Going through me and my Ex's old messages

[PYT]

it's so brutal to see the difference in texting when a girl loves you and doesn't I'm just scrolling and staring at these messages in shock . My FWB blocked me and my EX did the same except she did it in all her accounts cause I also called her a bitch.

I'm down terrible. Doubt anyone cares but I could post the messages of when we dated

if they come back oh well. i'm not texting either of them first and if they don't come back I can atleast be at peace and forget about my ex.

 

[Hades]

It’s brutal to read the messages and realize when they switched up on you and you didn’t even realize it

 

[PYT]

listening to faggot music reading this suifuel

 

[PYT]

It’s brutal to read the messages and realize when they switched up on you and you didn’t even realize it

you're speaking such fucking facts holy fuck. im glad someone can relate. this was when were happy.

As I start reading other chats I slowly realize where she started switching up and losing feels fawk.

It hurts me to think me and her will never have this again. no matter how much we fuck and cuddle. if she even comes back

 

[Raymon97]

you still havent hit your prime age 30-40 you'll find so many more girls dw

 

[PYT]

you still havent hit your prime age 30-40 you'll find so many more girls dw

I know. I know. Just wild to think this is what's in store for me in the next few LTR's I have

 

[Deleted member 275]

Tbh I noticed it quite fast when my ex switched up on me. Hypersensative to that kind of shit. But ignored it the first days, hoping that it's just a mood thing, or she just had a shitty day or whatever. But that wasn't the case.

It's not like you can say anything to fix it anyways. Could just be her meeting some diff chad in her life and that's what is making doubts in her mind.

Only thing you can do is fraud and pretend to be the best you possible can. The moment a woman thinks you are her equal and she doesn't look up to you anymore, it's over for her attraction. You need to appease her hypergameous instincts by always being above her in every way. Looks, popularity, money, IQ, status, etc.

 

[NothingCanStopMe]

Don't obsess over a single girl. If you had other options you wouldn't even be thinking about her rn. Took me a while to realise this.

 

[stay coping]

Don't obsess over a single girl. If you had other options you wouldn't even be thinking about her rn. Took me a while to realise this.

Called a oneitis, pretty common thing for bluepillers to have

 

[Chadakin]

this thread is brutal, makes me think if I ever date a oneitis again she'll still prob eventually switch up and leave like my ex did

 

[SubhumanCurrycel]

Now let me read my messages.....
Oh wait theres none JFL.

 

[Gazzamogga]

Tbh I noticed it quite fast when my ex switched up on me. Hypersensative to that kind of shit. But ignored it the first days, hoping that it's just a mood thing, or she just had a shitty day or whatever. But that wasn't the case.

At that point you just dump her

 

[Deleted member 275]

At that point you just dump her

Nah you keep fucking her for the time being. But start looking for and/or fucking her replacement already

 

[Gazzamogga]

Nah you keep fucking her for the time being. But start looking for and/or fucking her replacement already

I wouldn't keep fucking a chick that largely lost interest in me

 

[eduardkoopman]

if they come back

better build something better from fresh

 

[Baldingman1998]

I can relate very well. When I was bluepilled I was Soo blind. But looking back on the past I realized that women are masters at manipulation and are cold af. It's one of the things that lead me into blackpill tbh

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Tbh I noticed it quite fast when my ex switched up on me. Hypersensative to that kind of shit. But ignored it the first days, hoping that it's just a mood thing, or she just had a shitty day or whatever. But that wasn't the case.

It's not like you can say anything to fix it anyways. Could just be her meeting some diff chad in her life and that's what is making doubts in her mind.

Only thing you can do is fraud and pretend to be the best you possible can. The moment a woman thinks you are her equal and she doesn't look up to you anymore, it's over for her attraction. You need to appease her hypergameous instincts by always being above her in every way. Looks, popularity, money, IQ, status, etc.

That is so fucking tedious to live life always competing with your girl tho. Easier to just treat them like they're worse than you even if they arent.

 

[Deleted member 275]

That is so fucking tedious to live life always competing with your girl tho. Easier to just treat them like they're worse than you even if they arent.

Thats exactly what I am saying though. You're not even competing with your girl in the first place, you are competing with other men. Women are automatically below men already

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Thats exactly what I am saying though. You're not even competing with your girl in the first place, you are competing with other men. Women are automatically below men already

Luckily most men are considerate SIMPs because of being bluepill or redpill (muh reward good behaviour), so in terms of how you treat her, so long as its aggressive enough other guys can't take your girl. Especially because they can't be as abusive at begining of a relationship as you can when your deep in one already, brb abusive pimpmaxxing.

 

[PYT]

Luckily most men are considerate SIMPs because of being bluepill or redpill (muh reward good behaviour), so in terms of how you treat her, so long as its aggressive enough other guys can't take your girl. Especially because they can't be as abusive at begining of a relationship as you can when your deep in one already, brb abusive pimpmaxxing.

so you're saying never be nice at all? like no cuddling and shit

 

[Deleted member 4797]

so you're saying never be nice at all? like no cuddling and shit

If you wanna be nice make sure she doesn't control when your nice, do it randomly only.

 

[Deleted member 4797]

Thats exactly what I am saying though. You're not even competing with your girl in the first place, you are competing with other men. Women are automatically below men already

Do you think men are in competition over how they treat the girl, or simply in competition of who MOGs each other independently of the girl?

 

[Deleted member 275]

Do you think men are in competition over how they treat the girl, or simply in competition of who MOGs each other independently of the girl?

who mogs eachother independently, unless we are talking about one specific girl (oneitis) then individual behavior how you treat the girl becomes way more important. But thats bluepilled bullshit.

Alphas look wide, they dont stick to a certain niche, they play numbersgame on as many different girls as possible and see what sticks.

Oneitis is beta-game. It can work, but it has extreme chances of her treating you like shit in the relationship and divorce-raping you later down the line, or simply dumping you for chad.

 

[Deleted member 5891]

Tbh I noticed it quite fast when my ex switched up on me. Hypersensative to that kind of shit. But ignored it the first days, hoping that it's just a mood thing, or she just had a shitty day or whatever. But that wasn't the case.

Same

Only thing you can do is fraud and pretend to be the best you possible can. The moment a woman thinks you are her equal and she doesn't look up to you anymore, it's over for her attraction. You need to appease her hypergameous instincts by always being above her in every way. Looks, popularity, money, IQ, status, etc.

Yes, lesson learned

 

[zeroshame]

Honestly dealing with women is such a headache. They want you to make them feel perfectly content and forget all their insecurities and problems, but they want you to do all these things without telling you.

 

[Deleted member 4797]

who mogs eachother independently, unless we are talking about one specific girl (oneitis) then individual behavior how you treat the girl becomes way more important. But thats bluepilled bullshit.

Alphas look wide, they dont stick to a certain niche, they play numbersgame on as many different girls as possible and see what sticks.

Oneitis is beta-game. It can work, but it has extreme chances of her treating you like shit in the relationship and divorce-raping you later down the line, or simply dumping you for chad.

Hmm, so why do you think women shit test their men so relentlessly in relationships? Is this to test if he is still MOGGING other guys, and therefore has the right attitude towards her, or is it to test if he's still above her?

It gets confusing because in High School, despite all men being better by how we measure them, most men had lower status than the average girl. Those guys had more potential but naturally they were lower status and submissive around girls. Which makes me think that its also to do with AMOGGING the girl socially.