Getting rejected after getting obvious IOI’s, how?

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I was on vacation in Brazil with my family. From the moment I sat on the beach, this Argentinian girl who was near me started looking at me. Literally, every time I glanced at her, she was already looking at me. The most obvious IOI I got was when I started talking with one of her male family members. I was close to her, and she started playing with her hair while making eye contact with me. I was wearing sunglasses the whole time, but I’m pretty sure she knew I was looking at her too.

After that, I had to leave the beach and go back to the cruise. I didn’t see her for a day. The next day, I only saw her walking through the buffet, and the moment I saw her, we made eye contact for like 6s as I walked before leaving. At that point I was looking for her all day, trying to ask for her Instagram. I’m 19, and she looked about 15–16, so I hoped she was 16 or 17.

When I finally saw her again, she was having dinner with her family. I tried to sit about six tables away and waited for her to stand up and leave so I could approach her, because there was no way I was going to approach her while she was having dinner with her family. At one point during dinner, she noticed me and started looking at me again continuously. When she finally stood up and left, I went after her, stopped her while her family was slowly walking away but still nearby, and asked if she was the girl from the beach. She said yes. Then I asked for her Instagram, and she didn’t reply and just walked away.

How did this happen? Say something to help me cope, please don’t blackpill.
 
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you took off your sunglasses and she saw your subpar eye area
 
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I also have to say she looked shy af, literally, she was never alone and didn’t talk much, I never saw her doing anything around at the cruise, she was probably in her cabin all day.
 
I was on vacation in Brazil with my family. From the moment I sat on the beach, this Argentinian girl who was near me started looking at me. Literally, every time I glanced at her, she was already looking at me. The most obvious IOI I got was when I started talking with one of her male family members. I was close to her, and she started playing with her hair while making eye contact with me. I was wearing sunglasses the whole time, but I’m pretty sure she knew I was looking at her too.

After that, I had to leave the beach and go back to the cruise. I didn’t see her for a day. The next day, I only saw her walking through the buffet, and the moment I saw her, we made eye contact for like 6s as I walked before leaving. At that point I was looking for her all day, trying to ask for her Instagram. I’m 19, and she looked about 15–16, so I hoped she was 16 or 17.

When I finally saw her again, she was having dinner with her family. I tried to sit about six tables away and waited for her to stand up and leave so I could approach her, because there was no way I was going to approach her while she was having dinner with her family. At one point during dinner, she noticed me and started looking at me again continuously. When she finally stood up and left, I went after her, stopped her while her family was slowly walking away but still nearby, and asked if she was the girl from the beach. She said yes. Then I asked for her Instagram, and she didn’t reply and just walked away.

How did this happen? Say something to help me cope, please don’t blackpill.
damn shes 15 and already ghosting niggas jfl
 
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Cuz ur fucking ugly they look at u cz ur so chopped nigga
 
I was on vacation in Brazil with my family. From the moment I sat on the beach, this Argentinian girl who was near me started looking at me. Literally, every time I glanced at her, she was already looking at me. The most obvious IOI I got was when I started talking with one of her male family members. I was close to her, and she started playing with her hair while making eye contact with me. I was wearing sunglasses the whole time, but I’m pretty sure she knew I was looking at her too.

After that, I had to leave the beach and go back to the cruise. I didn’t see her for a day. The next day, I only saw her walking through the buffet, and the moment I saw her, we made eye contact for like 6s as I walked before leaving. At that point I was looking for her all day, trying to ask for her Instagram. I’m 19, and she looked about 15–16, so I hoped she was 16 or 17.

When I finally saw her again, she was having dinner with her family. I tried to sit about six tables away and waited for her to stand up and leave so I could approach her, because there was no way I was going to approach her while she was having dinner with her family. At one point during dinner, she noticed me and started looking at me again continuously. When she finally stood up and left, I went after her, stopped her while her family was slowly walking away but still nearby, and asked if she was the girl from the beach. She said yes. Then I asked for her Instagram, and she didn’t reply and just walked away.

How did this happen? Say something to help me cope, please don’t blackpill.
Nigga just learned about foids
 
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You looked so good, you took her breathe away

1772033382140
 
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Girls can give IOIs, approach, text/message first but then reject you acting on it, this is just how it goes. Reading her body language is good but you have to look at her actions.
 
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thats the ways foids are
 
High t chad already hijacked her brain brah
 
I was on vacation in Brazil with my family. From the moment I sat on the beach, this Argentinian girl who was near me started looking at me. Literally, every time I glanced at her, she was already looking at me. The most obvious IOI I got was when I started talking with one of her male family members. I was close to her, and she started playing with her hair while making eye contact with me. I was wearing sunglasses the whole time, but I’m pretty sure she knew I was looking at her too.

After that, I had to leave the beach and go back to the cruise. I didn’t see her for a day. The next day, I only saw her walking through the buffet, and the moment I saw her, we made eye contact for like 6s as I walked before leaving. At that point I was looking for her all day, trying to ask for her Instagram. I’m 19, and she looked about 15–16, so I hoped she was 16 or 17.

When I finally saw her again, she was having dinner with her family. I tried to sit about six tables away and waited for her to stand up and leave so I could approach her, because there was no way I was going to approach her while she was having dinner with her family. At one point during dinner, she noticed me and started looking at me again continuously. When she finally stood up and left, I went after her, stopped her while her family was slowly walking away but still nearby, and asked if she was the girl from the beach. She said yes. Then I asked for her Instagram, and she didn’t reply and just walked away.

How did this happen? Say something to help me cope, please don’t blackpill.
brutal
 

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