Going clubbing solo in an attempt to pull girls

[DoctorLooksmax]

So ive alwyas thought going out by yourself was an extremley aspie thing to do. But tonight I went out ny myself to anightlcub for the first time ever, if any girl asked wwho i was with i just told them my friend pulled and left me by myself, Managed to cold approach 4 girls, first one rejected me, second one was very into me and said I should hang out with her the rest of the night lol but i was just a bit aspie and weird and wastn sure how to escalate and after a 10 mins of just dancing it kind of went no where i fekt awkward and backed out. Third girls pretty much rejected me. Fourth girl i approached at the bar and she said shes lost her friends and iwas like yeah me to then she gives me a shot for free because it was for her mate who dissapeared then shes like help me find my friends and i go with her she takes my hand we find her friends dance and make out for a little bit then she just kind of ditches me in the smoking area. So all in all id say that was a successfull night when you consider i have never ever done a cold approach before so atleast i conquered my approach anxiety and got a make out which isnt great I know but its better than nothing. I suppose the more I practice this stuff the better i get, I think game is kind of legit but only for girls in your league or slightly below due to hypergamy. The girls from tonight were all about 5/10s which is why i approached them. This is my very first time solo clbbing and i always thought girls would be 100% tunred off by the fact youre there alone but tbh none of them seemed to give a shit they either liked my looks 2/4 or didnt and rejected me the other 2/4, With less aspieness/ better game i guess i could have taken things further with the other two girls but it is what it is and all in all id say it was a successfull night

 

[Butthurt Dweller]

Did not read because of poor formatting

 

[ZyzzReincarnate]

well done op, u did what 99% of this forum wouldnt be able to do, including myself

now i wanna try going out on my own as well

Did not read because of poor formatting

actually worth reading tho ngl

 

[MammothActuary]

Didnt read but dont go to clubs to meet girls

 

[Alt Number 3]

should have warning label attached: 'DONT TRY IF INDIAN'

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

well done op, u did what 99% of this forum wouldnt be able to do, including myself

now i wanna try going out on my own as well


actually worth reading tho ngl

Ive never ever done it before because i thought i was the most aspie thing imaginable. The thing is in a big club people constantly get seperated from their friends on a night so its very easy to say i lost my mate, the line I used was just oh my mate who i was here with pulled a girl so thats why im by myself if they ask but to honest i dont think they reslly even cared they eihter liked my looks or didnt. Id say ever so slightly above average looking overall so was trying to target girls in the 4.5-5/10 range. My face is like bang average but i have a good gymcelled body and im 6'0, although I wore air maxs out so in those shoes im effectively an inch taller, I also wore i kinda tight slim fit shirt to show off my muscles.

Going out clubbing alone ive always thought you just instantly be labelled as a creep but basically if the girl finds you attractive it doesnt matter, obviously 2 dances and one make out with average looking girls isnt like amazing resutls but cosnidering this was my first time ever trying something like this id say it was succdssfull. To be honest the main thing is I finally conquered my approach anxiety. Oh yeah and one other thing i go to uni and im in a group of fairly high status good looking people and obvs i cant have them knowing im going out alone to pull so I went to a club on a staurday where its basically all locals from the city i live in and not really any students which meant there was bascially no chance of bumping into anyone I know

 

[EckhartTollemaxx]

So ive alwyas thought going out by yourself was an extremley aspie thing to do. But tonight I went out ny myself to anightlcub for the first time ever, if any girl asked wwho i was with i just told them my friend pulled and left me by myself, Managed to cold approach 4 girls, first one rejected me, second one was very into me and said I should hang out with her the rest of the night lol but i was just a bit aspie and weird and wastn sure how to escalate and after a 10 mins of just dancing it kind of went no where i fekt awkward and backed out. Third girls pretty much rejected me. Fourth girl i approached at the bar and she said shes lost her friends and iwas like yeah me to then she gives me a shot for free because it was for her mate who dissapeared then shes like help me find my friends and i go with her she takes my hand we find her friends dance and make out for a little bit then she just kind of ditches me in the smoking area. So all in all id say that was a successfull night when you consider i have never ever done a cold approach before so atleast i conquered my approach anxiety and got a make out which isnt great I know but its better than nothing. I suppose the more I practice this stuff the better i get, I think game is kind of legit but only for girls in your league or slightly below due to hypergamy. The girls from tonight were all about 5/10s which is why i approached them. This is my very first time solo clbbing and i always thought girls would be 100% tunred off by the fact youre there alone but tbh none of them seemed to give a shit they either liked my looks 2/4 or didnt and rejected me the other 2/4, With less aspieness/ better game i guess i could have taken things further with the other two girls but it is what it is and all in all id say it was a successfull night

What a wall of text but nice field report.

 

[Drugs]

Read every single word. Good job at actually approaching.

