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Let's start with the definition of "game" first, game = verbal and non verbal communication with a woman to build her sexual and romantic desire for you.
and let me put it into perspective for you, being Neurodivergent = 5'5, being Neurotypical = 5'9, Game = 6'0+
Most of you reading this are working towards improving your looks to therefore increase the amount of women you have sex with, and so once you achieve becoming a LTN OR MTN, (which is what most of you are) ,you still probably don't know how to actually talk to women, escalate or manoeuvre different social situations involving women. so the first thing to understand is, the game you use should be dependant and in accordance to your archetype of look, for example a 5'8 pretty boy can't use the same game as a 6'0 guy with a beard and more masculine features, the key to actually being able to have sex with a girl is keeping her in a state of play (the state of play being a state in which she has no worries and is laughing frequently) and keeping her anxiety very low, if you illicit both of these states in a woman simultaneously, you're in.
But this is much easier said than done, the reason a lot of Normies who fall into the more pretty boy archetype of look fail is that they simply smile and laugh to much, when a woman is with a pretty boy her anxiety is already low but the arousal is not there yet to the extent where she'd have sex with you on the first or second date but since her anxiety is low she's not in any kind fear whatsoever therefore she is much more susceptible to entering state of play but when she's in the state of play with you too much , thats when you become a friend (no arousal), when you laugh with a woman too much as a pretty looking man she equates her self to you and this turns her off hugely, this is why as a pretty boy ,ESPECIALLY if you are under 5'9, you can't afford to jester too much, so if we go back to the archetype of man who's tall, dark and more intimidating he could also have trouble in the sense that the woman that he's with will have a higher baseline anxiety level around him but also a higher baseline of arousal and so if you're in this boat of archetype you HAVE to become more of a jester, you can't afford to play the nonchalant character because the woman cannot be aroused when her anxiety is high there is always a worry in the back of her mind so you have to make her laugh, be relaxed, and not take anything serious, you need to appear like you're not a threat, which you aren't. (I hope, some of you are weird).
Personal Anecdote:
I am 19 years old, 6'2, fall into the salludon phenotype for lack of a better term for my phenotype (I'm afghan), most describe me as HTN/ LOW CL and I have a lot of bonemass, dark features and wide set shoulders which make me look handsome but still intimidating.
I took a girl out to dinner one night and this was our second date, the date was normal and went good it was around 11pm when we left the restaurant and got into my car, and I offered her to come back to my apartment to check it out, (this is because i'm 19 and she didn't believe I lived alone),before I take her home and so she agreed to this. Once we got to my apartment I had to lower her anxiety dramatically, in her head she's alone with an intimidating looking guy she met 2 weeks ago in his apartment, in this situation where me and the girl walk in to the apartment, the pretty boy could lock the door, let her sit or walk wherever, pour some drinks and serve it to her and then smash, very simple and easy for him because her anxiety is already lowered around him.
but for a guy like me, even though I look good,I knew that if I locked the door her anxiety is going to increase slightly, so I simply let her in showed her around and then sat on my couch and started watching MR beast on the TV, and I turned the volume up so she clearly heard ( FYI this was the video where he went into a cave and tried to survive) she found it funny that I was relaxed, sitting down watching tv, (this broke any kind of tension there was), and so I asked her to pour us some wine, she asks me where the wine is, where the glasses are and she pours it up by doing this i'm simply making her feel at home, as if i'm the guest and when the brought the wine to the table I told her to take my key and lock the door since I forgot and this has the same psychological effect of making her feel at home and from there we watched some random shit on YouTube, talked, kissed and took it to the bedroom, by the time I took her to my bed her vagina was microwave hot, thats how much I decreased her anxiety levels and allowed her to be completely aroused and relaxed. (and no it wasn't the alcohol fuck u, it was all me)
if I hadn't understood the way I should have behaved in accordance to my looks I wouldn't have had sex with her that night.
and I think this is where a lot of you guys might be lacking, understanding the fundamental verbal and non verbal communication that is in accordance to your archetype of look.
I can make another post about what kind of behavioural cues, verbal and non verbal types of communication each type of archetype should use and do but I'm too lazy I'll do it if you guys want.
and let me put it into perspective for you, being Neurodivergent = 5'5, being Neurotypical = 5'9, Game = 6'0+
Life begins at 6'0, life begins when you understand game.
BY THE WAY: This will only create a significant Impact in the amount you slay if you are LTN,MTN,HTN or CL, if you're a chad or sub-5 this doesn't apply to you.
If you're a chad, the amount of arousal you create will oughtweigh any amount of neurodivergent behaviours and/or the little amount of anxiety the woman might have (it is very hard for a chad to fumble by saying or doing something)
if you're a SUB-5, work on your looks before you even try slaying on a regular basis.
