Girl who rejected me called me handsome

[mplayer1234]

I made a depressing post on Snapchat, then she texted me out of nowhere and tried to talk to me about it. I then told her how in life what matters is the "way you look, how smart you are, and how you get things done." She then called me handsome and told me one of her relatives thought I was a model.

You think she was lying and trying to help me cope?

 

[Deleted member 3043]

yes my bro i think she lied
you don't deserve this

 

[Bewusst]

this doesn't make sense

 

[Deleted member 2745]

And then you woke up

 

[mplayer1234]

yes my bro i think she lied
you don't deserve this

Tbh I do but it would just make life better if people were honest.

 

[Krezo]

 

[Deleted member 3043]

Tbh I do but it would just make life better if people were honest.

totally true... but most aren't

 

[mplayer1234]

this doesn't make sense

I know it doesn't, I just changed the topic immedately after.

 

[Morpheus]

Honestly the fact that she texted you for no reason other than to try to make you feel better is a good sign. Either she cares about you or you look better than you think. Also why would she lie about a relative thinking you look like a model. Even if it's exaggerated, that'd be a weird thing to just completely make up.

 

[mplayer1234]

totally true... but most aren't

You know what they say, "The truth shall set you free"

 

[Deleted member 3043]

You know what they say, "The truth shall set you free"

Always Say the truth no matter what you'll be the winner at the end of the day.

 

[Morpheus]

Also give me context on the rejection. What's her relation to you and what happened exactly?

 

[mplayer1234]

Honestly the fact that she texted you for no reason other than to try to make you feel better is a good sign. Either she cares about you or you look better than you think. Also why would she lie about a relative thinking you look like a model. Even if it's exaggerated, that'd be a weird thing to just completely make up.

I get what you mean, I think she feels pity for me or something. I've stopped talking to her years apart but she will text me again and again maybe because she felt bad after rejecting me and dating one of my friends.

 

[Deleted member 4675]

8 PSL GIGACHAD TRAIT = having snapchat

 

[Deleted member 4464]

lied

 

[JimJones]

Christ, making a depressing post on Snapchat?

 

[mplayer1234]

Also give me context on the rejection. What's her relation to you and what happened exactly?

Me and her worked in school broadcast, we talked a lot, then we went to prom together, then the movies, so I asked her out after and she used a disorder as an excuse to reject me. I tried to make it not awkward until I graduated then I just distanced myself from her completely and ended up dating my friend. She would text me even when I made a different account then I stopped texting her for a year, then she would text me again, then I would stop talking to her, she would keep doing this on and off, then this happened.

 

[Deleted member 245]

Watch this OP.



Handsome = generic meaningless compliment

 

[mplayer1234]

Christ, making a depressing post on Snapchat?

I was at a dark point at that time, failing school for a 3rd time in a row, my job, felt disgusted with myself.

Watch this OP.



Handsome = generic meaningless compliment

I already knew that was the case because she rejected me years ago

 

[Bewusst]

Me and her worked in school broadcast, we talked a lot, then we went to prom together, then the movies, so I asked her out after and she used a disorder as an excuse to reject me. I tried to make it not awkward until I graduated then I just distanced myself from her completely and ended up dating my friend. She would text me even when I made a different account then I stopped texting her for a year, then she would text me again, then I would stop talking to her, she would keep doing this on and off, then this happened.

She's clearly interested in you - can't tell whether in a platonic way or physically attracted though. She's also upset because you ghosted her when you used to hang out a lot before. I guess that hit her ego hard and now she's kinda attached to you. As you can see, attraction in general isn't only about the other person but also about oneself. Her self-esteem took a hit. What you did (break contact without any explanation) triggered something in her and she now feels that she needs you - be it for a last clarifying chat - to deal with that ego hit and to be able to move on with a clear mind.

That'd be my explanation

 

[Dedsrsmaxxer]

@54UD4D3 thoughts, was she srs?

 

[54UD4D3]

@54UD4D3 thoughts, was she srs?

Probably trying to put him in the simp line as backup or set him up for her landwhale cousin by pretending to care tbhtbh ngl.

 

[mplayer1234]

She's clearly interested in you - can't tell whether in a platonic way or physically attracted though. She's also upset because you ghosted her when you used to hang out a lot before. I guess that hit her ego hard and now she's kinda attached to you. As you can see, attraction in general isn't only about the other person but also about oneself. Her self-esteem took a hit. What you did (break contact without any explanation) triggered something in her and she now feels that she needs you - be it for a last clarifying chat - to deal with that ego hit and to be able to move on with a clear mind.

That'd be my explanation

I get what you mean, I don't think she is interested at all but everything else I completely agree with.

 

[KingOfRome]

Signaling of virtue

 

[Morpheus]

Me and her worked in school broadcast, we talked a lot, then we went to prom together, then the movies, so I asked her out after and she used a disorder as an excuse to reject me. I tried to make it not awkward until I graduated then I just distanced myself from her completely and ended up dating my friend. She would text me even when I made a different account then I stopped texting her for a year, then she would text me again, then I would stop talking to her, she would keep doing this on and off, then this happened.

Bro ignore what most people on here tell you. The majority of posters here have zero experience with girls. If you were able to go to prom with her, go on a date with her, and she still checks up on you now and then and makes sure you’re feeling alright, I’m sure she does think you’re good looking and probably even likes you.

A disorder is a legitimate reason to not want a relationship. Even for girls. It’s a big commitment and a big change in your life and sometimes you’re just not ready for one and you have shit you need to take care of on your own first. A few months ago I rejected a really cute girl I liked a lot (pic of text convo below) because I simply don’t want a relationship right now and I’m working on myself. And I have way less options than cute girls have so that should tell you something.

 

[Bewusst]

I get what you mean, I don't think she is interested

She def is, otherwise you wouldn't live in her head rent-free. Again, it could be non-sexual interest/attempts to fix her self-esteem

 

[mplayer1234]

Bro ignore what most people on here tell you. The majority of posters here have zero experience with girls. If you were able to go to prom with her, go on a date with her, and she still checks up on you now and then and makes sure you’re feeling alright, I’m sure she does think you’re good looking and probably even likes you.

A disorder is a legitimate reason to not want a relationship. Even for girls. It’s a big commitment and a big change in your life and sometimes you’re just not ready for one and you have shit you need to take care of on your own first. A few months ago I rejected a really cute girl I liked a lot (pic of text convo below) because I simply don’t want a relationship right now and I’m working on myself. And I have way less options than cute girls have so that should tell you something.

I get what you mean. Not gonna lie I actually kind of saw it from her shoes as well in college. I was getting with a lot of women at the campus, 3 at once at one point, and one of them asked what are we, so I told her, "I wasn't really looking for a relationship at that time."

She def is, otherwise you wouldn't live in her head rent-free. Again, it could be non-sexual interest/attempts to fix her self-esteem

Yeah tbh, she is probably used to guys trying to get with her.

 

[54UD4D3]

I get what you mean. Not gonna lie I actually kind of saw it from her shoes as well in college. I was getting with a lot of women at the campus, 3 at once at one point, and one of them asked what are we, so I told her, "I wasn't really looking for a relationship at that time."

Yeah tbh, she is probably used to guys trying to get with her.

The important question here is.... Does she have cute feet?

 

[mplayer1234]

The important question here is.... Does she have cute feet?

At that time I didn't even care, I just thought she was pretty.

Feet are important to me now, one girl I met on tinder during college had some of the scariest looking feet I ever saw. They were vainy, had stretch marks, I was kind of scared.