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Im an oldcel (30) but I managed to date this girl who’s 22.
Well, she treats me like a baby or like she’s my teacher, I’m kinda inexperienced but she s always the one who’s showing me how to do things or criticize everything ( how I drive exc).

Also she keeps making comments about height saying we are the same height or that she can’t wear heels.
Ofc she’s saying these things in a joking manner but she was passive aggressive the other time.
‘ this actor isn’t good looking but he’s so tall ‘, then she asked me if I could watch the movie since ‘ you are a little short ahah’.

These aren’t shit tests, I think she’s dating me just for attention and I’m a placeholder.
‘ you don’t have upper lips ahah’
‘ look at the shoulder, we are the same height ahah’

I don’t think she sees me as a man…I think she sees me as puppy and like she’s doing some charity work.
I feel so bad and I don’t know what to do, she’s pretty much at my look level ( LTN or MTN) but 5’7” ( and I’m 5’8” or weak 5’9”)
 
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Enjoy while it lasts
 
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Yep, she has no respect for you and thinks you are not looks matched to her. Will leave once shes bored but she tries to do charity work for personal reasons, do not catch feelings.

If she lets you hit, id say no reason to start some shit or try to pull some fake alpha moves. Play your role, act as per her fantasy, once she stops giving you the rewards for your good behaviors leave.
 
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If she lets you hit, id say no reason to start some shit or try to pull some fake alpha moves. Play your role, act as per her fantasy, once she stops giving you the rewards for your good behaviors leave.
This.

Try to looksmax meanwhile for better future prospects.
 
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Im an oldcel (30) but I managed to date this girl who’s 22.
Well, she treats me like a baby or like she’s my teacher, I’m kinda inexperienced but she s always the one who’s showing me how to do things or criticize everything ( how I drive exc).

Also she keeps making comments about height saying we are the same height or that she can’t wear heels.
Ofc she’s saying these things in a joking manner but she was passive aggressive the other time.
‘ this actor isn’t good looking but he’s so tall ‘, then she asked me if I could watch the movie since ‘ you are a little short ahah’.

These aren’t shit tests, I think she’s dating me just for attention and I’m a placeholder.
‘ you don’t have upper lips ahah’
‘ look at the shoulder, we are the same height ahah’

I don’t think she sees me as a man…I think she sees me as puppy and like she’s doing some charity work.
I feel so bad and I don’t know what to do, she’s pretty much at my look level ( LTN or MTN) but 5’7” ( and I’m 5’8” or weak 5’9”)
What a surprise like most couples these days
 
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Please note that not every woman is going to treat you this way even if you are LTN-MTN.

There are woman who like to believe they are doing charity work when they are not doing it, it's part of a victim complex and they are just looking for these kind of relationships. They run once their looksmatch tells an ounce of truth.
 
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Im an oldcel (30) but I managed to date this girl who’s 22.
Well, she treats me like a baby or like she’s my teacher, I’m kinda inexperienced but she s always the one who’s showing me how to do things or criticize everything ( how I drive exc).

Also she keeps making comments about height saying we are the same height or that she can’t wear heels.
Ofc she’s saying these things in a joking manner but she was passive aggressive the other time.
‘ this actor isn’t good looking but he’s so tall ‘, then she asked me if I could watch the movie since ‘ you are a little short ahah’.

These aren’t shit tests, I think she’s dating me just for attention and I’m a placeholder.
‘ you don’t have upper lips ahah’
‘ look at the shoulder, we are the same height ahah’

I don’t think she sees me as a man…I think she sees me as puppy and like she’s doing some charity work.
I feel so bad and I don’t know what to do, she’s pretty much at my look level ( LTN or MTN) but 5’7” ( and I’m 5’8” or weak 5’9”)
Kick her to the curb fucking faggot. She's spitting right into your face but you're pussy whipped that you allow it ?

I would rather die alone than letting any vapid sub 80 IQ slut disrespect me.
 
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Im an oldcel (30) but I managed to date this girl who’s 22.
Well, she treats me like a baby or like she’s my teacher, I’m kinda inexperienced but she s always the one who’s showing me how to do things or criticize everything ( how I drive exc).

Also she keeps making comments about height saying we are the same height or that she can’t wear heels.
Ofc she’s saying these things in a joking manner but she was passive aggressive the other time.
‘ this actor isn’t good looking but he’s so tall ‘, then she asked me if I could watch the movie since ‘ you are a little short ahah’.

These aren’t shit tests, I think she’s dating me just for attention and I’m a placeholder.
‘ you don’t have upper lips ahah’
‘ look at the shoulder, we are the same height ahah’

I don’t think she sees me as a man…I think she sees me as puppy and like she’s doing some charity work.
I feel so bad and I don’t know what to do, she’s pretty much at my look level ( LTN or MTN) but 5’7” ( and I’m 5’8” or weak 5’9”)
Lowest form of human male right here

Dating a girl who's the same height is fine if she doesn't criticize you for it

There is meaning behind all words.

