Got with a bop and I’m regretting it

[mfk]

So this girl who used to go to my high school with comes to my city and asks me to grab drinks. I don’t think much of it because we had been friends for a while, and I know she was and probably still is a bop.

We end up getting drinks and she’s like maybe low HTB at most. And it was fine at first, like just friendly shit. I wasn’t really tryna get with her because I knew she was a bop and I mog her in humblest way I can possibly say.

Time flies and I’m deadass thinking I’m just gonna head home after this. Keep in mind I was making NO MOVES on her whatsoever. It wasn’t something I was interested in doing.

I was just there to drink ngl

But I guess I was drunk as shit so when she asked me to come over I said yes. I suppose my thought process was that it had been a some weeks since my last so why not. And I suppose the whole bop thing blew past my mind when I was drunk as shit.

I go over and we get to it.

I didn’t think about it much afterwards but I’m regretting it now. It’s not that I’m attached to her or anything. It’s the fact MY NAME is just another added to a list of how many?? I could NOT tell you. I feel like a whole victim bruh

But then again it’s the consequences of my own actions

So take my experience as a reminder

Don’t get with bops, no matter the circumstances

 

[paladincel_]

Did I read the title?

 

[mfk]

Did I read the title?

i got possessed

im gonna start going to church

 

[LooksmaxAutist]

Gotta stop messin w them hoes

 

[rawmilk]

nah imma link with all of them

 

[Lokki]

So this girl who used to go to my high school with comes to my city and asks me to grab drinks. I don’t think much of it because we had been friends for a while, and I know she was and probably still is a bop.

We end up getting drinks and she’s like maybe low HTB at most. And it was fine at first, like just friendly shit. I wasn’t really tryna get with her because I knew she was a bop and I mog her in humblest way I can possibly say.

Time flies and I’m deadass thinking I’m just gonna head home after this. Keep in mind I was making NO MOVES on her whatsoever. It wasn’t something I was interested in doing.

I was just there to drink ngl

But I guess I was drunk as shit so when she asked me to come over I said yes. I suppose my thought process was that it had been a some weeks since my last so why not. And I suppose the whole bop thing blew past my mind when I was drunk as shit.

I go over and we get to it.

I didn’t think about it much afterwards but I’m regretting it now. It’s not that I’m attached to her or anything. It’s the fact MY NAME is just another added to a list of how many?? I could NOT tell you. I feel like a whole victim bruh

But then again it’s the consequences of my own actions

So take my experience as a reminder

Don’t get with bops, no matter the circumstances

Why dont you just call them whores, thats what they are

Bop is too soft

 

[nobodyspecial369]

So this girl who used to go to my high school with comes to my city and asks me to grab drinks. I don’t think much of it because we had been friends for a while, and I know she was and probably still is a bop.

We end up getting drinks and she’s like maybe low HTB at most. And it was fine at first, like just friendly shit. I wasn’t really tryna get with her because I knew she was a bop and I mog her in humblest way I can possibly say.

Time flies and I’m deadass thinking I’m just gonna head home after this. Keep in mind I was making NO MOVES on her whatsoever. It wasn’t something I was interested in doing.

I was just there to drink ngl

But I guess I was drunk as shit so when she asked me to come over I said yes. I suppose my thought process was that it had been a some weeks since my last so why not. And I suppose the whole bop thing blew past my mind when I was drunk as shit.

I go over and we get to it.

I didn’t think about it much afterwards but I’m regretting it now. It’s not that I’m attached to her or anything. It’s the fact MY NAME is just another added to a list of how many?? I could NOT tell you. I feel like a whole victim bruh

But then again it’s the consequences of my own actions

So take my experience as a reminder

Don’t get with bops, no matter the circumstances

this exact situation is about to go down tmrw for me (girl coming to my city and wants to sleep w me), but i’m gonna stay abstinent

sorry you had to go through this it’s a learning experience

you feel empty bc you feel used i imagine. it wasn’t really what your higher self wanted

most ppl experience same thing after hookups both guys and girls. Most ppl realize they want more than just physical, there needs to be emotional connection and for you to really like and care for the other before you sleep w them. Sex is never no strings attached it’s a karmic exchange of energy, and it’s not to be taken lightly. think about it, the act of sex can create a whole human being… whenever i’m down bad i ask myself “is this woman fit to be the mother of my children”, “do i see a future with her”, “is she relationship material”?

If the answer is no, then i don’t think i’ll be happy personally, knowing i just followed my lust without thinking with my logical head

also seems you feel bad bc she wasn’t your level lookswise?

PM me i’ll send you some things that may help.

 

[mfk]

this exact situation is about to go down tmrw for me (girl coming to my city and wants to sleep w me), but i’m gonna stay abstinent

sorry you had to go through this it’s a learning experience

you feel empty bc you feel used i imagine. it wasn’t really what your higher self wanted

most ppl experience same thing after hookups both guys and girls. Most ppl realize they want more than just physical, there needs to be emotional connection and for you to really like and care for the other before you sleep w them. Sex is never no strings attached it’s a karmic exchange of energy, and it’s not to be taken lightly. think about it, the act of sex can create a whole human being… whenever i’m down bad i ask myself “is this woman fit to be the mother of my children”, “do i see a future with her”, “is she relationship material”?

If the answer is no, then i don’t think i’ll be happy personally, knowing i just followed my lust without thinking with my logical head

also seems you feel bad bc she wasn’t your level lookswise?

PM me i’ll send you some things that may help.

Glad to see someone here who understands

Sent you a DM

 

[proxking]

low test