“Going outside” actually makes you more blackpilled.

[Deleted member 16280]

“Anon, have you tried going out and actually approaching women? It’s nothing like how it seems on social media!”

“Stupid incel, try touching grass and you’d know the blackpill is nonsense only basement dwellers believe in”.

How many times have you seen a bluepiller say that?

The funny thing is though, the complete opposite is true. When you read the dating statistics online or watch how women objectify men on social media, it’s easy to dismiss it as “not real life”. But what happens when you go out in the real world?

Ever try cold approaching or watch others do it? It is literally just real life tinder-swiping. The girl knows within 2 seconds based on the guys appearance whether she’s receptive and immediately makes it known. Anyone who can’t recognize this is a 99th percentile autist.

How about walking around campus or your workplace? If you don’t often overhear women gossiping about who the hottest guy is, you’re not paying attention to your surroundings. People accuse men of “objectifying women” but any time I hang out in a group of guys + girls, I’ll always hear things like “Omg his face is cute but he’s 5’8 he’s so short haha” or “Yes that guy can do anything he wants to me” or “Ew he’s Indian”. The truth is men and women are both superficial, and it is not their fault it is simple human nature.

How about, and this is my favorite, “Go outside and you’ll see short ugly guys on dates with the most gorgeous women!” JFL. I’ll admit there are some non-looksmatched couples. But the frequency and extent of these disparities are MASSIVELY overblown. It’s more like a 4 pulled a 5. Yes you will, once in a while, see a normie with an s-lite. Fine. Obviously there are those rare exceptions by status, money, and types/nichemaxxing. But that’s just what those are: exceptions. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t TRY to be one of them. Just don’t beat yourself up for not being one, a lot of this shit is pure dumb luck: Right place, right time. So yes do go out and live. Talk to women. “Put yourself out there” and yes good things CAN (not WILL) happen. Just have a realistic outlook and maintain your thick skin. Because “Just go outside bro!” isn’t bad advice, but it’s not a catch-all solution to your life. Good luck.

 

[Sceptical]

 

[ToryToad]

real

 

[Deleted member 16280]

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dnw

 

[hapagenes2]

pretty much yea

 

[New Poster]

No one is saying looks don’t matter irl. They’re saying the looks thresholds are more reasonable irl than on tinder — which is true.

 

[yoshisand]

“Anon, have you tried going out and actually approaching women? It’s nothing like how it seems on social media!”

“Stupid incel, try touching grass and you’d know the blackpill is nonsense only basement dwellers believe in”.

How many times have you seen a bluepiller say that?

The funny thing is though, the complete opposite is true. When you read the dating statistics online or watch how women objectify men on social media, it’s easy to dismiss it as “not real life”. But what happens when you go out in the real world?

Ever try cold approaching or watch others do it? It is literally just real life tinder-swiping. The girl knows within 2 seconds based on the guys appearance whether she’s receptive and immediately makes it known. Anyone who can’t recognize this is a 99th percentile autist.

How about walking around campus or your workplace? If you don’t often overhear women gossiping about who the hottest guy is, you’re not paying attention to your surroundings. People accuse men of “objectifying women” but any time I hang out in a group of guys + girls, I’ll always hear things like “Omg his face is cute but he’s 5’8 he’s so short haha” or “Yes that guy can do anything he wants to me” or “Ew he’s Indian”. The truth is men and women are both superficial, and it is not their fault it is simple human nature.

How about, and this is my favorite, “Go outside and you’ll see short ugly guys on dates with the most gorgeous women!” JFL. I’ll admit there are some non-looksmatched couples. But the frequency and extent of these disparities are MASSIVELY overblown. It’s more like a 4 pulled a 5. Yes you will, once in a while, see a normie with an s-lite. Fine. Obviously there are those rare exceptions by status, money, and types/nichemaxxing. But that’s just what those are: exceptions. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t TRY to be one of them. Just don’t beat yourself up for not being one, a lot of this shit is pure dumb luck: Right place, right time. So yes do go out and live. Talk to women. “Put yourself out there” and yes good things CAN (not WILL) happen. Just have a realistic outlook and maintain your thick skin. Because “Just go outside bro!” isn’t bad advice, but it’s not a catch-all solution to your life. Good luck.

Op Is a tall white MTN that's afraid of cold approaching

 

[Deleted member 16280]

Op Is a tall white MTN that's afraid of cold approaching

Ha. More like HTN manlet.

 

[Deleted member 16280]

Ha. More like HTN manlet.

But also obviously NNT otherwise I wouldn’t be here on this shithole.

