Good News: She Said, “I Am Doing This For Me.”

[Deleted member 4209]

My wife (LLF 30) and I (HLM 33) have been in a DB for 10 years. I love her more than anything and we regularly remark that our DB is the only downside to our relationship. I was prompted to begin therapy due to work stress, but we’ve progressed to tackling some of the issues around my marriage. I’ve made changes, done reading (“Come As You Are” and “She Comes First”), and forced myself to be open with my wife about how much grief this has caused me.

We were talking on the drive home and she brought up that she had made an appointment with her doctor to review research she had been doing on how to engage some of the physical discomfort she has with sex that has led to her being LL. I thanked her for listening to me and making an effort to meet my needs.

She responded that, while it was important for her to do that as part of our relationship, she wanted to do it for her too. She’s invested.

Early days, but I’m hopeful. I know there isn’t a lot of hopeful posts here, so I thought I’d share.

Edit: Minor informational update.

 

[Tony]

 

[Deleted member 4645]

Nigga tf is DB

 

[Deleted member 6997]

Nigga tf is DB

dick big

 

[Deleted member 4645]

dick big

Acronym	Definition
DB	Database
DB	Decibel
DB	Deutsche Bundesbahn (German Federal Railways, 1994 amalgamation with Deutsche Reichsbahn, aka DBAG)
DB	Double
DB	Deutsche Bank
DB	Dragon Ball (processor)
DB	Deutsche Bahn AG (German railway company)
DB	Defined Benefit (type of qualified retirement plan)
DB	DragonBall (TV show/anime)
DB	Defensive Back (football)
DB	Dropbox (file hosting service)
DB	Data Bus
DB	Double Bass
DB	Discussion Board
DB	Debug (assembly language ASM51 assembler control)
DB	Design and Build (contract)
DB	Data Buffer
DB	Daytona Beach (Florida)
DB	Daily Bulletin
DB	Debit
DB	Don't Bother (chat slang)
DB	David Bowie (musician)
DB	Diamond Bar (California)
DB	Dagbladet
DB	Dry Bulb (temperature)
DB	David Beckham (footballer)
DB	Dobra (unit of currency of Sao Tome and Principe)
DB	Daimler Benz
DB	Dena Bank (India)
DB	Die Bahn (German Railways)
DB	Dynamic Bass
DB	Daniel Bryan (professional wrestler)
DB	Deed Book (Recorder of Deeds)
DB	Dead Body
DB	Dark Brotherhood (gaming)
DB	Dragon Boat
DB	Dilbert
DB	DOSBox (DOS emulator)
DB	Direct Broadcast
DB	Dresdner Bank (Germany)
DB	Daughter Board
DB	Death Benefit (insurance)
DB	David Byrne (singer)
DB	Dumbbell (weight lifting)
DB	Dierks Bentley (country music artist)
DB	Discovery Bay (Hong Kong)
DB	Direct Burial (cable/pipe)
DB	Double Base (rocket propellants)
DB	Disability Benefit (various organizations)
DB	Domonic Brown (baseball player)
DB	Dubnium (element 105)
DB	David Blaine
DB	Dirty Bastard
DB	Dattebayo (anime fansub group)
DB	Doobie Brothers (band)
DB	David Boreanaz (actor)
DB	Declining Balance
DB	Debenture
DB	Drew Bledsoe (athlete)
DB	Darkbasic
DB	Distribution Box
DB	Doughboy
DB	Dooney & Bourke
DB	Douche Bag
DB	Difficulty Breathing (medical)
DB	Dimmu Borgir (band)
DB	Deafblind
DB	Dogbert
DB	Daybook
DB	Dispatched By
DB	Dark Beginning (Yu-Gi-Oh cards)
DB	Double Bottom (trading markets; stocks, bonds, commodities)
DB	Door Bell
DB	Digital Blasphemy
DB	Dooney and Bourke
DB	Double Bottom (shipbuilding)
DB	Distribution Board (electronics)
DB	Dangling Bond (chemistry)
DB	Define Byte (assembly language directive)
DB	Division of Biology (FDA)
DB	Detective Branch (Bangladesh)
DB	Dumb Blond
DB	Denied Boarding (airline)
DB	Design Baseline
DB	Deutsche Burschenschaft (German: German Fraternity)
DB	Drinking Buddies
DB	Direct Bilirubin
DB	Delta Band
DB	Docking Bay
DB	Delayed Broadcast
DB	Direct Billing
DB	Digital Battlefield
DB	Deathball (gaming)
DB	Detective Bureau
DB	Direct Budget
DB	Dream Boat
DB	Dime Bag
DB	Dutch Belted (rabbit breed)
DB	Deadbands
DB	Dip Brazing
DB	Dog's Bollocks
DB	Disciplinary Barracks
DB	Ding Bat
DB	Digital Burst (gaming clan)
DB	Sao Tome Dobra (national currency)
DB	Dumb Bunny
DB	Deutsch-Bonnet (French racing car)
DB	Display Builder
DB	Detection Buffer
DB	Dry Base
DB	Depth Bomb
DB	Dedicated Buffer
DB	Daryl Baxter (Nebraska)
DB	Don Balón (soccer magazine; Spain)
DB	Degraded Being (Scientology term)
DB	Deadbeat Parent (someone who does not pay child support)
DB	Double Brew
DB	Defence Board
DB	Drunken Brawler (gaming)
DB	Doggabyte (1e+30 bytes)
DB	Darkenbane (Everquest Guild)
DB	Diffuse Bipolar (cell)
DB	diluted bitumen
DB	Dünya Bankasý (Turkish: World Bank)
DB	Dispersal Base
DB	Balloon drift
DB	Department of Defense Beneficiary (US DoD)
DB	Dome Breach
DB	Dual Bitmap (Annex C) (ITU-T)
DB	Dynamic Binateness (of a variable)
DB	Developmental Bulletin (USMC)