What might be the meaning behind hers?

I'll tell you "your lack of dimorphism leaves me sexually dissapointed"

It's very obvious. And you let her say that to you, in different words, quite often it seems.

Get out
 
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Yep, she has no respect for you and thinks you are not looks matched to her. Will leave once shes bored but she tries to do charity work for personal reasons, do not catch feelings.

If she lets you hit, id say no reason to start some shit or try to pull some fake alpha moves. Play your role, act as per her fantasy, once she stops giving you the rewards for your good behaviors leave.
Yes I think she thinks I’m average while she’s beautiful
 
Lowest form of human male right here

Dating a girl who's the same height is fine if she doesn't criticize you for it

There is meaning behind all words.

What might be the meaning behind hers?

I'll tell you "your lack of dimorphism leaves me sexually dissapointed"

It's very obvious. And you let her say that to you, in different words, quite often it seems.

Get out
I can’t help being a pushover unfortunately
 
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this is the play
break up with her
this will make her think “oh why he breaking up with ME”
“i thought i was too good for him”
etc etc
then she will chase ur ass

tried and tested btw (cos she was on the mind games, but im the master manipulator )
 
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Im an oldcel (30) but I managed to date this girl who’s 22.
Well, she treats me like a baby or like she’s my teacher, I’m kinda inexperienced but she s always the one who’s showing me how to do things or criticize everything ( how I drive exc).

Also she keeps making comments about height saying we are the same height or that she can’t wear heels.
Ofc she’s saying these things in a joking manner but she was passive aggressive the other time.
‘ this actor isn’t good looking but he’s so tall ‘, then she asked me if I could watch the movie since ‘ you are a little short ahah’.

These aren’t shit tests, I think she’s dating me just for attention and I’m a placeholder.
‘ you don’t have upper lips ahah’
‘ look at the shoulder, we are the same height ahah’

I don’t think she sees me as a man…I think she sees me as puppy and like she’s doing some charity work.
I feel so bad and I don’t know what to do, she’s pretty much at my look level ( LTN or MTN) but 5’7” ( and I’m 5’8” or weak 5’9”)
make her a side and treat her the way she treats u xd
this is the play
break up with her
this will make her think “oh why he breaking up with ME”
“i thought i was too good for him”
etc etc
then she will chase ur ass

tried and tested btw (cos she was on the mind games, but im the master manipulator )
glad too see a smart person on this thread idk about break up with her tho if ur ltn and 5’9 like u said just make it seem like u dont care about her or like shes a side thing even if shes your main
 
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glad too see a smart person on this thread idk about break up with her tho if ur ltn and 5’9 like u said just make it seem like u dont care about her or like shes a side thing even if shes your main
idk what this guys base is, but if he 18% body fat + and leaned down he would ascend to mtn minimum. if he broke up with their then, she’d think he has better options than here now, and even if he doesn’t take her back, that’s a w. but ye maybe at ltn breakup isn’t the best idea
 
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Absolutely brutal
 
this is the play
break up with her
this will make her think “oh why he breaking up with ME”
“i thought i was too good for him”
etc etc
then she will chase ur ass

tried and tested btw (cos she was on the mind games, but im the master manipulator )
Nah I left her and she didn’t chase me for like 2 weeks
 
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idk what this guys base is, but if he 18% body fat + and leaned down he would ascend to mtn minimum. if he broke up with their then, she’d think he has better options than here now, and even if he doesn’t take her back, that’s a w. but ye maybe at ltn breakup isn’t the best idea
Im ripped but quite lean, she even commented my skinny legs
 
Nah I left her and she didn’t chase me for like 2 weeks
sound like she did chase you, but after 2 week or am i missing something?
if i understood right, that’s the period she missed u then contemplated messaging u or whatever, then she did it after 2 weeks.
Im ripped but quite lean, she even commented my skinny legs
so over for face. well if your 15% every prevent under that makes a MASSIVE dosserenve to your face tbh. so don’t count any face gains out until your true 10% (when you can see veins on abs)
maybe go gym, fuck legs to ngl jfl fuck that. drains the crap out of me + makes ur dixk look smaller ong. don’t train em 😭
 
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I dunno man sounds like you enjoy it
 
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Don't ask these people for dating advice. Just make sure she's not emotionally abusing you
 
cheat on her as your escape goat and purposely get caught (do it with an escort since i know how hard it is to even cheat in the first place as a subhuman), kill her superior ego
 
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sound like she did chase you, but after 2 week or am i missing something?
if i understood right, that’s the period she missed u then contemplated messaging u or whatever, then she did it after 2 weeks.

so over for face. well if your 15% every prevent under that makes a MASSIVE dosserenve to your face tbh. so don’t count any face gains out until your true 10% (when you can see veins on abs)
maybe go gym, fuck legs to ngl jfl fuck that. drains the crap out of me + makes ur dixk look smaller ong. don’t train em 😭
No I chased her after 2 weeks
 
That's rough man, many dudes have experienced disrespect, you gotta put her back in your frame
 
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Don't ask these people for dating advice. Just make sure she's not emotionally abusing you
Nigga what makes you qualified to give advice instead of us? Especially when you drop faggot takes like that
 
if you don't have dignity you have nothing. She probably withholds pussy from you too. Rope.
 
