Going through life feeling like a loser

[Lightclein]

Suppp boys i just wanted to see if people can relate. It feels like no mather what i do i wont succeed. And life just feels pretty meaningless, like i already know i am gonna die some day and every day that i life i one closer to my dead, Also everyday i live is a day that i am further away from my young looks and body. If you really think about it it is kind of deppresing. Anyway i have been trying very hard these last view year but i just got beaten down to the point that i would have been better off financialy and socialy if i didnt try at all and just life my life like most people are doing in a 9 to 5 and clubbing on the weekend. Is there light at the end of the tunnel? I really hope so...
PS. dont mind my english grammer, i am pretty tired and dont feel like fixing it

 

[Vermilioncore]

No such thing as “feeling” like a loser. It just means you are a loser

 

[Lightclein]

No such thing as “feeling” like a loser. It just means you are a loser

yeah good point to be honest

 

[Lightclein]

i really should get it together but these last months just broke me mentally, the only thing i got going for me are my looks

 

[Vermilioncore]

yeah good point to be honest

But don’t fret…for I am a loser too

 

[TitusA]

Suppp boys i just wanted to see if people can relate. It feels like no mather what i do i wont succeed. And life just feels pretty meaningless, like i already know i am gonna die some day and every day that i life i one closer to my dead, Also everyday i live is a day that i am further away from my young looks and body. If you really think about it it is kind of deppresing. Anyway i have been trying very hard these last view year but i just got beaten down to the point that i would have been better off financialy and socialy if i didnt try at all and just life my life like most people are doing in a 9 to 5 and clubbing on the weekend. Is there light at the end of the tunnel? I really hope so...
PS. dont mind my english grammer, i am pretty tired and dont feel like fixing it

Nope never had this apart frm when i was withdrawing off drugs and depressed but even then because one area of my life was going greaet still with gym never felt like a loser. U sound like u have low self esteem how old are u? and wht have u done to improve ur situation?. Talking get a prescription for propanolol and work on going out more socially, taking test and working out regularly, getting a prescription for an ssri.

Need more info on ur life circumstances and wht u have tried to improve.

 

[HeresJohnny]

Yeah dealt with this my whole life

Therapy really helped me out once I stepped off my high horse and just tried it out

 

[Idontknowlol]

if you ended up on this forum, chances are, YOU ARE a loser

 

[Lightclein]

Yeah dealt with this my whole life

Therapy really helped me out once I stepped off my high horse and just tried it out

howlong did you use therapy? good the hear it helped you!

 

[HeresJohnny]

howlong did you use therapy? good the hear it helped you!

I have done it for just a couple of months now.

I was always a depressed soul but I also made very damning mistakes in my early adulthood like a bad cosmetic surgery and stupid financial decisions that made me very depressed—probably more than the average person

Therapy gave me a sense of control over my life that I had lost. I was just rotting in bed unable to live anymore

 

[Lightclein]

Nope never had this apart frm when i was withdrawing off drugs and depressed but even then because one area of my life was going greaet still with gym never felt like a loser. U sound like u have low self esteem how old are u? and wht have u done to improve ur situation?. Talking get a prescription for propanolol and work on going out more socially, taking test and working out regularly, getting a prescription for an ssri.

Need more info on ur life circumstances and wht u have tried to improve.

i am 20 currently, yeah i also gym like everyday but still the gym doesnt fix anything. it just makes me not think about it.And recently i also dont really like going to the gym and workout anymore. I have been working on my business for 2 years and things where going great actually untill i lost all my money. 20k down the drain, i am dead broke at the moment. All the hours just were for nothing at all. I even quit my university study because of it. What made you flee into drugs and how did you manage to leave it behind?

 

[Lightclein]

I have done it for just a couple of months now.

I was always a depressed soul but I also made very damning mistakes in my early adulthood like a bad cosmetic surgery and stupid financial decisions that made me very depressed—probably more than the average person

Therapy gave me a sense of control over my life that I had lost. I was just rotting in bed unable to live anymore

yeah i feel you man, all i do nowaday is just chill in my bad waiting for my life to go by. How can a cosmetic surgery be bad? what happend. And the financial part also happend to me recently

 

[Lightclein]

But don’t fret…for I am a loser too

haha well atleast we have this forum right

 

[HeresJohnny]

yeah i feel you man, all i do nowaday is just chill in my bad waiting for my life to go by. How can a cosmetic surgery be bad? what happend. And the financial part also happend to me recently

I made wrong decisions about what to change on my nose

 

[Lightclein]

I made wrong decisions about what to change on my nose

so it didnt look better after?

 

[HeresJohnny]

so it didnt look better after?

the nose tip improved
The nose bridge descended
Nose bridge is very important so it overall descended me

 

[Lightclein]

I also maybe what to do something about my nose

 

[Lightclein]

the nose tip improved
The nose bridge descended
Nose bridge is very important so it overall descended me

in what way did the bridge descend? is it crooked?