 

[Deleted member 8904]

what do any of the acronyms mean

 

[Deleted member 4209]

Acronym	Definition
DB	Database
DB	Decibel
DB	Deutsche Bundesbahn (German Federal Railways, 1994 amalgamation with Deutsche Reichsbahn, aka DBAG)
DB	Double
DB	Deutsche Bank
DB	Dragon Ball (processor)
DB	Deutsche Bahn AG (German railway company)
DB	Defined Benefit (type of qualified retirement plan)
DB	DragonBall (TV show/anime)
DB	Defensive Back (football)
DB	Dropbox (file hosting service)
DB	Data Bus
DB	Double Bass
DB	Discussion Board
DB	Debug (assembly language ASM51 assembler control)
DB	Design and Build (contract)
DB	Data Buffer
DB	Daytona Beach (Florida)
DB	Daily Bulletin
DB	Debit
DB	Don't Bother (chat slang)
DB	David Bowie (musician)
DB	Diamond Bar (California)
DB	Dagbladet
DB	Dry Bulb (temperature)
DB	David Beckham (footballer)
DB	Dobra (unit of currency of Sao Tome and Principe)
DB	Daimler Benz
DB	Dena Bank (India)
DB	Die Bahn (German Railways)
DB	Dynamic Bass
DB	Daniel Bryan (professional wrestler)
DB	Deed Book (Recorder of Deeds)
DB	Dead Body
DB	Dark Brotherhood (gaming)
DB	Dragon Boat
DB	Dilbert
DB	DOSBox (DOS emulator)
DB	Direct Broadcast
DB	Dresdner Bank (Germany)
DB	Daughter Board
DB	Death Benefit (insurance)
DB	David Byrne (singer)
DB	Dumbbell (weight lifting)
DB	Dierks Bentley (country music artist)
DB	Discovery Bay (Hong Kong)
DB	Direct Burial (cable/pipe)
DB	Double Base (rocket propellants)
DB	Disability Benefit (various organizations)
DB	Domonic Brown (baseball player)
DB	Dubnium (element 105)
DB	David Blaine
DB	Dirty Bastard
DB	Dattebayo (anime fansub group)
DB	Doobie Brothers (band)
DB	David Boreanaz (actor)
DB	Declining Balance
DB	Debenture
DB	Drew Bledsoe (athlete)
DB	Darkbasic
DB	Distribution Box
DB	Doughboy
DB	Dooney & Bourke
DB	Douche Bag
DB	Difficulty Breathing (medical)
DB	Dimmu Borgir (band)
DB	Deafblind
DB	Dogbert
DB	Daybook
DB	Dispatched By
DB	Dark Beginning (Yu-Gi-Oh cards)
DB	Double Bottom (trading markets; stocks, bonds, commodities)
DB	Door Bell
DB	Digital Blasphemy
DB	Dooney and Bourke
DB	Double Bottom (shipbuilding)
DB	Distribution Board (electronics)
DB	Dangling Bond (chemistry)
DB	Define Byte (assembly language directive)
DB	Division of Biology (FDA)
DB	Detective Branch (Bangladesh)
DB	Dumb Blond
DB	Denied Boarding (airline)
DB	Design Baseline
DB	Deutsche Burschenschaft (German: German Fraternity)
DB	Drinking Buddies
DB	Direct Bilirubin
DB	Delta Band
DB	Docking Bay
DB	Delayed Broadcast
DB	Direct Billing
DB	Digital Battlefield
DB	Deathball (gaming)
DB	Detective Bureau
DB	Direct Budget
DB	Dream Boat
DB	Dime Bag
DB	Dutch Belted (rabbit breed)
DB	Deadbands
DB	Dip Brazing
DB	Dog's Bollocks
DB	Disciplinary Barracks
DB	Ding Bat
DB	Digital Burst (gaming clan)
DB	Sao Tome Dobra (national currency)
DB	Dumb Bunny
DB	Deutsch-Bonnet (French racing car)
DB	Display Builder
DB	Detection Buffer
DB	Dry Base
DB	Depth Bomb
DB	Dedicated Buffer
DB	Daryl Baxter (Nebraska)
DB	Don Balón (soccer magazine; Spain)
DB	Degraded Being (Scientology term)
DB	Deadbeat Parent (someone who does not pay child support)
DB	Double Brew
DB	Defence Board
DB	Drunken Brawler (gaming)
DB	Doggabyte (1e+30 bytes)
DB	Darkenbane (Everquest Guild)
DB	Diffuse Bipolar (cell)
DB	diluted bitumen
DB	Dünya Bankasý (Turkish: World Bank)
DB	Dispersal Base
DB	Balloon drift
DB	Department of Defense Beneficiary (US DoD)
DB	Dome Breach
DB	Dual Bitmap (Annex C) (ITU-T)
DB	Dynamic Binateness (of a variable)
DB	Developmental Bulletin (USMC)