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never ever do this
never chase no matter what
If I didn’t chase her she would not chase me and end the relationship over stupid arguments
 
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If I didn’t chase her she would not chase me and end the relationship over stupid arguments
when u chase she lose respect cos she thinks you got no options apart from her. (which may be true idk, but you can let her know that)
 
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when u chase she lose respect cos she thinks you got no options apart from her. (which may be true idk, but you can let her know that)
I know, problem is I would lose her over stupid arguments
 
time to looksmax
 
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Im an oldcel (30) but I managed to date this girl who’s 22.
Well, she treats me like a baby or like she’s my teacher, I’m kinda inexperienced but she s always the one who’s showing me how to do things or criticize everything ( how I drive exc).

Also she keeps making comments about height saying we are the same height or that she can’t wear heels.
Ofc she’s saying these things in a joking manner but she was passive aggressive the other time.
‘ this actor isn’t good looking but he’s so tall ‘, then she asked me if I could watch the movie since ‘ you are a little short ahah’.

These aren’t shit tests, I think she’s dating me just for attention and I’m a placeholder.
‘ you don’t have upper lips ahah’
‘ look at the shoulder, we are the same height ahah’

I don’t think she sees me as a man…I think she sees me as puppy and like she’s doing some charity work.
I feel so bad and I don’t know what to do, she’s pretty much at my look level ( LTN or MTN) but 5’7” ( and I’m 5’8” or weak 5’9”)
if she is ltn and saying this shit just dump her
 
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Nigga what makes you qualified to give advice instead of us? Especially when you drop faggot takes like that
You lack self awareness if you are asking me this. Anyone who knows anything about relationships would tell u the same thing
 
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Dump her she’s ltn
 
Sou um oldcel (30), mas consegui namorar uma garota de 22.
Bom, ela me trata como um bebê ou como se fosse minha professora, sou meio inexperiente mas é sempre ela quem me mostra como fazer as coisas ou critica tudo (como eu dirijo exc).

Além disso ela fica fazendo comentários sobre altura dizendo que temos a mesma altura ou que ela não pode usar salto.
Claro que ela está dizendo essas coisas de forma brincalhona, mas da outra vez ela foi passiva-agressiva.
'esse ator não é bonito mas é tão alto', aí ela me perguntou se eu poderia assistir o filme já que 'você é um pouco baixinho ahah'.

Estes não são testes de merda, acho que ela está namorando comigo só para chamar a atenção e eu sou um substituto.
'você não tem lábios superiores ahah'
'olha o ombro, temos a mesma altura ahah'

Não acho que ela me veja como um homem... Acho que ela me vê como um cachorrinho e como se estivesse fazendo algum trabalho de caridade.
Eu me sinto tão mal e não sei o que fazer, ela está praticamente no meu nível de aparência (LTN ou MTN), mas 5'7 ”(e eu tenho 5'8” ou fraco 5'9”)
Uma namorada deve fazer você se sentir bem consigo mesmo, e não ficar lembrando você de suas inseguranças. Se eu estivesse na sua casa eu falaria com ela sobre isso e se ela continuar fazendo isso é só deixá-la...
or if ur rich leg lengthening surgery:blackpill:
 
Im an oldcel (30) but I managed to date this girl who’s 22.
Well, she treats me like a baby or like she’s my teacher, I’m kinda inexperienced but she s always the one who’s showing me how to do things or criticize everything ( how I drive exc).

Also she keeps making comments about height saying we are the same height or that she can’t wear heels.
Ofc she’s saying these things in a joking manner but she was passive aggressive the other time.
‘ this actor isn’t good looking but he’s so tall ‘, then she asked me if I could watch the movie since ‘ you are a little short ahah’.

These aren’t shit tests, I think she’s dating me just for attention and I’m a placeholder.
‘ you don’t have upper lips ahah’
‘ look at the shoulder, we are the same height ahah’

I don’t think she sees me as a man…I think she sees me as puppy and like she’s doing some charity work.
I feel so bad and I don’t know what to do, she’s pretty much at my look level ( LTN or MTN) but 5’7” ( and I’m 5’8” or weak 5’9”)
Did she also convince you her vaginal prolapse is normal for women her age? In case you don't know, vaginal prolapse is when the uterus hangs outside the vagina or the vagina has such a large gaping hole, you can literally see the female's insides without opening her flaps.
 

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