 

[karbo]

So ive alwyas thought going out by yourself was an extremley aspie thing to do. But tonight I went out ny myself to anightlcub for the first time ever, if any girl asked wwho i was with i just told them my friend pulled and left me by myself, Managed to cold approach 4 girls, first one rejected me, second one was very into me and said I should hang out with her the rest of the night lol but i was just a bit aspie and weird and wastn sure how to escalate and after a 10 mins of just dancing it kind of went no where i fekt awkward and backed out. Third girls pretty much rejected me. Fourth girl i approached at the bar and she said shes lost her friends and iwas like yeah me to then she gives me a shot for free because it was for her mate who dissapeared then shes like help me find my friends and i go with her she takes my hand we find her friends dance and make out for a little bit then she just kind of ditches me in the smoking area. So all in all id say that was a successfull night when you consider i have never ever done a cold approach before so atleast i conquered my approach anxiety and got a make out which isnt great I know but its better than nothing. I suppose the more I practice this stuff the better i get, I think game is kind of legit but only for girls in your league or slightly below due to hypergamy. The girls from tonight were all about 5/10s which is why i approached them. This is my very first time solo clbbing and i always thought girls would be 100% tunred off by the fact youre there alone but tbh none of them seemed to give a shit they either liked my looks 2/4 or didnt and rejected me the other 2/4, With less aspieness/ better game i guess i could have taken things further with the other two girls but it is what it is and all in all id say it was a successfull night

going alone isnt a big deal tbh, if you are extremely NT and have game it can even be better than going with friends

 

[Enlil]

very cool man.

 

[fukmylyf]

very cool man.

Hi.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

going alone isnt a big deal tbh, if you are extremely NT and have game it can even be better than going with friends

Im not even extremley NT nor do i have great game, infact he second girl was very into me but i fully messed things up due to aspieness. My point is there are a lot of people here who cry about being incel but havent actually tried things like this yet because their 'sub chad' . Im not even close to being a chad or a chadlite but i had some moderate success, I also spent ages just trying to eye up girls to approach so i could have done more approaches, my point is if an average faced 6'0 (well 6'1 in the shoes i wore) can have some success doing it then more people who call themselves incel but do in fact have average looks should try this

 

[chadpreetinthemaking]

Im not even extremley NT nor do i have great game, infact he second girl was very into me but i fully messed things up due to aspieness. My point is there are a lot of people here who cry about being incel but havent actually tried things like this yet because their 'sub chad' . Im not even close to being a chad or a chadlite but i had some moderate success, I also spent ages just trying to eye up girls to approach so i could have done more approaches, my point is if an average faced 6'0 (well 6'1 in the shoes i wore) can have some success doing it then more people who call themselves incel but do in fact have average looks should try this

PM me your pics, i doubt you would have had any success if you were not somewhat GL.

 

[karbo]

Im not even extremley NT nor do i have great game, infact he second girl was very into me but i fully messed things up due to aspieness. My point is there are a lot of people here who cry about being incel but havent actually tried things like this yet because their 'sub chad' . Im not even close to being a chad or a chadlite but i had some moderate success, I also spent ages just trying to eye up girls to approach so i could have done more approaches, my point is if an average faced 6'0 (well 6'1 in the shoes i wore) can have some success doing it then more people who call themselves incel but do in fact have average looks should try this

yea this place is full of 24/7 rotting aspie volcels tbh

btw if i had to go out alone, i'd probably drink some alcohol to lower my inhibition. im truecel as sober, but slayer as drunk

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

PM me your pics, i doubt you would have had any success if you were not somewhat GL.

Im a 5/10 face wise , lets say 5.5/10 due to slightly above average height and a good body. Some pople have seen my face and can atest to this but i honestly just cba to post it to anymore people @turkproducer has met me irl see he knows exactl what i look like and will back up that im a 5/10. Tbh a lot of you guys have very harsh rating scales and would possibly rate me even lower

yea this place is full of 24/7 rotting aspie volcels tbh

btw if i had to go out alone, i'd probably drink some alcohol to lower my inhibition. im truecel as sober, but slayer as drunk

I had half a bar of xanax beforehand

 

[RichardSpencel]

 

[Enlil]

Hi.

hey bro sup

 

[turkproducer]

PM me your pics, i doubt you would have had any success if you were not somewhat GL.

He is average or so, most people here with average face can do a lot more than what PSL makes it out to be, but 20 rejections with 1 success is not appealling to most people, which is why op is basically tryna say be more low inhib it’s beneficial..

 

[pisslord]

Lads
How does
Kiss with a girl
Feels like?

