girl is ordering me gifts but wont remove bikini photo from her IG

[Deleted member 17829]

why do this?

wont remove bikini photo - still looking for chad, not satisfied with me, still advertising herself

buying gifts - being nice showing her love for me


i dont even want a gift i just want loyalty. why is this happening? how can i stop it legit makes me want to die, women are so evil, their can not hide their hypergamous nature for 5 minutes, it always prevails

even told her i cant make a girl my gf if she has bikini photos up. but then begs to be my girlfriend , knowing what she needs to do to become it, but still wont remove the photos? what the actual fuck?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I wouldnt mind my gf posting bikini pics on insta- I gfind it a turn on all the simps WKing her while I creampie her

 

[Deleted member 2381]

Jfl what is her response when you ask her to take them down?

 

[Deleted member 17829]

I wouldnt mind my gf posting bikini pics on insta- I gfind it a turn on all the simps WKing her while I creampie her

nah man girls body should be sacred

your girl should be your girl

not everyones girl

 

[Deleted member 17829]

Jfl what is her response when you ask her to take them down?

idek nothing

 

[Lars]

validation is more addicting than drugs -drug user lars

 

[bogii]

Chad problems

 

[Deleted member 2381]

idek nothing

well based on this alone, she's not LTR material

Cut your losses and move on

 

[Deleted member 17829]

feels like trying to take heroin away from a heroin addict, just never gonna happen

 

[Deleted member 17829]

validation is more addicting than drugs -drug user lars

feels like trying to take heroin away from a heroin addict, just never gonna happen

 

[Deleted member 17829]

well based on this alone, she's not LTR material

Cut your losses and move on

she does everything else right but that

should i really just leave this?

 

[Chadethnic101]

Yeah don't LTR bro lol

Just say I can't be exclusive with you if you don't get rid of those pics sorry

 

[Lars]

yeah bro validation is addicting asfuck look why i am still here also looksmaxxing ofc but the constant dopamine is good

 

[Chadethnic101]

she does everything else right but that

should i really just leave this?

Maybe leave it then for now

In future if other issues come up you'll conclusively know your answer

 

[Deleted member 9819]

females need validation to live

 

[Deleted member 17829]

Yeah don't LTR bro lol

Just say I can't be exclusive with you if you don't get rid of those pics sorry

why not LTR

Because she's an attention whore and always will be?

Or do you think shes still waiting for chad to come along

 

[Tenshi]

gotta get that juicy validation

 

[BearBoy]

If she is like that just use her for money and pussy

 

[Deleted member 17829]

If she is like that just use her for money and pussy

i guess just play the game.

but thats just not a happy life, i wont ever be fully satisfied like that

 

[Deleted member 2381]

she does everything else right but that

should i really just leave this?

she likes the validation too much. Huge red flag. And this is the beginning jfl imagine in 1 or 2 years when she's bored of the relationship

And if she deletes her photos, she'll just start posting them on her close friends story behind your back

 

[ALP]

i dont even want a gift i just want loyalty.

Next time she gives a gift to you say her this and warn her, say;

"ıf you don't remove that photo i ll break up with you"

 

[Deleted member 2381]

You need a girl who doesn't do this shit in the first place. Stop trying to repair broken goods

 

[Deleted member 17829]

Next time she gives a gift to you say her this and warn her, say;

"ıf you don't remove that photo i ll break up with you"

honestly i feel like if i have to threaten like that then its over

 

[Deleted member 17829]

You need a girl who doesn't do this shit in the first place. Stop trying to repair broken goods

true. i think now ill just go for girls who dont do that. honestly i dont even care what a girl looks like. the only thing i care about is her purity

 

[BearBoy]

i guess just play the game.

but thats just not a happy life, i wont ever be fully satisfied like that

The happy life you are looking for is a fantasy

 

[Deleted member 18244]

Something similar has happened to me. Turned out to be a hoe in the end. Gifts are probably a cheap way to fool you without losing you while she keeps hoeing i’m guessing

 

[Deleted member 18804]

Based and intelligent post. This is one thing I've always wondered myself; why feel the need to seek the validation of other men and advertise yourself when you are already in a relationship? Answer is probably simple.


@Predeterminism Does ur gf make it known that you're with her? (Like involve you in any posts).


