(GONNA HANG MYSELF)How to move on and stop suffering, advice really needed

[flexinsamu]

19 y/o HMTN–LHTN. Almost a year ago my gf left me after a 1-year relationship. I’ve always been insecure, even if I try to hide it, and for months I genuinely thought we’d get back together. That was obviously denial, but it was the only thing keeping me from going insane.



She changed so fast, everything we had was left unfinished. That hit me harder than the breakup itself.


The point is, i probabily could have dealt with ts so much better if this past year wouldnt have been so brutal. I got rejected by almost every girl I tried with. It got so bad that as a atheist, i started genuinely thinking that someone did something to give me bad luck, and this is insane considering im the most rational person ever. It’s demoralizing.





Hoping she’d come back was my only cope. Without that, I probably would’ve lost it completely.





Last night I DMd her. I thought she’d at least respond or see me. She was cold as hell. I barely recognized the person I fell for. That interaction crushed any hope I had left.





Now I’m stuck. How do you move on when you already know you’re replaceable and she isn’t? Knowing I’ll never see her again feels like agony. Not just because she left, but because my personal and private issues from before the breakup just tripled after she left.





I don’t have the strength to keep trying, just to get rejected again and again. this year has been one long series of Ls, and the whole “things get better” idea feels like pure cope.





I’m asking seriously: how do you let go? How do you keep going when the pattern just keeps repeating? Any real advice would help, because right now I feel completely stuck.

as a non native speaker, i have fixed ts with chatgpt to make yall understand better so don’t yap bout sum “muh ai” thank you.

 

[flexinsamu]

bump nigga

 

[blur_el]

bump nigga

(dnr if you want)hey bro i have been through the same, not exactly, but kinda, there was this girl who came for 3 months from switzerland and i got to know her better and i liked her so much i though in the 2 months we had left we could be in a relationship and then figure it out, so the last month she changed her mind and really didn’t want a relationship knowing all that was going on, but it ended up more or less in good terms because i wrote her a letter and made her a present for her birthday even tho i knew we couldn’t be together, sounds cucked but im just that way, after she left i texted her like 4 months later to check on her to see if she was doing ok and still no response from her even after all i did for her, so getting to the point, i know exactly what you are feeling, that without her the world just doesn’t seem worth living but you’ll get over it, go outside, talk to your friends if you need to and you’ll be fine trust me, just so you know i recently got to know a new girl from sweden and made up w her, putting it as an example that it’s never over

 

[blur_el]

btw im also in that hmtn-lhtn if you wondering, 5’10-5’11 w shoes

 

[flexinsamu]

(dnr if you want)hey bro i have been through the same, not exactly, but kinda, there was this girl who came for 3 montes from switzerland and i got to know her better and i liked her so much i though in the 2 months we had left we could be in a relationship and then figure it out, so the last month she changed her mind and really didn’t want a relationship knowing all that was going on, but it ended up more or less in good terms because i wrote her a letter and made her a present for her birthday even tho i knew we couldn’t be together, sounds cucked but im just that way, after she left i texted her like 4 months later to check on her to see if she was doing ok and still no response from her even after all i did for her, so getting to the point, i know exactly what you are feeling, that without her the world just doesn’t seem worth living but you’ll get over it, go outside, talk to your friends if you need to and you’ll be fine trust me, just so you know i recently got to know a new girl from sweden and made up w her, putting it as an example that it’s never over

tganks for the answer nigger, appreciate it. i will force myself to go forward and keep trying to ascend

 

[flexinsamu]

btw im also in that hmtn-lhtn if you wondering, 5’10-5’11 w shoes

same height as me lmao

 

[Tttopgtoni]

DNR after HMTN-LHTN

 

[blur_el]

tganks for the answer nigger, appreciate it. i will force myself to go forward and keep trying to ascend

take care bhai

 

[lurker14]

19 y/o HMTN–LHTN. Almost a year ago my gf left me after a 1-year relationship. I’ve always been insecure, even if I try to hide it, and for months I genuinely thought we’d get back together. That was obviously denial, but it was the only thing keeping me from going insane.



