FailedNormieManlet
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This post goes out to my curries, and others who fail to assert themselves in situations. As we all know, the reason why curries and others fail to assert themselves is due to the way they are raised. Now in my case (I am a curry btw) I was raised with the idea of asking people to do stuff was seen as sort of rude, and that I should only do stuff when people offer me. Now the thing is, this sort of socialisation works great for women, it's very fem behaviour.
But we are men here, men don't do this shit. Being assertive in situations has made me seem more attractive to women and has given me a few benefits. One of them which sounds like total shit, but I am not kidding is legit is this.
People think I am taller than I am, I shit you not. I stand at 5'5, I've been told by multiple people they've always thought I was 5'7, I ask why. And they always seem to point out that my presence is big/I take up a lot of space in conversations and whatnot. To test my theory out, I once met a group of people and I was very quiet and meek, and people percieved me as smaller and treated me more like a child. As a manlet you're working harder for social dominance but it's possible.
So now on to assertiveness.
What is assertiveness exactly? For me it's saying what you want/what you think. A man isn't afraid to say what he truly desires. If you're in the library trying to study and a bunch of jews came and started playing their talmud music loudly, someone who is non-assertive and raised as a pajeet would simply move room and try to ignore them. An assertive person would tell those jews that they're being loud and need to shut their music down. It's this assertivness which allows you to talk to girls and is the basis for a lot of shit.
I can give an example.
About 2 weeks ago I was on a night out with my uni society, and we were at a bar. At that bar there is a smoking area, so I was there chilling out with my society members (3 of us including me), however they had to have a private conversation about one of their love life's and weren't too comfortable in saying it around me since they don't know me.
So I said okay, I'll give you guys space and left them. What happened when I did that? I approached a group of girls and said to them "Ladies, look my friends are having a private conversation, I don't want to be alone and bored. So I'm joining you, my name is pajeetcel, what's yours?" And guess what? Those girls loved it, one of them offered to talk to my friends and give advice, but I legit just grabbed her arm and said "no. Not you" and she started giggling away. In that group there was a black girl who had a thing for me and was touching me a lot, saying I was cute. She wasn't hot btw. I started saying stuff like "oh you're trying to hit on me? You know I'm not that easy?" and got her laughing.
You need to be willing to offend girls and be willing to say what you truly want to these girls. If you don't you will fail hard. When women say they want a dominant man, they actually mean they want an assertive man.
If you want to improve assertivness, get over the fact you will upset women. You should also be willing to physically fight everyone and anyone, since I started doing BJJ and Judo, I've got little to no fear of people. I say what's on my mind, what are people going to do? No one will lay a finger on me. Secondly take modafinil.
But we are men here, men don't do this shit. Being assertive in situations has made me seem more attractive to women and has given me a few benefits. One of them which sounds like total shit, but I am not kidding is legit is this.
People think I am taller than I am, I shit you not. I stand at 5'5, I've been told by multiple people they've always thought I was 5'7, I ask why. And they always seem to point out that my presence is big/I take up a lot of space in conversations and whatnot. To test my theory out, I once met a group of people and I was very quiet and meek, and people percieved me as smaller and treated me more like a child. As a manlet you're working harder for social dominance but it's possible.
So now on to assertiveness.
What is assertiveness exactly? For me it's saying what you want/what you think. A man isn't afraid to say what he truly desires. If you're in the library trying to study and a bunch of jews came and started playing their talmud music loudly, someone who is non-assertive and raised as a pajeet would simply move room and try to ignore them. An assertive person would tell those jews that they're being loud and need to shut their music down. It's this assertivness which allows you to talk to girls and is the basis for a lot of shit.
I can give an example.
About 2 weeks ago I was on a night out with my uni society, and we were at a bar. At that bar there is a smoking area, so I was there chilling out with my society members (3 of us including me), however they had to have a private conversation about one of their love life's and weren't too comfortable in saying it around me since they don't know me.
So I said okay, I'll give you guys space and left them. What happened when I did that? I approached a group of girls and said to them "Ladies, look my friends are having a private conversation, I don't want to be alone and bored. So I'm joining you, my name is pajeetcel, what's yours?" And guess what? Those girls loved it, one of them offered to talk to my friends and give advice, but I legit just grabbed her arm and said "no. Not you" and she started giggling away. In that group there was a black girl who had a thing for me and was touching me a lot, saying I was cute. She wasn't hot btw. I started saying stuff like "oh you're trying to hit on me? You know I'm not that easy?" and got her laughing.
You need to be willing to offend girls and be willing to say what you truly want to these girls. If you don't you will fail hard. When women say they want a dominant man, they actually mean they want an assertive man.
If you want to improve assertivness, get over the fact you will upset women. You should also be willing to physically fight everyone and anyone, since I started doing BJJ and Judo, I've got little to no fear of people. I say what's on my mind, what are people going to do? No one will lay a finger on me. Secondly take modafinil.
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