 

[FatJattMofo]

Lads
How does
Kiss with a girl
Feels like?

kiss your asshole. thats it bro

 

[pisslord]

kiss your asshole. thats it bro

Bro how flexible are you

 

[FatJattMofo]

Bro how flexible are you

rectal prolapse

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

He is average or so, most people here with average face can do a lot more than what PSL makes it out to be, but 20 rejections with 1 success is not appealling to most people, which is why op is basically tryna say be more low inhib it’s beneficial..

i feel like being on xans made me kinda numb to the rejections

 

[pisslord]

rectal prolapse

Prolapsecel

 

[Deleted member 3328]

paragraphs nibba

 

[rockndogs]

Did not read because of poor formatting

tbh

 

[LooksJourney]

Hope you get jumped by their chad boyfriends next time.

 

[Mr_Norwood]

I'm too old for clubbing now.. I do sometimes go when i'm abroad though.

Being ALONE is the best thing you will ever do.. full freedom to do whatever you want, without a bunch of awkward mates to make you feel "normal and safe". Being alone means you can approach and are more approachable

Most of my poor bastard mates from school or wherever can only go abroad traveling alone in their "boy groups".. They all get drunk and don't slay then come home..

I'm alone in restaurants, pubs, bars, whatever.. i don't give a shit anymore

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I'm too old for clubbing now.. I do sometimes go when i'm abroad though.

Being ALONE is the best thing you will ever do.. full freedom to do whatever you want, without a bunch of awkward mates to make you feel "normal and safe". Being alone means you can approach and are more approachable

Most of my poor bastard mates from school or wherever can only go abroad traveling alone in their "boy groups".. They all get drunk and don't slay then come home..

I'm alone in restaurants, pubs, bars, whatever.. i don't give a shit anymore

im 21. As part of my experiment I asked girls i was talking to to guess my age when i chatting to them, both of them guessed 19, so I reckon I have atleast a good 4-5 years before Im that old creepy guy in the club. Actually I think going out clubbing alone is way better than with a group of guys unless youre going out with some girls as well and youre trying to pull those girls. I do still like going clubbing with my mates but we never do pulling nights anyway its always mdma and ket kinda nights which no one really pulls at

 

[Deleted member 3043]

Did not read because of poor formatting

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

He is average or so, most people here with average face can do a lot more than what PSL makes it out to be, but 20 rejections with 1 success is not appealling to most people, which is why op is basically tryna say be more low inhib it’s beneficial..

I honestly think that with an average face you can get better than 19/20 rejections unless youre going for girls well above your looks level. I mean it depends what you count as a rejction, I view a rejection as a girl literlally ignoring you/telling you to go away, fuck off, just running off with her friends etc. IMO just because it doesnt go all the way to sex thats not a rejection you can still try and get numbers, make outs etc

 

[Hector]

Now try to use paragraphs by yourself bro

 

[SurgerySoon]

I'm too old for clubbing now.. I do sometimes go when i'm abroad though.

Being ALONE is the best thing you will ever do.. full freedom to do whatever you want, without a bunch of awkward mates to make you feel "normal and safe". Being alone means you can approach and are more approachable

Most of my poor bastard mates from school or wherever can only go abroad traveling alone in their "boy groups".. They all get drunk and don't slay then come home..

I'm alone in restaurants, pubs, bars, whatever.. i don't give a shit anymore

Just curious, how old would you say is too old to go out to clubs? If someone who is considered to be too old insists on going clubbing anyways, is it considered to be a big deal? Or just whatever?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Can some mod edit the OP into paragraphs, also I think from now on im gonna use this thread as a solo clubbing log and update everytime i go. I wrote this quite xanned when i came in so sorry for spelling and no paragraphs but just get it a read, some of you 5/10s like me just need to try harder tbh

 

[Deleted member 2933]

Dont do it

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Just curious, how old would you say is too old to go out to clubs? If someone who is considered to be too old insists on going clubbing anyways, is it considered to be a big deal? Or just whatever?

It depends on the vibe of the club. Most people in most clubs are aged 18-22 so id say over 25 is starting to get creepy but you can always just lie about your age I suppose, i guess its more about looking young than being young.

 

[SurgerySoon]

It depends on the vibe of the club. Most people in most clubs are aged 18-22 so id say over 25 is starting to get creepy but you can always just lie about your age I suppose, i guess its more about looking young than being young.

Damn, so at almost 32 it's basically over for me? (Or will be very soon)

The thing is, if a guy is just interested in casual stuff like hooking up or whatever and isn't GL for Tinder, what are his options once he's considered too old to go to clubs?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Damn, so at almost 32 it's basically over for me? (Or will be very soon)

The thing is, if a guy is just interested in casual stuff like hooking up or whatever and isn't GL for Tinder, what are his options once he's considered too old to go to clubs?

travelling and staying at hostels perhaps. Do you look young? thats what really matters not being young. TBH mate if youre not good looking enought to get anyhting on tinder then you will also struggle in clubs regardless of your age

 

[Mr_Norwood]

Just curious, how old would you say is too old to go out to clubs? If someone who is considered to be too old insists on going clubbing anyways, is it considered to be a big deal? Or just whatever?