 

[Ishaan Brahmbhatt]

nah, whenever I go out i'm amazed by what kinds of subhumans foids fuck

 

[TheVoidInside]

every guy with a gf mogs me

 

[narcomogs]

yh the mismatch couples thing is insane cope ngl

mostly looksmatched, and you can always tell when the guy is jestermaxxing vs when the girl actually likes him

 

[Deleted member 16280]

yh the mismatch couples thing is insane cope ngl

mostly looksmatched, and you can always tell when the guy is jestermaxxing vs when the girl actually likes him

Zero cap bro. Plus you never know what their relationship is like. Ugly guy with a hot girl is getting whipped like a bitch bc she knows he has no other options. Not to mention the ones who are slurping chad’s balls on the side. Many such cases.

 

[Deleted member 16280]

No one is saying looks don’t matter irl. They’re saying the looks thresholds are more reasonable irl than on tinder — which is true.

There are retards who say looks don’t matter irl

 

[watah]

It just remind me how subhuman I am when I see people my age

 

[SoNotFunny]

True. I live in the outer boroughs of NYC and every time I go into the city I get heightmogged by the average white girl. Absolute suifuel.

 

[superpsycho]

agreeed

 

[superpsycho]

True. I live in the outer boroughs of NYC and every time I go into the city I get heightmogged by the average white girl. Absolute suifuel.

westernfags are so tall

 

[SoNotFunny]

westernfags are so tall

yeah, i am a beancel living among white people, truly over for me

 

[narcomogs]

ugly guy hot girl relationshit is always gonna be cucked in some way. you are 100% eroding some part of yourself idc

bottom line is do you want to be with a girl who would left swipe you on tinder, regardless of how you got her?

 

[superpsycho]

yeah, i am a beancel living among white people, truly over for me

over

 

[SoNotFunny]

over

it's never over, gonna geomax until i can affort LL

 

[superpsycho]

it's never over, gonna geomax until i can affort LL

where?

 

[SoNotFunny]

where?

Asia

 

[superpsycho]

Asia

good luck

 

[skullmog]

“Anon, have you tried going out and actually approaching women? It’s nothing like how it seems on social media!”

“Stupid incel, try touching grass and you’d know the blackpill is nonsense only basement dwellers believe in”.

How many times have you seen a bluepiller say that?

The funny thing is though, the complete opposite is true. When you read the dating statistics online or watch how women objectify men on social media, it’s easy to dismiss it as “not real life”. But what happens when you go out in the real world?

Ever try cold approaching or watch others do it? It is literally just real life tinder-swiping. The girl knows within 2 seconds based on the guys appearance whether she’s receptive and immediately makes it known. Anyone who can’t recognize this is a 99th percentile autist.

How about walking around campus or your workplace? If you don’t often overhear women gossiping about who the hottest guy is, you’re not paying attention to your surroundings. People accuse men of “objectifying women” but any time I hang out in a group of guys + girls, I’ll always hear things like “Omg his face is cute but he’s 5’8 he’s so short haha” or “Yes that guy can do anything he wants to me” or “Ew he’s Indian”. The truth is men and women are both superficial, and it is not their fault it is simple human nature.

How about, and this is my favorite, “Go outside and you’ll see short ugly guys on dates with the most gorgeous women!” JFL. I’ll admit there are some non-looksmatched couples. But the frequency and extent of these disparities are MASSIVELY overblown. It’s more like a 4 pulled a 5. Yes you will, once in a while, see a normie with an s-lite. Fine. Obviously there are those rare exceptions by status, money, and types/nichemaxxing. But that’s just what those are: exceptions. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t TRY to be one of them. Just don’t beat yourself up for not being one, a lot of this shit is pure dumb luck: Right place, right time. So yes do go out and live. Talk to women. “Put yourself out there” and yes good things CAN (not WILL) happen. Just have a realistic outlook and maintain your thick skin. Because “Just go outside bro!” isn’t bad advice, but it’s not a catch-all solution to your life. Good luck.

for real

 

[Tenshi]

I've approached over 4000 women.

I barely have the laycount of cucks like Amnesia who can't cold approach a woman to save his life. You can't fake this experience though. It's only when you've seen the darkest side of women that you can see them as nothing but trash and mere receptacles.

Otherwise you're forever stuck in your little beta dream of finding ''the one''. Hard work will get you things. But only your looks and other priviledges will actually get good things, and easily.

Whatever you get working hard is never as good anyways.

 

[narcomogs]

I've approached over 4000 women.

I barely have the laycount of cucks like Amnesia who can't cold approach a woman to save his life. You can't fake this experience though. It's only when you've seen the darkest side of women that you can see them as nothing but trash and mere receptacles.

Otherwise you're forever stuck in your little beta dream of finding ''the one''. Hard work will get you things. But only your looks and other priviledges will actually get good things, and easily.

Whatever you get working hard is never as good anyways.

Brutal shit bro. Mind elaborating more on the things you've learned with that many irl approaches?