 

[HeresJohnny]

I also maybe what to do something about my nose

Don’t.

You’re a fuck up losrr

You’re destined to fuck it ip

Never reduce anything. Fucking anything

 

[HeresJohnny]

No I got it reduced in size which made it look undefined so I look like a non aryan now

in what way did the bridge descend? is it crooked?

 

[Lightclein]

Don’t.

You’re a fuck up losrr

You’re destined to fuck it ip

Never reduce anything. Fucking anything

 

[TitusA]

i am 20 currently, yeah i also gym like everyday but still the gym doesnt fix anything. it just makes me not think about it.And recently i also dont really like going to the gym and workout anymore. I have been working on my business for 2 years and things where going great actually untill i lost all my money. 20k down the drain, i am dead broke at the moment. All the hours just were for nothing at all. I even quit my university study because of it. What made you flee into drugs and how did you manage to leave it behind?

Well everybody is broke at ur age lol. U will make it bk the majority of 20 year olds aren't even serious about their financial situation. U are rly not in a bad position trust me it might seem tht way atm but in a couple years u will look bk and think it was ridiculous. If ur buisness failed and u dropped out of uni to do it then u need to find a new long term goal/outlet. Could be going bk to uni or trying a new way of making money. In the meantime u just gotta maintain gd habits like exercising regularly, socialising, staying busy and tying diff things.


The reason my drug issue got bad was because I was too immature to maintain my gd habits and let myself get caught in the negative spiral of using them during a bad phase in my life. Even using drugs just twice a week can have a slow insidiuous effect and alter ur personality I always told myself that as long as i limited it to twice a week use I would be fine.

U are not in nearly a bad position like I was on drugs. In my experience u are at a stage in ur life after ur buisness has failed where u are just uncertain and that is what causes anxiety/depression. It is why allot of ppl experience a mid life crisis later in life and it is also why ppl without a long term goal are in trouble. Like I said just maintain gd habits and find a new long term goal don't get dragged down into a negative though process ur only 20.

 

[Lightclein]

Well everybody is broke at ur age lol. U will make it bk the majority of 20 year olds aren't even serious about their financial situation. U are rly not in a bad position trust me it might seem tht way atm but in a couple years u will look bk and think it was ridiculous. If ur buisness failed and u dropped out of uni to do it then u need to find a new long term goal/outlet. Could be going bk to uni or trying a new way of making money. In the meantime u just gotta maintain gd habits like exercising regularly, socialising, staying busy and tying diff things.


The reason my drug issue got bad was because I was too immature to maintain my gd habits and let myself get caught in the negative spiral of using them during a bad phase in my life. Even using drugs just twice a week can have a slow insidiuous effect and alter ur personality I always told myself that as long as i limited it to twice a week use I would be fine.

U are not in nearly a bad position like I was on drugs. In my experience u are at a stage in ur life after ur buisness has failed where u are just uncertain and that is what causes anxiety/depression. It is why allot of ppl experience a mid life crisis later in life and it is also why ppl without a long term goal are in trouble. Like I said just maintain gd habits and find a new long term goal don't get dragged down into a negative though process ur only 20.

Yeah but like i am like broke broke at the moment like 100 usd to my name. But regardless i wanna say thank you and god bless you this did really make me feel better. And yeah i just need to regain my mental strength. Again thanks alot for taking the time to listen!

 

[Alucard69]

Nose bridge is very important so it overall descended me

Noo blud you shaved your nose bridge by some turkish fuck? Why didn't you get second opinions blud, i'm literally getting a bridge graft to probably get your preop lol

 

[HeresJohnny]

Noo blud you shaved your nose bridge by some turkish fuck? Why didn't you get second opinions blud, i'm literally getting a bridge graft to probably get your preop lol

Persian fuck shaved my bridge bud.
Can’t even look at myself anymore
I’m a fool

 

[Lightclein]

Persian fuck shaved my bridge bud.
Can’t even look at myself anymore
I’m a fool

do you have a picture of it? or is that out of your comfort zone? I dont think it can be that bad

 

[HeresJohnny]

do you have a picture of it? or is that out of your comfort zone? I dont think it can be that bad

Nah I don’t share pics sorry.
It’s quite bad man.
I’m not botched but the bridge just ain’t what it used to be

 

[Lightclein]

Nah I don’t share pics sorry.
It’s quite bad man.
I’m not botched but the bridge just ain’t what it used to be

no worries, and just like i said i do think you are being harsh on yourself. unless the doctor was a complete retard you should be fine

 

[HeresJohnny]

no worries, and just like i said i do think you are being harsh on yourself. unless the doctor was a complete retard you should be fine

Might be fine
But won’t be great ever again