I'm 33.. i wouldn't visit a UK club nowadays.... Degenerate drunken idiots.. few girls, people trying to cause fights.. the music is too loud and trashy. There are some people there my age... but usually they're loser men.. or old hag women who still think they're in their prime..

When i'm abroad i do like to go to a few more classier establishments

 

[AscendenceImminent]

Justfuckinglol. If 6 feet is ‘slightly above average’ then what does that make my 5”7? Severe dwarfism? Kill thyself OP. Gymcelled Tallfags pulling chicks is a given

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Justfuckinglol. If 6 feet is ‘slightly above average’ then what does that make my 5”7? Severe dwarfism? Kill thyself OP. Gymcelled Tallfags pulling chicks is a given

but my face is only average, adn tbf i was wearing air max so was 6'1 on the night

 

[turkproducer]

Justfuckinglol. If 6 feet is ‘slightly above average’ then what does that make my 5”7? Severe dwarfism? Kill thyself OP. Gymcelled Tallfags pulling chicks is a given

He is 182cm morning which is probably 1.5-2 inch above his young white male peers.. Are you 170cm morning? if so it’s quite unlucky.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Went again last night, had a few rejections of the first few approaches then this girl makes eye contact with me at the bar. I go over and ask her name she starts putting her arms on me so im like okay shall I kiss you then, I start making out with her, get her number then she spends about half an hour grinding on me and groping my dick and the dancefloor before she goes to the toilet then im like ill wait here and point to a spot with some sofas and shes like alrite babe ill be back I wait like 20 mins and she doesn't come back I waited by the toilet but I prob missed her leave. She was a pretty fit 18 year old, she was also quite plastered and I was stone cold sober so would have been a bit sketchy shagging her that night. I so have her number (assuming she even gave me the real one), so im planning to text her today, probably text her a bit throughout the week and then link her next weekend. What do you think guys, what should I text her?
Oh yeah just another thing I wanted to point out, first time I went and did approaching I was very concerned about the social stigma of being there alone, and when I approached one of the first things id say to girls is oh my mate ditched me for a bird or hes in the toilet or something without them even asking, what I realise now is when everyones pissed in a crowded club no one can even tell that youre there by yourself and they diont even care either, I didn't even metion the fact I was there alone to any of the girls I spoke to and none of them asked either

 

[Titbot]

GJ OP

 

[diggbicc]

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[Petsmart]

woah nigga gotta pay me to read all that shit

 

[diggbicc]

Went again last night, had a few rejections of the first few approaches then this girl makes eye contact with me at the bar. I go over and ask her name she starts putting her arms on me so im like okay shall I kiss you then, I start making out with her, get her number then she spends about half an hour grinding on me and groping my dick and the dancefloor before she goes to the toilet then im like ill wait here and point to a spot with some sofas and shes like alrite babe ill be back I wait like 20 mins and she doesn't come back I waited by the toilet but I prob missed her leave. She was a pretty fit 18 year old, she was also quite plastered and I was stone cold sober so would have been a bit sketchy shagging her that night. I so have her number (assuming she even gave me the real one), so im planning to text her today, probably text her a bit throughout the week and then link her next weekend. What do you think guys, what should I text her?
Oh yeah just another thing I wanted to point out, first time I went and did approaching I was very concerned about the social stigma of being there alone, and when I approached one of the first things id say to girls is oh my mate ditched me for a bird or hes in the toilet or something without them even asking, what I realise now is when everyones pissed in a crowded club no one can even tell that youre there by yourself and they diont even care either, I didn't even metion the fact I was there alone to any of the girls I spoke to and none of them asked either

noice

 

[poonkiller9000]

i suggest making friends at clubs and actually getting 1 or 2 bros to come with you so they can wing you when u need it. Also its just a better feeling that u got bros that will have ur back when u are a beginner.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

i suggest making friends at clubs and actually getting 1 or 2 bros to come with you so they can wing you when u need it. Also its just a better feeling that u got bros that will have ur back when u are a beginner.

I have loads of mates and go put with them as well but the nights aretn really pulling girls orientated since most already have gfs. When I go out with my mates I just go out to have fun and don't really worry about girls, when im out solo im more focused on actually getting girls, its easier to get girls when out solo imo unless youre out in like a mixed gender group and have good chemistry/attraction with one of the girls in that group
Okay, any ideas for what i should text the girl from last night then? I was think hey met you at such and such place last night and got your number but ended up losing you haha! Anyway hope you had a good night, thought id drop you a text and see if you remembered me haha

 

[autistic_tendencies]

Success in clubs is being low inhib big frame and height