RoyaleWithCheese
Mentalmaxxer
- Joined
- Dec 2, 2021
- Posts
- 2,137
- Reputation
- 2,981
“Anon, have you tried going out and actually approaching women? It’s nothing like how it seems on social media!”
“Stupid incel, try touching grass and you’d know the blackpill is nonsense only basement dwellers believe in”.
How many times have you seen a bluepiller say that?
The funny thing is though, the complete opposite is true. When you read the dating statistics online or watch how women objectify men on social media, it’s easy to dismiss it as “not real life”. But what happens when you go out in the real world?
Ever try cold approaching or watch others do it? It is literally just real life tinder-swiping. The girl knows within 2 seconds based on the guys appearance whether she’s receptive and immediately makes it known. Anyone who can’t recognize this is a 99th percentile autist.
How about walking around campus or your workplace? If you don’t often overhear women gossiping about who the hottest guy is, you’re not paying attention to your surroundings. People accuse men of “objectifying women” but any time I hang out in a group of guys + girls, I’ll always hear things like “Omg his face is cute but he’s 5’8 he’s so short haha” or “Yes that guy can do anything he wants to me” or “Ew he’s Indian”. The truth is men and women are both superficial, and it is not their fault it is simple human nature.
How about, and this is my favorite, “Go outside and you’ll see short ugly guys on dates with the most gorgeous women!” JFL. I’ll admit there are some non-looksmatched couples. But the frequency and extent of these disparities are MASSIVELY overblown. It’s more like a 4 pulled a 5. Yes you will, once in a while, see a normie with an s-lite. Fine. Obviously there are those rare exceptions by status, money, and types/nichemaxxing. But that’s just what those are: exceptions. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t TRY to be one of them. Just don’t beat yourself up for not being one, a lot of this shit is pure dumb luck: Right place, right time. So yes do go out and live. Talk to women. “Put yourself out there” and yes good things CAN (not WILL) happen. Just have a realistic outlook and maintain your thick skin. Because “Just go outside bro!” isn’t bad advice, but it’s not a catch-all solution to your life. Good luck.
“Stupid incel, try touching grass and you’d know the blackpill is nonsense only basement dwellers believe in”.
How many times have you seen a bluepiller say that?
The funny thing is though, the complete opposite is true. When you read the dating statistics online or watch how women objectify men on social media, it’s easy to dismiss it as “not real life”. But what happens when you go out in the real world?
Ever try cold approaching or watch others do it? It is literally just real life tinder-swiping. The girl knows within 2 seconds based on the guys appearance whether she’s receptive and immediately makes it known. Anyone who can’t recognize this is a 99th percentile autist.
How about walking around campus or your workplace? If you don’t often overhear women gossiping about who the hottest guy is, you’re not paying attention to your surroundings. People accuse men of “objectifying women” but any time I hang out in a group of guys + girls, I’ll always hear things like “Omg his face is cute but he’s 5’8 he’s so short haha” or “Yes that guy can do anything he wants to me” or “Ew he’s Indian”. The truth is men and women are both superficial, and it is not their fault it is simple human nature.
How about, and this is my favorite, “Go outside and you’ll see short ugly guys on dates with the most gorgeous women!” JFL. I’ll admit there are some non-looksmatched couples. But the frequency and extent of these disparities are MASSIVELY overblown. It’s more like a 4 pulled a 5. Yes you will, once in a while, see a normie with an s-lite. Fine. Obviously there are those rare exceptions by status, money, and types/nichemaxxing. But that’s just what those are: exceptions. Doesn’t mean you shouldn’t TRY to be one of them. Just don’t beat yourself up for not being one, a lot of this shit is pure dumb luck: Right place, right time. So yes do go out and live. Talk to women. “Put yourself out there” and yes good things CAN (not WILL) happen. Just have a realistic outlook and maintain your thick skin. Because “Just go outside bro!” isn’t bad advice, but it’s not a catch-all solution to your life. Good luck.