obviously dead body.

 

[Deleted member 4645]

obviously dead body.

Mirin high T fetish.

 

[Deleted member 6997]

Acronym	Definition
DB	Database
DB	Decibel
DB	Deutsche Bundesbahn (German Federal Railways, 1994 amalgamation with Deutsche Reichsbahn, aka DBAG)
DB	Double
DB	Deutsche Bank
DB	Dragon Ball (processor)
DB	Deutsche Bahn AG (German railway company)
DB	Defined Benefit (type of qualified retirement plan)
DB	DragonBall (TV show/anime)
DB	Defensive Back (football)
DB	Dropbox (file hosting service)
DB	Data Bus
DB	Double Bass
DB	Discussion Board
DB	Debug (assembly language ASM51 assembler control)
DB	Design and Build (contract)
DB	Data Buffer
DB	Daytona Beach (Florida)
DB	Daily Bulletin
DB	Debit
DB	Don't Bother (chat slang)
DB	David Bowie (musician)
DB	Diamond Bar (California)
DB	Dagbladet
DB	Dry Bulb (temperature)
DB	David Beckham (footballer)
DB	Dobra (unit of currency of Sao Tome and Principe)
DB	Daimler Benz
DB	Dena Bank (India)
DB	Die Bahn (German Railways)
DB	Dynamic Bass
DB	Daniel Bryan (professional wrestler)
DB	Deed Book (Recorder of Deeds)
DB	Dead Body
DB	Dark Brotherhood (gaming)
DB	Dragon Boat
DB	Dilbert
DB	DOSBox (DOS emulator)
DB	Direct Broadcast
DB	Dresdner Bank (Germany)
DB	Daughter Board
DB	Death Benefit (insurance)
DB	David Byrne (singer)
DB	Dumbbell (weight lifting)
DB	Dierks Bentley (country music artist)
DB	Discovery Bay (Hong Kong)
DB	Direct Burial (cable/pipe)
DB	Double Base (rocket propellants)
DB	Disability Benefit (various organizations)
DB	Domonic Brown (baseball player)
DB	Dubnium (element 105)
DB	David Blaine
DB	Dirty Bastard
DB	Dattebayo (anime fansub group)
DB	Doobie Brothers (band)
DB	David Boreanaz (actor)
DB	Declining Balance
DB	Debenture
DB	Drew Bledsoe (athlete)
DB	Darkbasic
DB	Distribution Box
DB	Doughboy
DB	Dooney & Bourke
DB	Douche Bag
DB	Difficulty Breathing (medical)
DB	Dimmu Borgir (band)
DB	Deafblind
DB	Dogbert
DB	Daybook
DB	Dispatched By
DB	Dark Beginning (Yu-Gi-Oh cards)
DB	Double Bottom (trading markets; stocks, bonds, commodities)
DB	Door Bell
DB	Digital Blasphemy
DB	Dooney and Bourke
DB	Double Bottom (shipbuilding)
DB	Distribution Board (electronics)
DB	Dangling Bond (chemistry)
DB	Define Byte (assembly language directive)
DB	Division of Biology (FDA)
DB	Detective Branch (Bangladesh)
DB	Dumb Blond
DB	Denied Boarding (airline)
DB	Design Baseline
DB	Deutsche Burschenschaft (German: German Fraternity)
DB	Drinking Buddies
DB	Direct Bilirubin
DB	Delta Band
DB	Docking Bay
DB	Delayed Broadcast
DB	Direct Billing
DB	Digital Battlefield
DB	Deathball (gaming)
DB	Detective Bureau
DB	Direct Budget
DB	Dream Boat
DB	Dime Bag
DB	Dutch Belted (rabbit breed)
DB	Deadbands
DB	Dip Brazing
DB	Dog's Bollocks
DB	Disciplinary Barracks
DB	Ding Bat
DB	Digital Burst (gaming clan)
DB	Sao Tome Dobra (national currency)
DB	Dumb Bunny
DB	Deutsch-Bonnet (French racing car)