She changed so fast, everything we had was left unfinished. That hit me harder than the breakup itself.


The point is, i probabily could have dealt with ts so much better if this past year wouldnt have been so brutal. I got rejected by almost every girl I tried with. It got so bad that as a atheist, i started genuinely thinking that someone did something to give me bad luck, and this is insane considering im the most rational person ever. It’s demoralizing.





Hoping she’d come back was my only cope. Without that, I probably would’ve lost it completely.





Last night I DMd her. I thought she’d at least respond or see me. She was cold as hell. I barely recognized the person I fell for. That interaction crushed any hope I had left.





Now I’m stuck. How do you move on when you already know you’re replaceable and she isn’t? Knowing I’ll never see her again feels like agony. Not just because she left, but because my personal and private issues from before the breakup just tripled after she left.





I don’t have the strength to keep trying, just to get rejected again and again. this year has been one long series of Ls, and the whole “things get better” idea feels like pure cope.





I’m asking seriously: how do you let go? How do you keep going when the pattern just keeps repeating? Any real advice would help, because right now I feel completely stuck.

as a non native speaker, i have fixed ts with chatgpt to make yall understand better so don’t yap bout sum “muh ai” thank you.

dnr rope

 

[Ahmed88]

Lethal dose of fentanyl, jumping off a building and co2

 

[iwantpsl7]

19 y/o HMTN–LHTN. Almost a year ago my gf left me after a 1-year relationship. I’ve always been insecure, even if I try to hide it, and for months I genuinely thought we’d get back together. That was obviously denial, but it was the only thing keeping me from going insane.



She changed so fast, everything we had was left unfinished. That hit me harder than the breakup itself.


The point is, i probabily could have dealt with ts so much better if this past year wouldnt have been so brutal. I got rejected by almost every girl I tried with. It got so bad that as a atheist, i started genuinely thinking that someone did something to give me bad luck, and this is insane considering im the most rational person ever. It’s demoralizing.





Hoping she’d come back was my only cope. Without that, I probably would’ve lost it completely.





Last night I DMd her. I thought she’d at least respond or see me. She was cold as hell. I barely recognized the person I fell for. That interaction crushed any hope I had left.





Now I’m stuck. How do you move on when you already know you’re replaceable and she isn’t? Knowing I’ll never see her again feels like agony. Not just because she left, but because my personal and private issues from before the breakup just tripled after she left.





I don’t have the strength to keep trying, just to get rejected again and again. this year has been one long series of Ls, and the whole “things get better” idea feels like pure cope.





I’m asking seriously: how do you let go? How do you keep going when the pattern just keeps repeating? Any real advice would help, because right now I feel completely stuck.

as a non native speaker, i have fixed ts with chatgpt to make yall understand better so don’t yap bout sum “muh ai” thank you.

Plz let me watch I want to see you hang

 

[Plagiarism]

I can't care less, this thread actually made me happy.

 

[xzylecrey]

Tldr: i wanna kms cause of a girl

 

[flexinsamu]

I can't care less, this thread actually made me happy.

happy to have made you happy nigga

 

[marlx]

19 y/o HMTN–LHTN. Almost a year ago my gf left me after a 1-year relationship. I’ve always been insecure, even if I try to hide it, and for months I genuinely thought we’d get back together. That was obviously denial, but it was the only thing keeping me from going insane.



She changed so fast, everything we had was left unfinished. That hit me harder than the breakup itself.


The point is, i probabily could have dealt with ts so much better if this past year wouldnt have been so brutal. I got rejected by almost every girl I tried with. It got so bad that as a atheist, i started genuinely thinking that someone did something to give me bad luck, and this is insane considering im the most rational person ever. It’s demoralizing.





Hoping she’d come back was my only cope. Without that, I probably would’ve lost it completely.





