Girl from tinder asked me out but went wrong on second date I think. Need help

[mogandpillage]

Btw she’s 24 I’m 22. (Uk) So met her on tinder we talked loads and I’m physically attracted to her and she is to me. She was sweet and not a whore . Then she asks for a date, first date went fine in a coffee shop I could tell she liked me . The messages were really good after too she kept sending me face pics of her at night of herself and saying she wants to cuddle me kiss etc and we talked long.

Second date: she initiated again but I chose cinema And she agreed. We sat at back I held her hands and rubbed her leg etc. then at the end she went for the kiss I kissed back a couple times. Then we went out to the cafe, we talked a little bit but I could tell something was wrong. She then said she has to go soon she’s going out with her friends. I said yeah me too.

THE PROBLEM: Now she began messaging much much less from here, never sending pics of herself late replies etc.

I initiated a 3rd date. We went to a coffee and talked like normal I thought it was nice. Went home she messaged saying she’s not feeling a connection and she’s sorry but can still be friends. Now it’s completely over I left it on read

 

[Ishaan Brahmbhatt]

ok

 

[SubhumanEyes]

Chad matched with her

 

[Bl0odKn1ght]

She was sweet and not a whore

she kept sending me pics at night of herself

What kinda pics we talkin?

 

[mogandpillage]

What kinda pics we talkin?

Just face pics of her smiling. I’d send it too and she liked it and complimented me. But now it’s over

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

Maybe you're a bad kisser, you breath was stinky, you said something you shouldn't have. You will have other occasions. Try to date from extented social group and less from tinder

 

[mogandpillage]

Maybe you're a bad kisser, you breath was stinky, you said something you shouldn't have. You will have other occasions. Try to date from extented social group and less from tinder

after that date she asked me about my past relationship. And asked if I even saw her in person or only messages. I said “was my kiss bad?” She said “nothing wrong with the kiss Dw haha”

I had chewing gum. Also I don’t have an extended social group.

 

[KaisenMaxxer]

after that date she asked me about my past relationship. And asked if I even saw her in person or only messages. I said “was my kiss bad?” She said “nothing wrong with the kiss Dw haha”

I had chewing gum. Also I don’t have an extended social group.

Don't worry about her too much, you only saw her 3 times, girls go in and out like that.
But text her saying that your don't want to be friends and if she doesn't want to build a relationship with you, you want to part ways with her

 

[TwoFace]

Btw she’s 24 I’m 22. (Uk) So met her on tinder we talked loads and I’m physically attracted to her and she is to me. She was sweet and not a whore . Then she asks for a date, first date went fine in a coffee shop I could tell she liked me . The messages were really good after too she kept sending me face pics of her at night of herself and saying she wants to cuddle me kiss etc and we talked long.

Second date: she initiated again but I chose cinema And she agreed. We sat at back I held her hands and rubbed her leg etc. then at the end she went for the kiss I kissed back a couple times. Then we went out to the cafe, we talked a little bit but I could tell something was wrong. She then said she has to go soon she’s going out with her friends. I said yeah me too.

THE PROBLEM: Now she began messaging much much less from here, never sending pics of herself late replies etc.

I initiated a 3rd date. We went to a coffee and talked like normal I thought it was nice. Went home she messaged saying she’s not feeling a connection and she’s sorry but can still be friends. Now it’s completely over I left it on read

first mistake is assuming a woman in tinder is not a whore
should have fucked on the 2nd date she realized you were a dork

 

[mogandpillage]

first mistake is assuming a woman in tinder is not a whore
should have fucked on the 2nd date she realized you were a dork

That’s what I literally thought today. I was like fuck maybe she didn’t like me because I didn’t ask to have sex or initiate on second date when maybe she wanted it . I didn’t realise on the day. But ig she wanted sex immediately . She wears a cross necklace don’t know if that matters jfl

 

[TwoFace]

That’s what I literally thought today. I was like fuck maybe she didn’t like me because I didn’t ask to have sex or initiate on second date when maybe she wanted it . I didn’t realise on the day. But ig she wanted sex immediately . She wears a cross necklace don’t know if that matters jfl

religion does not exist to women they literally disobeyed god
dont just initiate sex you have to raise her sexual flame because you did not do that she assumed you were a geek just learn for next time to increase sexual tension (not in a creepy way) on future dates
drop that bitch and reduce attention drastically see if she starts hitting you up more and this was all a little game or if she really does not fw you

 

[mogandpillage]

religion does not exist to women they literally disobeyed god
dont just initiate sex you have to raise her sexual flame because you did not do that she assumed you were a geek just learn for next time to increase sexual tension (not in a creepy way) on future dates

I think I kind of did this on the first date and it worked because I complimented her hair and her looks subtly. But how would you suggest I should have done this on second date ? She also has more relationship experience than me for sure. she was in a long 3 year relationship and was asking me a lot of questions about my past and how many gfs I had. I should’ve lied and said 4 or some shit

drop that bitch and reduce attention drastically see if she starts hitting you up more and this was all a little game or if she really does not fw you

I already left her message on read. She then asked you okay? I left that on read too.

 

[VladiJFL]

Move on bro, find another foid and don't worry about her

 

[TwoFace]

I think I kind of did this on the first date and it worked because I complimented her hair and her looks subtly. But how would you suggest I should have done this on second date ? She also has more relationship experience than me for sure. she was in a long 3 year relationship and was asking me a lot of questions about my past and how many gfs I had. I should’ve lied and said 4 or some shit

I already left her message on read. She then asked you okay? I left that on read too.

make sure she does not know your angry can never let a bitch fuck up your mindset type shit
wait a couple hours hit her back at night time with some shit like "just working"
essentially drop attention just enough so that she notices it but dont act like a dick
raising sexual tension is more about establishing physical contact rather than compliments its super situation specific though so i cant help much there