DB	Display Builder
DB	Detection Buffer
DB	Dry Base
DB	Depth Bomb
DB	Dedicated Buffer
DB	Daryl Baxter (Nebraska)
DB	Don Balón (soccer magazine; Spain)
DB	Degraded Being (Scientology term)
DB	Deadbeat Parent (someone who does not pay child support)
DB	Double Brew
DB	Defence Board
DB	Drunken Brawler (gaming)
DB	Doggabyte (1e+30 bytes)
DB	Darkenbane (Everquest Guild)
DB	Diffuse Bipolar (cell)
DB	diluted bitumen
DB	Dünya Bankasý (Turkish: World Bank)
DB	Dispersal Base
DB	Balloon drift
DB	Department of Defense Beneficiary (US DoD)
DB	Dome Breach
DB	Dual Bitmap (Annex C) (ITU-T)
DB	Dynamic Binateness (of a variable)
DB	Developmental Bulletin (USMC)

Elevate

 

[Deleted member 4645]

Elevate

elevate
verb [ T ]

UK

/ˈel.ɪ.veɪt/ US

/ˈel.ə.veɪt/

formal
to raise something or lift something up:
The platform was elevated by means of hydraulic legs.
Thesaurus: synonyms, antonyms, and examples
to move from a lower position to a higher position

• liftI can't lift my arm past this point without pain.
• raiseRaise your hand if you have a question, please.
• elevatePut pressure on the wound and keep the injured limb elevated.
• pick upIf the baby cries, pick him up and cuddle him.
• scoop upShe scooped up the crying toddler and carried him off to his cot.

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to make someone or something more important or to improve something:
They want to elevate the status of teachers.
These factors helped to elevate the town to the position of one of the most beautiful in the country.

be elevated to sth formal
to be given a higher rank or social position:
He has been elevated to deputy manager.
She was elevated to the peerage (= was made a peer).
SMART Vocabulary: related words and phrases

 

[Deleted member 6997]

elevate
verb [ T ]

UK

/ˈel.ɪ.veɪt/ US

/ˈel.ə.veɪt/

formal
to raise something or lift something up:
The platform was elevated by means of hydraulic legs.
Thesaurus: synonyms, antonyms, and examples
to move from a lower position to a higher position

• liftI can't lift my arm past this point without pain.
• raiseRaise your hand if you have a question, please.
• elevatePut pressure on the wound and keep the injured limb elevated.
• pick upIf the baby cries, pick him up and cuddle him.
• scoop upShe scooped up the crying toddler and carried him off to his cot.

See more results »
to make someone or something more important or to improve something:
They want to elevate the status of teachers.
These factors helped to elevate the town to the position of one of the most beautiful in the country.

be elevated to sth formal
to be given a higher rank or social position:
He has been elevated to deputy manager.
She was elevated to the peerage (= was made a peer).
SMART Vocabulary: related words and phrases

Bump machine

 

[alligatordude]

her physical un-comfortability is ur face