 

[edodalic29]

Yea just go eavesdropping on every meaningless conversation and come back to tell us more “truths”s … jfl moron

 

[superpsycho]

i dont go outside other than commuting

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

yh the mismatch couples thing is insane cope ngl

mostly looksmatched, and you can always tell when the guy is jestermaxxing vs when the girl actually likes him

Most young couples are look snatched or the guy mogs

 

[darktriadbeancel]

yeah, i am a beancel living among white people, truly over for me

try being a beancel in europe jfl

 

[Tenshi]

Brutal shit bro. Mind elaborating more on the things you've learned with that many irl approaches?

It's insane how robotic is the nature of female hypergamy, after enough approaches you can almost predict the whole trajectory with a girl just by the first interaction.

We as men really mean nothing to women, we are mere interchangeable pieces that serve a purpose of pairing them whenever they're in a receptible state. That means that pairing with a woman is a mere luck and timing thing. Nothing to do with you as person.

Women create one-night-stands. Women not only will hookup with random guys but they will ghost them afterwards if hypergamous threshold is not met.

Also, the idea that women don't hookup on first dates is not real. Any woman coming up with set of rules for sex is either not in a state or is not attracted to you enough. Women give it easy when they think a guy has high SMV (and that's unrelated to her personally, ''slut type vs trad girl'' etc)

Nothing women say mean anything until a certain point. Women will tell you with a straight face they will meet you again. They don't. They will say how good looking you are, then ghost. You could have had great connnection, made her laugh and feel great. They will still not want you if she deems you as not high enough SMV.

Women can be really nasty towards men with not high enough SMV and they have different set of rules for different types of guys (that means you just lost anyways).

Women only date up. It's really rare to ever get a girl (as in, actually get her as a fwb or a girlfriend) who's of equal or higher SMV than you. You'll be mostly getting girls below you. And when you get a hot girl, don't expect it to last long, dynamic will also not be good due to the power balance being on her side.

 

[SoNotFunny]

try being a beancel in europe jfl

trust me, i’ve been to europe and that was suifuel as well

 

[narcomogs]

It's insane how robotic is the nature of female hypergamy, after enough approaches you can almost predict the whole trajectory with a girl just by the first interaction.

We as men really mean nothing to women, we are mere interchangeable pieces that serve a purpose of pairing them whenever they're in a receptible state. That means that pairing with a woman is a mere luck and timing thing. Nothing to do with you as person.

Women create one-night-stands. Women not only will hookup with random guys but they will ghost them afterwards if hypergamous threshold is not met.

Also, the idea that women don't hookup on first dates is not real. Any woman coming up with set of rules for sex is either not in a state or is not attracted to you enough. Women give it easy when they think a guy has high SMV (and that's unrelated to her personally, ''slut type vs trad girl'' etc)

Nothing women say mean anything until a certain point. Women will tell you with a straight face they will meet you again. They don't. They will say how good looking you are, then ghost. You could have had great connnection, made her laugh and feel great. They will still not want you if she deems you as not high enough SMV.

Women can be really nasty towards men with not high enough SMV and they have different set of rules for different types of guys (that means you just lost anyways).

Women only date up. It's really rare to ever get a girl (as in, actually get her as a fwb or a girlfriend) who's of equal or higher SMV than you. You'll be mostly getting girls below you. And when you get a hot girl, don't expect it to last long, dynamic will also not be good due to the power balance being on her side.

Thank you for the detail!

And yes I agree with all your points tbh. From my own experiences and listening to guys I have more or less come to the same conclusions.

Not a great time to be a man

 

[William Anderson]

It's insane how robotic is the nature of female hypergamy, after enough approaches you can almost predict the whole trajectory with a girl just by the first interaction.

We as men really mean nothing to women, we are mere interchangeable pieces that serve a purpose of pairing them whenever they're in a receptible state. That means that pairing with a woman is a mere luck and timing thing. Nothing to do with you as person.

Women create one-night-stands. Women not only will hookup with random guys but they will ghost them afterwards if hypergamous threshold is not met.

Also, the idea that women don't hookup on first dates is not real. Any woman coming up with set of rules for sex is either not in a state or is not attracted to you enough. Women give it easy when they think a guy has high SMV (and that's unrelated to her personally, ''slut type vs trad girl'' etc)

Nothing women say mean anything until a certain point. Women will tell you with a straight face they will meet you again. They don't. They will say how good looking you are, then ghost. You could have had great connnection, made her laugh and feel great. They will still not want you if she deems you as not high enough SMV.

Women can be really nasty towards men with not high enough SMV and they have different set of rules for different types of guys (that means you just lost anyways).

Women only date up. It's really rare to ever get a girl (as in, actually get her as a fwb or a girlfriend) who's of equal or higher SMV than you. You'll be mostly getting girls below you. And when you get a hot girl, don't expect it to last long, dynamic will also not be good due to the power balance being on her side.

