ElySioNs
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I’ve been with my girlfriend for about 2 months and about 2 weeks ago she introduced me to one of her friends and we all went out for a zoot and he seemed like an alright guy so I had no issues with it or anything. Fast forward to yesterday he comes up in a conversation and it’s revealed that she’s slept with him several times a couple years ago and they had some history, she has left every single man she’s got with to go back to him (though this hasn’t happened to me and im confident it won’t) and I found out that he still liked her and said he’d wait 20 years for her (this happened at the start of our relationship and I also didn’t know this he’s just been in the background on her Snapchat the whole time.
My gf broke down in tears said I deserved better and while they’ve done or said nothing since I’ve been in the picture she said she thought she told me everything and feels awful. She blocked him after this argument they had at the same time yesterday (over something different) however she has done this a few times and he’s come back angry and she’s let him back into her life.
Am I a mug for meeting him and not knowing? I have no issue with what’s happened in the past before they knew me but I don’t know how I should feel about not knowing all of these things as it feels disrespectful but im not sure.
My gf broke down in tears said I deserved better and while they’ve done or said nothing since I’ve been in the picture she said she thought she told me everything and feels awful. She blocked him after this argument they had at the same time yesterday (over something different) however she has done this a few times and he’s come back angry and she’s let him back into her life.
Am I a mug for meeting him and not knowing? I have no issue with what’s happened in the past before they knew me but I don’t know how I should feel about not knowing all of these things as it feels disrespectful but im not sure.