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Noveau Bitche
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So my gf goes on vacations with random groups from internet and then exchanges numbers with them and keeps in contact with them for whatever reason. I wasn’t bothered by it first , I was pretty cool with it, but when I learnt that most of those guys are just trying to hit on her and she keeps talking to them and meeting them despite their intentions is what concerns me. One of the guys even tried sexually assaulting her when she met him privately after returning from their trips. That worries me. And what boggled my mind is she kept meeting him couple of times even after that and that they been talking for a while and we ended up with big fight over it. She even went on dates with couple of them before we made our relationship “official”. I’m not comfortable with her going on trips and vacations with random guys from internet groups anymore nor am I comfortable with her staying in touch with them after trips. We have been arguing over this for months with no real solution. I don’t wanna seem controlling but this behaviour is taking on toll on our relationship and she isn’t exactly trying to build trust and I don’t get why she needs all those random guys when I’m here. One more thing - when we first started dating she made a big deal about sharing her pictures with me and never added me to her insta, till I insisted repeatedly much later. But she adds random guys from trips to her insta just like that for her pics for them to see. I don’t understand this difference in treatment. And I don’t like the feeling she is just keeping back up guys in background to replace. How do I proceed with this situation?
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