Last night I DMd her. I thought she’d at least respond or see me. She was cold as hell. I barely recognized the person I fell for. That interaction crushed any hope I had left.





Now I’m stuck. How do you move on when you already know you’re replaceable and she isn’t? Knowing I’ll never see her again feels like agony. Not just because she left, but because my personal and private issues from before the breakup just tripled after she left.





I don’t have the strength to keep trying, just to get rejected again and again. this year has been one long series of Ls, and the whole “things get better” idea feels like pure cope.





I’m asking seriously: how do you let go? How do you keep going when the pattern just keeps repeating? Any real advice would help, because right now I feel completely stuck.

as a non native speaker, i have fixed ts with chatgpt to make yall understand better so don’t yap bout sum “muh ai” thank you.

its not over dude, my gf left me after an almost 3 year relationship, first to ever show me whats love like, its been a year and im alright, you will be too

 

[Plagiarism]

happy to have made you happy nigga

Now your reason to rope is nullified temporarily, live another day.

 

[Deleted member 136057]

19 y/o HMTN–LHTN. Almost a year ago my gf left me after a 1-year relationship. I’ve always been insecure, even if I try to hide it, and for months I genuinely thought we’d get back together. That was obviously denial, but it was the only thing keeping me from going insane.



She changed so fast, everything we had was left unfinished. That hit me harder than the breakup itself.


The point is, i probabily could have dealt with ts so much better if this past year wouldnt have been so brutal. I got rejected by almost every girl I tried with. It got so bad that as a atheist, i started genuinely thinking that someone did something to give me bad luck, and this is insane considering im the most rational person ever. It’s demoralizing.





Hoping she’d come back was my only cope. Without that, I probably would’ve lost it completely.





Last night I DMd her. I thought she’d at least respond or see me. She was cold as hell. I barely recognized the person I fell for. That interaction crushed any hope I had left.





Now I’m stuck. How do you move on when you already know you’re replaceable and she isn’t? Knowing I’ll never see her again feels like agony. Not just because she left, but because my personal and private issues from before the breakup just tripled after she left.





I don’t have the strength to keep trying, just to get rejected again and again. this year has been one long series of Ls, and the whole “things get better” idea feels like pure cope.





I’m asking seriously: how do you let go? How do you keep going when the pattern just keeps repeating? Any real advice would help, because right now I feel completely stuck.

as a non native speaker, i have fixed ts with chatgpt to make yall understand better so don’t yap bout sum “muh ai” thank you.

Youll get over her bro dw

Do u hangout with friends much or u just sad at home?

 

[mtbsmasher]

accept the fact only a small percentage of women are actually loyal long term, but never kill yourself especially not over a female since theres so many things you can complete in this world

slaying, ascending, travelling to dif countries, partying, hanging out w friends etc

 

[turkcelfatcel]

19 y/o HMTN–LHTN.

Stopped reading here

 

[cemkii]

ngl easiest way to fix is just go for every girl possible but i get you bro is what it is

 

[flexinsamu]

Youll get over her bro dw

Do u hangout with friends much or u just sad at home?

i hang out with friends some times ,1,2 x a week

 

[flexinsamu]

Stopped reading here

why lmao

 

[flexinsamu]

tganks to everyone who responded

 

[ccwb]

(dnr if you want)hey bro i have been through the same, not exactly, but kinda, there was this girl who came for 3 months from switzerland and i got to know her better and i liked her so much i though in the 2 months we had left we could be in a relationship and then figure it out, so the last month she changed her mind and really didn’t want a relationship knowing all that was going on, but it ended up more or less in good terms because i wrote her a letter and made her a present for her birthday even tho i knew we couldn’t be together, sounds cucked but im just that way, after she left i texted her like 4 months later to check on her to see if she was doing ok and still no response from her even after all i did for her, so getting to the point, i know exactly what you are feeling, that without her the world just doesn’t seem worth living but you’ll get over it, go outside, talk to your friends if you need to and you’ll be fine trust me, just so you know i recently got to know a new girl from sweden and made up w her, putting it as an example that it’s never over

I’m mmtn-hmtn 6ft 14
How can not even a single fucking girl look at me and rather talk to genuinely every single boy in the class
Like no every single boy
But me
and other sub5-lmtns
But me no

 

[Deleted member 136057]

i hang out with friends some times ,1,2 x a week

Ik its hard bro, i also think about a girl many nights.

