Grades are irreparably fucked - Need some advice for the future.

[lightskinbengali]

My grades and transcript makes it pretty impossible to come back from and I'm in the second semester of 11th grade. I'm guessing the only few options I have is enlisting as a reservist, going to a CC and transferring to a really good uni, or going to a trade school. What are my options outside of these two paths?

 

[lightskinbengali]

I'll get an aspie diagnosis and rot with benefits.

 

[Deleted member 16970]

The most important path is to find out why your belief of why your grades should be better do not line up with the reality that is being displayed.

Obviously we know the answer. is one the following
- self hatred
-nihilism
-depression
-parents

now we have to analyze where the root problem arises. its actually probably in your parents and the broken communication u have with them. Maybe if they understood that pussy is hard to come by, and ur mental is deteriorating, they would be more supportive? Parents are dumb after all, and dont understand modern male sufferage. but also that they have placed, directly or indirectly, a high expectation on u.

it seems ur support network is lacking. and i would focus on that first

 

[lightskinbengali]

The most important path is to find out why your belief of why your grades should be better do not line up with the reality that is being displayed.

Obviously we know the answer. is one the following
- self hatred
-nihilism
-depression
-parents

now we have to analyze where the root problem arises. its actually probably in your parents and the broken communication u have with them. Maybe if they understood that pussy is hard to come by, and ur mental is deteriorating, they would be more supportive? Parents are dumb after all, and dont understand modern male sufferage. but also that they have placed, directly or indirectly, a high expectation on u.

it seems ur support network is lacking. and i would focus on that first

Laziness from shitty helicopter parents and upbringing, porn addiction, shitty diet, and moving around often fucked all my potential. I did get all A's first quarter but then my grades plummeted from the realization that I don't even have the option to go to an above avg uni (which I need to do because I'm an only child). I'm fixing my life by socializing with old friends, working out, and getting more hobbies but just two bad years is preventing me from realizing my opportunities and potential.

 

[Deleted member 16970]

Laziness from shitty helicopter parents and upbringing, porn addiction, shitty diet, and moving around often fucked all my potential. I did get all A's first quarter but then my grades plummeted from the realization that I don't even have the option to go to an above avg uni (which I need to do because I'm an only child). I'm fixing my life by socializing with old friends, working out, and getting more hobbies but just two bad years is preventing me from realizing my opportunities and potential.

i understand that u are trying to do ur best to fix ur life. but if u step back and look at ur timeline. self-hatred for having poor grades and being gaslit by ur parents is not a healthy parent-child relationship. What happens when ur in uni? Do u magically get motivation? all that new freedom will only make ur underlying condition worse, a lack of communication between parent child.

fix this and i guarantee u, u will fix ur life forever.

 

[bara]

Laziness from shitty helicopter parents and upbringing, porn addiction, shitty diet, and moving around often fucked all my potential. I did get all A's first quarter but then my grades plummeted from the realization that I don't even have the option to go to an above avg uni (which I need to do because I'm an only child). I'm fixing my life by socializing with old friends, working out, and getting more hobbies but just two bad years is preventing me from realizing my opportunities and potential.

I woulda liked to have been self aware enough back in 11th grade to know I fucked up as well. Good on you for recognizing.

No one will know how to fix/assess your situation better than one of your school counsellors/advisors. If it was grade 12 this may be worse, but I think you still have opportunity for turn around in the 11th grade.

Also your situation with your parents is unfortunate, but you can't keep that resentment in your life. Focus on yourself.

 

[User28823]

Just go to a community college do well then transfer, cheaper that way anyway.

 

[lightskinbengali]

What's with you @Dr. Bruh jfling every post, malicious ass little nigga.

 

[Deleted member 21044]

What's with you @Dr. Bruh jfling every post, malicious ass little nigga.

We do a little mischief.