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Most of you guys are here to improve your looks either for your own happiness or for women but after ascending still don’t know how to talk to Stacy? This guide will help you understand how, where, and when to approach. From my experience, when I’ve tried talking to women I’ve just met, sometimes I’ve been accepted, sometimes rejected and that’s how you learn. Mistakes teach you more than anything else.
The most important thing is eye contact. Do not approach if she hasn't even seen you. If she looks at you more than once, holds it for even a second, or gives you a small smile, that’s your signal. The easiest places to approach are clubs, gyms, malls almost anywhere. When you see her smile, smile back but keep it calm and confident, not creepy. Just a small, genuine smile.
When a girl is interested, she’ll often find excuses to get closer maybe she stands nearby, glances at you repeatedly That’s your cue to approach. If she doesn’t get closer but still maintains eye contact, that’s fine too she might just be waiting for you to make the first move.
You’ll never fully know what’s going on in her head, so stay calm and approach naturally when it feels right. Don’t overthink things like “How do I walk? Is my hair okay? Does my breath smell?” You’re literally just talking to a girl.
Before you approach think what you're going to say don’t walk up to her and start stuttering or being stiff. Ask her name, and if it’s uncommon, ask about her ethnicity. Ask genuine questions: what she’s doing here, who she’s with, is that her real hair color, music and add a little humor if it fits. Don’t talk about blackpill or your Star Wars obsession. Let her do most of the talking at first and see what she’s interested in. Your goal is to connect, not perform you don't need chessy pick up lines just confidence, so don’t be desperate or try too hard to impress.
It’s also important to pay attention to how she’s responding. If she’s barely answering, doesn’t ask you questions, or isn’t paying attention, that’s your cue to respect her space and walk away. Not every conversation will go somewhere, and that’s completely fine staying calm and respectful shows confidence, which might make her regret acting like that.
The most important thing is eye contact. Do not approach if she hasn't even seen you. If she looks at you more than once, holds it for even a second, or gives you a small smile, that’s your signal. The easiest places to approach are clubs, gyms, malls almost anywhere. When you see her smile, smile back but keep it calm and confident, not creepy. Just a small, genuine smile.
When a girl is interested, she’ll often find excuses to get closer maybe she stands nearby, glances at you repeatedly That’s your cue to approach. If she doesn’t get closer but still maintains eye contact, that’s fine too she might just be waiting for you to make the first move.
You’ll never fully know what’s going on in her head, so stay calm and approach naturally when it feels right. Don’t overthink things like “How do I walk? Is my hair okay? Does my breath smell?” You’re literally just talking to a girl.
Before you approach think what you're going to say don’t walk up to her and start stuttering or being stiff. Ask her name, and if it’s uncommon, ask about her ethnicity. Ask genuine questions: what she’s doing here, who she’s with, is that her real hair color, music and add a little humor if it fits. Don’t talk about blackpill or your Star Wars obsession. Let her do most of the talking at first and see what she’s interested in. Your goal is to connect, not perform you don't need chessy pick up lines just confidence, so don’t be desperate or try too hard to impress.
It’s also important to pay attention to how she’s responding. If she’s barely answering, doesn’t ask you questions, or isn’t paying attention, that’s your cue to respect her space and walk away. Not every conversation will go somewhere, and that’s completely fine staying calm and respectful shows confidence, which might make her regret acting like that.