She was a ltb but she was so nice and we matched perfectly. She tried to flirt w me often but i took her for granted idk why i did it even.

But now after 2 years i miss her so much, i shouldve ltr her. Now shes in a relationship with another guy and they happy asf.

These kinds of things happen to everyone atleast a couple times in life. You need to accept its over with her, and move on.

You need to just accept its over and be happy about the good memories. Otherwise she will always be in ur mind.

 

[flexinsamu]

I’m mmtn-hmtn 6ft 14
How can not even a single fucking girl look at me and rather talk to genuinely every single boy in the class
Like no every single boy
But me
and other sub5-lmtns
But me no

status+ maybe your not actually mtn or not neurotypical

 

[flexinsamu]

Ik its hard bro, i also think about a girl many nights.

She was a ltb but she was so nice and we matched perfectly. She tried to flirt w me often but i took her for granted idk why i did it even.

But now after 2 years i miss her so much, i shouldve ltr her. Now shes in a relationship with another guy and they happy asf.

These kinds of things happen to everyone atleast a couple times in life. You need to accept its over with her, and move on.

You need to just accept its over and be happy about the good memories. Otherwise she will always be in ur mind.

i will try to , tganks

 

[ccwb]

status+ maybe your not actually mtn or not neurotypical

No no I’m mtn-hmtn
Rated by everyone here objectively
NT I mean I’m NT
Status. Yes maybe cuz I’m new to this school

 

[blur_el]

I’m mmtn-hmtn 6ft 14
How can not even a single fucking girl look at me and rather talk to genuinely every single boy in the class
Like no every single boy
But me
and other sub5-lmtns
But me no

happens to me a lot in school, it’s the social construct, even if you are attractive if you’re not outgoing or at least nt they wont talk to you much, if you go out and go know new people you’ll realize it’s rather the place you are in and not you

 

[ccwb]

happens to me a lot in school, it’s the social construct, even if you are attractive if you’re not outgoing or at least nt they wont talk to you much, if you go out and go know new people you’ll realize it’s rather the place you are in and not you

Yh cuz like I don’t get it ngl
Online with foids im pretty good and they initiate and sh
In school
It’s mixed signals

 

[nedum4y0u]

(dnr if you want)hey bro i have been through the same, not exactly, but kinda, there was this girl who came for 3 months from switzerland and i got to know her better and i liked her so much i though in the 2 months we had left we could be in a relationship and then figure it out, so the last month she changed her mind and really didn’t want a relationship knowing all that was going on, but it ended up more or less in good terms because i wrote her a letter and made her a present for her birthday even tho i knew we couldn’t be together, sounds cucked but im just that way, after she left i texted her like 4 months later to check on her to see if she was doing ok and still no response from her even after all i did for her, so getting to the point, i know exactly what you are feeling, that without her the world just doesn’t seem worth living but you’ll get over it, go outside, talk to your friends if you need to and you’ll be fine trust me, just so you know i recently got to know a new girl from sweden and made up w her, putting it as an example that it’s never over

real shit, betabuxxed for a woman for a month, even wrote her a card and walked 4 miles in the snow to give it to her to win her over, but she still left me, foids fucking suck

 

[blur_el]

real shit, betabuxxed for a woman for a month, even wrote her a card and walked 4 miles in the snow to give it to her to win her over, but she still left me, foids fucking suck

yeah it is what it is bhai, they are evil and that’s their nature we can’t do much about it, hope you doing good man