs can also pressure interactions into unnatural scripts, leading to misinterpretations and awkwardness.

A more balanced approach would involve reading body language in context, noting patterns over isolated cues, and being mindful of both parties' comfort in social interactions. This fosters more genuine, respectful connections.

tldr: talk to the person more to gauge whether there’s actually interest there or not

 

[antrax]

look 3 times, keep looking, look down with a slight smile, she will probably try to stay close to you, In the end she will come to you

 

[moreroidsmoredates]

You have typed up an entire thesis on attraction triggers with regard to a group of men on this site that do not approach women and/or do anything when they do give the woman an attraction trigger.

What do you want me to think about exactly?

How insignificant, meaningless and fruitless this conversation is?

The only thoughts I have is that you are wrapped in a bubble that is absolutely worthless and have lost touch with your inner world and have now become an overwhelmingly boring person. Find that inner boy again and build yourself into the real man that lies ahead.

Or stay a man-child that tells the next new 14 year old that joins that he is a high MTN and flex about how your theories are so based and how real you are for not coping and seeing reality and female biology for what it is. It's not women you seek, it's men, friends.

What the fuck is this? I asked for your opinion on it.

Not some assumption about me being boring or something.