GF body shamed me - not sure how to feel

[ElySioNs]

My gf (34) and I (29) were just chilling yesterday in bed when she casually mentioned "I wish your **** was bigger".

I forgot the context behind what we were talking about but it definitely wasn't related to sex - I was planning a labor day trip for us. (It caught me off guard!) We've been dating for 6 months, being intimate regularly, but it's the first time I'm not really feeling happy about our relationship and how I view her.

I'm feeling so lost right now because I've been nothing but accepting of her wider body shape, age difference, etc. I just really appreciated her as a person and feel so insulted and betrayed - being vulnerable with her only to be ridiculed about myself in the lowest form. She bodyshamed me so casually without considering how I would feel.

She doesn't like saying words of affirmation to me which is my love language (she doesn't express love in words like I do but through quality time) but it was so easy to drop something that most guys I feel would be sad to hear.

I already spoke to her and although she apologized, I still feel a little irked. I don't know what to do. I feel like I've done everything I can to make her happy and she can insult me about something I have no control over.

Can someone please chime in with some advice how I can go about this?

EDIT: Not rage bait. Introvert that genuinely appreciates everyone's input and wants to take time and thank each person individually for their input. Just trying to process what I'm feeling.

 

[yoshisand]

My gf (34) and I (29) were just chilling yesterday in bed when she casually mentioned "I wish your **** was bigger".

I forgot the context behind what we were talking about but it definitely wasn't related to sex - I was planning a labor day trip for us. (It caught me off guard!) We've been dating for 6 months, being intimate regularly, but it's the first time I'm not really feeling happy about our relationship and how I view her.

I'm feeling so lost right now because I've been nothing but accepting of her wider body shape, age difference, etc. I just really appreciated her as a person and feel so insulted and betrayed - being vulnerable with her only to be ridiculed about myself in the lowest form. She bodyshamed me so casually without considering how I would feel.

She doesn't like saying words of affirmation to me which is my love language (she doesn't express love in words like I do but through quality time) but it was so easy to drop something that most guys I feel would be sad to hear.

I already spoke to her and although she apologized, I still feel a little irked. I don't know what to do. I feel like I've done everything I can to make her happy and she can insult me about something I have no control over.

Can someone please chime in with some advice how I can go about this?

EDIT: Not rage bait. Introvert that genuinely appreciates everyone's input and wants to take time and thank each person individually for their input. Just trying to process what I'm feeling.

break up with her she doesn't care about hurting your feelings lmao the fact that it got this far to where she could openly say this is is is crazy

 

[TechnoBoss]

"I wish your pussy was tighter and you were 15 pounds lighter"

 

[TechnoBoss]

"I wish your pussy was tighter and you were 15 pounds lighter"

And 10 years younger.

 

[Saint Casanova]

Fat bitches want BBC. No surprise.

 

[VHD]

how big is it

 

[noodlelover]

Fat bitches tear others down to make themselves feel better.

But if you're in love with her, at least Looksmax, MoneyMax, and StatusMax while in a relationship with her so you have better options in the future. When your brain knows you have better options, it will stop experiencing love.

So, I would say enjoy the relationship for now and but aim higher in the future.

 

[maxicullar]

Blackmail her and ruin her life