If you're a chad, the amount of arousal you create will oughtweigh any amount of neurodivergent behaviours and/or the little amount of anxiety the woman might have (it is very hard for a chad to fumble by saying or doing something)
if you're a SUB-5, work on your looks before you even try slaying on a regular basis.
Most of you reading this are working towards improving your looks to therefore increase the amount of women you have sex with, and so once you achieve becoming a LTN OR MTN, (which is what most of you are) ,you still probably don't know how to actually talk to women, escalate or manoeuvre different social situations involving women. so the first thing to understand is, the game you use should be dependant and in accordance to your archetype of look, for example a 5'8 pretty boy can't use the same game as a 6'0 guy with a beard and more masculine features, the key to actually being able to have sex with a girl is keeping her in a state of play (the state of play being a state in which she has no worries and is laughing frequently) and keeping her anxiety very low, if you illicit both of these states in a woman simultaneously, you're in.
But this is much easier said than done, the reason a lot of Normies who fall into the more pretty boy archetype of look fail is that they simply smile and laugh to much, when a woman is with a pretty boy her anxiety is already low but the arousal is not there yet to the extent where she'd have sex with you on the first or second date but since her anxiety is low she's not in any kind fear whatsoever therefore she is much more susceptible to entering state of play but when she's in the state of play with you too much , thats when you become a friend (no arousal), when you laugh with a woman too much as a pretty looking man she equates her self to you and this turns her off hugely, this is why as a pretty boy ,ESPECIALLY if you are under 5'9, you can't afford to jester too much, so if we go back to the archetype of man who's tall, dark and more intimidating he could also have trouble in the sense that the woman that he's with will have a higher baseline anxiety level around him but also a higher baseline of arousal and so if you're in this boat of archetype you HAVE to become more of a jester, you can't afford to play the nonchalant character because the woman cannot be aroused when her anxiety is high there is always a worry in the back of her mind so you have to make her laugh, be relaxed, and not take anything serious, you need to appear like you're not a threat, which you aren't. (I hope, some of you are weird).
Personal Anecdote:
I am 19 years old, 6'2, fall into the salludon phenotype for lack of a better term for my phenotype (I'm afghan), most describe me as HTN/ LOW CL and I have a lot of bonemass, dark features and wide set shoulders which make me look handsome but still intimidating.
I took a girl out to dinner one night and this was our second date, the date was normal and went good it was around 11pm when we left the restaurant and got into my car, and I offered her to come back to my apartment to check it out, (this is because i'm 19 and she didn't believe I lived alone),before I take her home and so she agreed to this. Once we got to my apartment I had to lower her anxiety dramatically, in her head she's alone with an intimidating looking guy she met 2 weeks ago in his apartment, in this situation where me and the girl walk in to the apartment, the pretty boy could lock the door, let her sit or walk wherever, pour some drinks and serve it to her and then smash, very simple and easy for him because her anxiety is already lowered around him.
But don't forget that the pretty boy had to create the arousal for her to even want to have sex and so thats also just as difficult. and keep in mind when I say "pretty boy" i'm referring to a LTN/MTN who might look more feminine (probably you), not an actual 6'2 Chico lechowski pretty boy, in that case the arousal is already there.
and when I refer to a dark featured, intimidating guy I also mean a LTN/MTN who has a beard and looks more intimidating (probably you).
and when I refer to a dark featured, intimidating guy I also mean a LTN/MTN who has a beard and looks more intimidating (probably you).
but for a guy like me, even though I look good,I knew that if I locked the door her anxiety is going to increase slightly, so I simply let her in showed her around and then sat on my couch and started watching MR beast on the TV, and I turned the volume up so she clearly heard ( FYI this was the video where he went into a cave and tried to survive) she found it funny that I was relaxed, sitting down watching tv, (this broke any kind of tension there was), and so I asked her to pour us some wine, she asks me where the wine is, where the glasses are and she pours it up by doing this i'm simply making her feel at home, as if i'm the guest and when the brought the wine to the table I told her to take my key and lock the door since I forgot and this has the same psychological effect of making her feel at home and from there we watched some random shit on YouTube, talked, kissed and took it to the bedroom, by the time I took her to my bed her vagina was microwave hot, thats how much I decreased her anxiety levels and allowed her to be completely aroused and relaxed. (and no it wasn't the alcohol fuck u, it was all me)
if I hadn't understood the way I should have behaved in accordance to my looks I wouldn't have had sex with her that night.
and I think this is where a lot of you guys might be lacking, understanding the fundamental verbal and non verbal communication that is in accordance to your archetype of look.
I can make another post about what kind of behavioural cues, verbal and non verbal types of communication each type of archetype should use and do but I'm too lazy I'll do it if you guys want.