You live in Brazil right? This is what i mean when i say the most hardcore lookspillers are always from shitholes where looks don’t even matter at all

Jfl at living in a country where foids fuck tiny ugly 65 iq favela thugs then talking about blackpill, I’m not attacking you I just don’t get how you can believe in blackpill while living there

My country is similar, many couples are mismatched and it’s way more often in the guys side with his girl mogging him to oblivion, blackpill hypergamy etc doesn’t exist here same goes for whatever favela you’re in

 

[darktriadbeancel]

trust me, i’ve been to europe and that was suifuel as well

How tall are you btw?

 

[FacialStructure404]

I’ll admit there are some non-looksmatched couples. But the frequency and extent of these disparities are MASSIVELY overblown

Idk man. I went to a popular movie theatre with my brother a couple weeks ago and saw a ton of non looksmatched couples.

I kept thinking to myself “why is she with this guy?”. It would be a blonde mtb+ with some average or below average height ethnic guy.

I noticed a lot of country boys has htb+ with them. Very interesting experience.

It was lifefuel tbh.

 

[SoNotFunny]

How tall are you btw?

5’6

 

[darktriadbeancel]

5’6

I swear that's not that bad in the US? Like obv is not ideal at all but i see alot of dudes being 5,6-5,7 in the US

 

[goyimslayer]

“Ew he’s Indian”.

 

[SoNotFunny]

I swear that's not that bad in the US? Like obv is not ideal at all but i see alot of dudes being 5,6-5,7 in the US

They’re all ethnics. They will never have the same smv as a white person

 

[Magnus Ironblood]

I went months staying indoors during covid.

 

[abcd]

If I ever feel kinda depressed and black pulled going outside and doing real life shit just makes me not care abt it as much and feel better

 

[BigBoy]

Based thread. Keep your expectations low so life doesn’t turn you over and buttrape you.

 

[Eren]

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[Tenshi]

You live in Brazil right? This is what i mean when i say the most hardcore lookspillers are always from shitholes where looks don’t even matter at all

Jfl at living in a country where foids fuck tiny ugly 65 iq favela thugs then talking about blackpill, I’m not attacking you I just don’t get how you can believe in blackpill while living there

My country is similar, many couples are mismatched and it’s way more often in the guys side with his girl mogging him to oblivion, blackpill hypergamy etc doesn’t exist here same goes for whatever favela you’re in

I live in Germany.

But I've done my fair share of dating in Brazil to know how things work. You think the blackpill is not there because you see subhumans thugs with hot girls but you fail to see that in a poor country it goes beyond your looks. Your status and money counts way more than you think.

And guess what? When you don't have status and money, you're only relying on your looks and it's even more brutal. If you're a normie in the west, your SMV is that of a normie. In LATAM you get two more debuffs from being a nobody and a brokie.

You either oofy doofy your way into an LTR with money and status or just accept being an incel. Plus it's a very digitalized country, women are addicted to social media and you're not just competing with some regular subhuman that lives around the corner...

I literally had more success dating wise in Germany than in Brazil, even as an ethnic manlet. Hypergamy's off the charts in there.

 

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[William Anderson]

I live in Germany.

But I've done my fair share of dating in Brazil to know how things work. You think the blackpill is not there because you see subhumans thugs with hot girls but you fail to see that in a poor country it goes beyond your looks. Your status and money counts way more than you think.

And guess what? When you don't have status and money, you're only relying on your looks and it's even more brutal. If you're a normie in the west, your SMV is that of a normie. In LATAM you get two more debuffs from being a nobody and a brokie.

You either oofy doofy your way into an LTR with money and status or just accept being an incel. Plus it's a very digitalized country, women are addicted to social media and you're not just competing with some regular subhuman that lives around the corner...

I literally had more success dating wise in Germany than in Brazil, even as an ethnic manlet. Hypergamy's off the charts in there.

You did better in Germany than brazil? What the actual fuck?

Asking cos i live in a place where foids would fuck even the ugliest creature alive, brazil seems similar seeing how its full of braindead favela monkeys and thug culture

 

[Ishaan Brahmbhatt]

I live in Germany.

But I've done my fair share of dating in Brazil to know how things work. You think the blackpill is not there because you see subhumans thugs with hot girls but you fail to see that in a poor country it goes beyond your looks. Your status and money counts way more than you think.

And guess what? When you don't have status and money, you're only relying on your looks and it's even more brutal. If you're a normie in the west, your SMV is that of a normie. In LATAM you get two more debuffs from being a nobody and a brokie.

You either oofy doofy your way into an LTR with money and status or just accept being an incel. Plus it's a very digitalized country, women are addicted to social media and you're not just competing with some regular subhuman that lives around the corner...

I literally had more success dating wise in Germany than in Brazil, even as an ethnic manlet. Hypergamy's off the charts in there.

What dating successes did you have in Germany? What’s your best slay?