I was with a east asian chink rumor spreading bitch that didn't post bikini pics on IG or VSCO, but she would post pics and would leave her relationship status ambiguous. Time comes when we break up and she gets a new guy immediately the next day and gets everyone in my HS to hate me, thinking I'm some sort of 15 yr old abuser

 

[Chadethnic101]

why not LTR

Because she's an attention whore and always will be?

Or do you think shes still waiting for chad to come along

If she's really into you and does everything else right she is probably an attention whore and always will be

Also women always have back up plans, that attention whoring will help her move on faster if things don't work out with you.

That's what I'd say here bro

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

what gifts she buy

 

[Deleted member 15067]

Just use her for sex then

 

[ALP]

honestly i feel like if i have to threaten like that then its over

Create boundries next time you start a relationship.

Set rules for her to follow and if she doesn't want to leave her.

I did this yesterday.

 

[ALP]

Also women always have back up plans, that attention whoring will help her move on faster if things don't work out with you.

Machiavellism in it's pure form, thinking a few moves ahead.

Very based actually we men must do this too.

 

[Deleted member 17829]

Based and intelligent post. This is one thing I've always wondered myself; why feel the need to seek the validation of other men and advertise yourself when you are already in a relationship? Answer is probably simple.


@Predeterminism Does ur gf make it known that you're with her? (Like involve you in any posts).


I was with a east asian chink rumor spreading bitch that didn't post bikini pics on IG or VSCO, but she would post pics and would leave her relationship status ambiguous. Time comes when we break up and she gets a new guy immediately the next day and gets everyone in my HS to hate me, thinking I'm some sort of 15 yr old abuser

nah she doesnt make it known

i dont want to be seen in a relationship with a girl who has naked photos up anyways

damn sorry bro

yeah we srsly need to do shit to LOCK THEM DOWN, no naked photos, make it clear you are together

But then at the same time, we need to make sure we have lots of options. we need to reverse this and play it on them

 

[the BULL]

SEXIST MISOGYNIST INSECURE BASTARD
SHE JUST FEELS CONFIDENT IN HER SKIN AND OWNS IT

 

[ALP]

SEXIST MYSOGINIST INSECURE BASTARD

Yes, yes i am .

 

[the BULL]

nice brag thread btw. girl betabuxxing chad as usual

 

[Deleted member 17829]

nice brag thread btw. girl betabuxxing chad as usual

sorry but there was no way to discuss this problem without the minor brag. and she hasnt even ordered anything yet. and shes subhuman facially

 

[Chadethnic101]

Machiavellism in it's pure form, thinking a few moves ahead.

Very based actually we men must do this too.

nah she doesnt make it known

i dont want to be seen in a relationship with a girl who has naked photos up anyways

damn sorry bro

yeah we srsly need to do shit to LOCK THEM DOWN, no naked photos, make it clear you are together

But then at the same time, we need to make sure we have lots of options. we need to reverse this and play it on them

Bro I feel like we need to make them obsessed with us first

Then when they are in that position, you should set the rules down like take those pics down, text me in timely manner, don't stay out with girlfriends past 1am etc

Then on the side keep your options open
Tbh it's difficult if you go exclusive with them

Because if they find out you chat to other women etc they'll gaslight you and then probably cheat eventually
It's easier in an Fwb situation

But then again they're fucking other men so it's shit

 

[Deleted member 17829]

Bro I feel like we need to make them obsessed with us first

Then when they are in that position, you should set the rules down like take those pics down, text me in timely manner, don't stay out with girlfriends past 1am etc

Then on the side keep your options open
Tbh it's difficult if you go exclusive with them

Because if they find out you chat to other women etc they'll gaslight you and then probably cheat eventually
It's easier in an Fwb situation

But then again they're fucking other men so it's shit

also i think if u passively show youve got other options , for example new girls following u on instagram etc

they become obsessed and want to lock YOU down because theyre scared another girl will take u away

thats when the cards are in ur hand and u can set the rules


jfl at trying to set rules while the cards are in her hands, just wont work

 

[ALP]

Bro I feel like we need to make them obsessed with us first

Then when they are in that position, you should set the rules down like take those pics down, text me in timely manner, don't stay out with girlfriends past 1am etc

Then on the side keep your options open
Tbh it's difficult if you go exclusive with them

Because if they find out you chat to other women etc they'll gaslight you and then probably cheat eventually
It's easier in an Fwb situation

But then again they're fucking other men so it's shit

Learning bdsm and dominantmaxxing is a necessity once you get into a relationship, also red pill can help a little with such things like "don't show your emotions" etc.

