Girl I'm speaking to told me she was a "social person"

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Her
  • She said she likes being outside and hanging around with her friends.
  • She doesn't want to be the type of person that stays home nor does she want her husband to be home all day.
  • Described herself as outgoing and social.

Me:
  • Spend almost every waking hour rotting in my bedroom - don't even get up to go into living room.
  • I WFH mostly so I rot even more
  • Only time I go out is to get grocery or gym - which I usually do at night.
  • I have zero social circle and can be introverted.

I told her in marriage things change but she didn't budge. She lives abroad. I know we are not compatible but my inceldom is on the line here she's my last hope :feelsree:
 
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absolutely over do not even try big bro
 
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it will fail
she will cheat
don't risk a heartbreak
goodluck
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Her
  • She said she likes being outside and hanging around with her friends.
  • She doesn't want to be the type of person that stays home nor does she want her husband to be home all day.
  • Described herself as outgoing and social.

Me:
  • Spend almost every waking hour rotting in my bedroom - don't even get up to go into living room.
  • I WFH mostly so I rot even more
  • Only time I go out is to get grocery or gym - which I usually do at night.
  • I have zero social circle and can be introverted.

I told her in marriage things change but she didn't budge. She lives abroad. I know we are not compatible but my inceldom is on the line here she's my last hope :feelsree:
yea if a girl has even a single friend thats a no go
 
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it will fail
she will cheat
don't risk a heartbreak
goodluck
💋
As pathetic as it sounds I'm only trying because I have no hope. She's the complete opposite of me.

She said she's religious and to me a virgin girl is like the holy grail. I don't fucking understand how she can be "religious" and be so outdoorsy.
 
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please do some chadfishing with dellisola and post results :feelsgood:
 
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please do some chadfishing with dellisola and post results :feelsgood:
Every app out there requires verification. I wanna do staceyfishing instead. I would even fucking pay a HTB girl to verify but I can't find one.
 
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As pathetic as it sounds I'm only trying because I have no hope. She's the complete opposite of me.

She said she's religious and to me a virgin girl is like the holy grail. I don't fucking understand how she can be "religious" and be so outdoorsy.
you aren't pathetic because I know your case
it's not good
don't put yourself down, you want to go for it? sure, do it, but do not keep your hopes or expectations high, and her being a virgin....ehhh i don't really believe it, still, shoot your shot
 
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Every app out there requires verification. I wanna do staceyfishing instead. I would even fucking pay a HTB girl to verify but I can't find one.
Damn didn’t know that you have to verify yourself. With what? ID type shit? I’m living under a rock lately tbh:ogre:
 
Damn didn’t know that you have to verify yourself. With what? ID type shit? I’m living under a rock lately tbh:ogre:
Nah selfie verification just to sign up. If you do ID verification you get an extra verified tick. This is the case on Hinge I think.

Do you know any Reddit or e-whores? I'm m willing to pay up to $50. But only that high if she looks like a supermodel or something. If they're MTB+ I'm gonna pay $20 max
 
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Nah selfie verification just to sign up. If you do ID verification you get an extra verified tick. This is the case on Hinge I think.

Do you know any Reddit or e-whores? I'm m willing to pay up to $50. But only that high if she looks like a supermodel or something. If they're MTB+ I'm gonna pay $20 max
Pay that money to me bro. I would have my first savings for surgeries :feelsgood::feelsgood:
 
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Nah selfie verification just to sign up. If you do ID verification you get an extra verified tick. This is the case on Hinge I think.

Do you know any Reddit or e-whores? I'm m willing to pay up to $50. But only that high if she looks like a supermodel
She gonna charge more than 50 bucks, if she looks like a supermodel :lul::lul::lul:
or something. If they're MTB+ I'm gonna pay $20 max
 
Her
  • She said she likes being outside and hanging around with her friends.
  • She doesn't want to be the type of person that stays home nor does she want her husband to be home all day.
  • Described herself as outgoing and social.

Me:
  • Spend almost every waking hour rotting in my bedroom - don't even get up to go into living room.
  • I WFH mostly so I rot even more
  • Only time I go out is to get grocery or gym - which I usually do at night.
  • I have zero social circle and can be introverted.

