Girlfriend shared something about her tattoo and now it’s all I can think of when seeing it. How can I get around this

[Rabbi]

My girlfriend opened up recently about her past and was a little over sharing

She shared she’s been with XXX people which is its own thing I’m working through to not let it bother me with my therapist.

But one thing she shared does bother me

She studied abroad her last semester of college and got a tattoo. At the time she had a boyfriend. A year later she went back and hooked up with that tattoo artist. Now that’s all I can think of when seeing the tattoo. How can I not be bothered by this ?

 

[Rabbi]

There is no such thing as over sharing with your partner. She's honest, it's a good quality. If you don't like the info you get, do with it what you will. Accept their past as the past, or move on.

 

[Deleted member 99995]

While she's sleeping at night get a tatoo gun and scribble it all out

 

[abuserr007]

. Accept their past as the past

 

[ashesfr]

yeah she’s getting drilled by someone other than you each week

 

[distance decay]

Triple digits???? Thats ropefuel

 

[NZb6Air]

My girlfriend

dnr

Now that’s all I can think of when seeing the tattoo.

laser off the tatoo or ldar her

 

[Clown Show]

If this is not larp then you are with the absolute whore...

 

[Rabbi]

yeah she’s getting drilled by someone other than you each week

dnr


laser off the tatoo or ldar her

If this is not larp then you are with the absolute whore...

Its a poor redditor feel sorry for the bastard

 

[raabla]

Its a poor redditor feel sorry for the bastard

I thought it was you but now that you look it, this is how they type in posts

 

[Danish_Retard]

I honestly have no clue how I’ll ever cope with a girl having partners before me, my gf had one ex but never did anything sexual with him and that still makes me seethe.

I guess I’ve gotten feelings for sluts before, but that thought about them is always in the back of my mind.

 

[FutureSlayer]

You need to embrace your emotions darling

 

[FutureSlayer]

I honestly have no clue how I’ll ever cope with a girl having partners before me, my gf had one ex but never did anything sexual with him and that still makes me seethe.

I guess I’ve gotten feelings for sluts before, but that thought about them is always in the back of my mind.

You’re getting played, they at least played with her clit

 

[Always Stay You]

I honestly have no clue how I’ll ever cope with a girl having partners before me, my gf had one ex but never did anything sexual with him and that still makes me seethe.

I guess I’ve gotten feelings for sluts before, but that thought about them is always in the back of my mind.

She 100% did sexual things with him assuming they were over the age of 12. They might not have fucked, but she probably sat on his knee and rubbed her clit all over his lower thigh/knee. Or the dude fingered her. Or she put her mouth on his dick through his jeans or something.

Accept it now and be honest with yourself whether you can handle the jealousy or leave her

 

[FutureSlayer]

She 100% did sexual things with him assuming they were over the age of 12. They might not have fucked, but she probably sat on his knee and rubbed her clit all over his lower thigh/knee. Or the dude fingered her. Or she put her mouth on his dick through his jeans or something.

Accept it now and be honest with yourself whether you can handle the jealousy or leave her

Yes, in my experience when a foid tells that to her next bf they haven’t got penetrative sex but they had everything else done

 

[AverageTevvezFan]

Honestly, in that situation the only way to cope is cheating. If you know your gf is a slut, why treat her like anything else? Do sluts deserve faithful, loving relationships? I don’t think so. And if she finds out, it doesn’t matter, you weren’t gonna marry her anyway.

Or just don’t LTR sluts in the first place, it’s up to you.