But;

Red pill only works once you get into a relationship, ıf black pill isn't on your side you won't have a relationship in the first place.

 

[sevensources]

How do you talk to a girl for long enough to build a relationship and consider and LTR?

Seriously, why does no NT write a guide or something. I barely have conversations with my friends for more than two minutes, let alone a girl. How do people just "talk" with a girl for 3 months, wtf?!?!

 

[Deleted member 18244]

Bro I feel like we need to make them obsessed with us first

Then when they are in that position, you should set the rules down like take those pics down, text me in timely manner, don't stay out with girlfriends past 1am etc

Then on the side keep your options open
Tbh it's difficult if you go exclusive with them

Because if they find out you chat to other women etc they'll gaslight you and then probably cheat eventually
It's easier in an Fwb situation

But then again they're fucking other men so it's shit

If you have to tell her not do it it's already over man

 

[Chadethnic101]

also i think if u passively show youve got other options , for example new girls following u on instagram etc

they become obsessed and want to lock YOU down because theyre scared another girl will take u away

thats when the cards are in ur hand and u can set the rules


jfl at trying to set rules while the cards are in her hands, just wont work

Yeah that's what I mean

Also when out in public if lots of women stare at you smile etc that will help massively

It's not possible if shits in her hands lol
Really you gotta looks mog her too tbh

 

[Deleted member 17829]

Learning bdsm and dominantmaxxing is a necessity once you get into a relationship

how for example would i use this in a relationship? I think theyd find it weird and not be receptive any time ive tried to be dominant and tell them what to do

its almost like telling a naughty kid what not to do, theyll wanna do it even more

how do i make the dominating work?

 

[ALP]

how for example would i use this in a relationship? I think theyd find it weird and not be receptive any time ive tried to be dominant and tell them what to do

its almost like telling a naughty kid what not to do, theyll wanna do it even more

how do i make the dominating work?

First, find other options for yourself so you won't feel bad if this thing doesn't work.

For se× / make her feel like an object;

• Make her dress what you want. For example; cat costume, maid, harley quinn etc.

• Fuck her like you are r#ping her,

• Hogtie her, tie her mouth, slap her a$$... then after the se× has done don't set her free. Put your legs on her and watch tv for half an hour, then f*ck her again (I know how this sounds but you get the idea ).

(Bdsm isn't only about se× actually, you can apply it in real life too and dominate her all the time.)

For public / make her feel like a child;

• Hold her arm/not hand.

• Go a few steps ahead.

• Don't let her cut your speaking.

• Don't let other men touch her, even handshake with her.

• Don't let her wear anything you don't want.

...

My english isn't good enough to explain all this bdsm stuff but you can find dozens of books/websites about it ıf you search it yourself.

After you've done dominating her you can make her follow your orders.

You must start with warning her so seriously and threat her with leaving ıf she doesn't follow your orders.

if she leaves find a girl and apply the same thing.

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Personally i am so obsessed with looksmaxxing, statusmaxxing, knowledgemaxxing, skillmaxxing etc. i don't even have time to start dominantmaxxing, i just do it naturally.

 

[444]

nah man girls body should be sacred

your girl should be your girl

not everyones girl

what happens when you go to the beach? it's not like she has an onlyfans or something

 

[ALP]

what happens when you go to the beach? it's not like she has an onlyfans or something

Not the same thing.

People in the beach won't see her name upon her head and can't talk with her because you are with her.

If a man tried to talk with my girl i'd warn him and if he doesn't go i'd beat the living shit out of him.

 

[Chadpreetmaybe]

true. i think now ill just go for girls who dont do that. honestly i dont even care what a girl looks like. the only thing i care about is her purity

Mirin, that's what every man should aim for, you should compromise with looks for purity and loyalty. If a girl thinks sex is just a mere act and gives her dignity to every other man (like most white whores) run as far as you can. Your wife is supposed to be only your wife, not everyone's wife

 

[Deleted member 17829]

You must start with warning her so seriously and threat her with leaving ıf she doesn't follow your orders.

what threats should one use?

statusmaxxing,

btw we;ve got a statusmaxxing server, can i ask what ur doing to statusmaxx atm?

 

[Deleted member 17829]

what happens when you go to the beach? it's not like she has an onlyfans or something

different on the beach cos men cant see her and sneakily slide in the DMs