I told her in marriage things change but she didn't budge. She lives abroad. I know we are not compatible but my inceldom is on the line here she's my last hope :feelsree:
Brutallll. She's gonna cheat on your ass nigga, women like these are no good
 
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Ask her if she's ever had sex in a public place.
 
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Her
  • She said she likes being outside and hanging around with her friends.
  • She doesn't want to be the type of person that stays home nor does she want her husband to be home all day.
  • Described herself as outgoing and social.

Me:
  • Spend almost every waking hour rotting in my bedroom - don't even get up to go into living room.
  • I WFH mostly so I rot even more
  • Only time I go out is to get grocery or gym - which I usually do at night.
  • I have zero social circle and can be introverted.

I told her in marriage things change but she didn't budge. She lives abroad. I know we are not compatible but my inceldom is on the line here she's my last hope :feelsree:
It goes without saying that obviously you just didn't pass the LMS threshold. Girl wouldn't care about any of that if she really thought you were GL enough to marry. This is obviously just water.

Sorry about that though man you're a good dude. Why would she be your last hope if she doesn't even live near you though? You can't find a good Muslim girl in your country?
 
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It goes without saying that obviously you just didn't pass the LMS threshold. Girl wouldn't care about any of that if she really thought you were GL enough to marry. This is obviously just water.
Yeah I was good enough to match her but that was just the first hurdle. I fail to meet But I can tell she is not interested in me. I put in 10x the effort she puts in for me.
Sorry about that though man you're a good dude. Why would she be your last hope if she doesn't even live near you though? You can't find a good Muslim girl in your country?
I've been clinging on to her like a pathetic abused dog. I ended it with a couple of other girls recently and she is one of the last one.

I've given up on the UK man. This country is death mode. I can get younger, more attractive and less bitchy abroad. It's win win. I'm geomaxxing only. I ended with two girls recently because of communication issues. This one speaks English well but not interested clearly.
 
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Yeah I was good enough to match her but that was just the first hurdle. I fail to meet But I can tell she is not interested in me. I put in 10x the effort she puts in for me.

I've been clinging on to her like a pathetic abused dog. I ended it with a couple of other girls recently and she is one of the last one.

I've given up on the UK man. This country is death mode. I can get younger, more attractive and less bitchy abroad. It's win win. I'm geomaxxing only. I ended with two girls recently because of communication issues. This one speaks English well but not interested clearly.
That's brutal. Good enough to match with but not really good enough to have great conversations with and eventually meet. You also have to take into consideration that she's probably having similar conversations (I mean active conversations not just matches or a hi) with at least five other people, putting it conservatively.

Was her plan to get you to pay for a trip to you or something?

I've given up on the UK man. This country is death mode. I can get younger, more attractive and less bitchy abroad. It's win win. I'm geomaxxing only. I ended with two girls recently because of communication issues. This one speaks English well but not interested clearly.
The women look horrible in the UK too from what I've seen. I'd say you have a better chance with geomaxing as long as it's not SEA just lol.
 
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That's brutal. Good enough to match with but not really good enough to have great conversations with and eventually meet. You also have to take into consideration that she's probably having similar conversations (I mean active conversations not just matches or a hi) with at least five other people, putting it conservatively.
She's mogs most people on this ethnic app. Definitely more than 5.
Was her plan to get you to pay for a trip to you or something?
Nah I was gonna travel to her country. I mentioned if we continue talking and it 'goes well' I could visit her in January. I feel pathetic even saying this. I just come across as desperate.
The women look horrible in the UK too from what I've seen. I'd say you have a better chance with geomaxing as long as it's not SEA just lol.
Muzz (curry app) is stupidest shit ever in the UK. I get 3x as many matches in even the USA than UK.
 
Wouldn’t you want to take her out to places anyway and go on trips together anyway, would be problematic if she’s completely selfish with her free time tho
 
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Wouldn’t you want to take her out to places anyway and go on trips together anyway, would be problematic if she’s completely selfish with her free time tho
Yeah I mentioned this. Anyway it's over with this one. I ended it with her last week. Another one bites the dust 😔
 
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