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The Guide To S͟O͟C͟I͟A͟L͟M͟A͟X͟X͟I͟N͟G͟
Looks aren't everything just the entry ticket.If you're not a Chad, you need every edge you can get. And that's where socialmaxxing comes in. It's the cheat code we all ignore. You won’t mog anyone with your face alone, but being socially sharp makes people notice you, respect you, and actually want you around.
Social skills = status multiplier. They help in dating (if you stand a chance), making friends and climbing social ladders.
COMMON MISTAKES
1. Talking too fast or too much when nervous (self explanatory)
2. Never asking others about themselves (kills the convo p fast)
3. Over explaining or trauma dumping (makes the convo seem 1 sided)
4. Not changing tones/moods during convo (makes it boring/bland)
You have to be intentional about everything
1. Talking too fast or too much when nervous (self explanatory)
2. Never asking others about themselves (kills the convo p fast)
3. Over explaining or trauma dumping (makes the convo seem 1 sided)
4. Not changing tones/moods during convo (makes it boring/bland)
You have to be intentional about everything
SOCIALMAXXING BASIC THAT WORK:
LEARN TO LISTEN BETTER THAN YOU SPEAK
React to answers, ask open ended questions and DON'T make it all about you.
I've noticed the more I'm asking questions and just engaging in general I get better output from the conversation.
SOUND THE PART
How you speak changes how people treat you. (don't sound like a dork)
1. Speak slower, with downward inflection
2. Lower pitch = more confident tone
3. Pause instead of using filler words ("like" and "um")
4. Cut uptalk. It makes you sound unsure
5. Taking pauses, taking pauses to think can make you appear smarter, thought and confident (avoids over explaining like we talked about)
LEARN TO LISTEN BETTER THAN YOU SPEAK
React to answers, ask open ended questions and DON'T make it all about you.
I've noticed the more I'm asking questions and just engaging in general I get better output from the conversation.
SOUND THE PART
How you speak changes how people treat you. (don't sound like a dork)
1. Speak slower, with downward inflection
2. Lower pitch = more confident tone
3. Pause instead of using filler words ("like" and "um")
4. Cut uptalk. It makes you sound unsure
5. Taking pauses, taking pauses to think can make you appear smarter, thought and confident (avoids over explaining like we talked about)
BODY LANGUAGE
1. Don’t fidget, twitch, or look around the room you look like a dork.
2. Hold eye contact when speaking in a intense/thoughtful manner. (HOW YOU DO IT IS WHAT REALLY MATTERS)
www.quora.com
1. Don’t fidget, twitch, or look around the room you look like a dork.
2. Hold eye contact when speaking in a intense/thoughtful manner. (HOW YOU DO IT IS WHAT REALLY MATTERS)
How long should I maintain eye contact? Should I look away once and a while? I think I creep people out.
Answer (1 of 4): * How long should I maintain eye contact? Should I look away once and a while? I think I creep people out. Good question, and the following will provide you a concrete and explicit answer that WORKS, and is easy to implement. You are correct, staring constantly will either anno...
HAND PLACEMENT
1. Relaxed hands looks approachable and used when casually speaking.
2. Light touch/lean on objects shows you're in control and composed
3. Occasional gestures to emphasize, This makes you more engaging and persuasive
1. Relaxed hands looks approachable and used when casually speaking.
2. Light touch/lean on objects shows you're in control and composed
3. Occasional gestures to emphasize, This makes you more engaging and persuasive
ADVANCED
Status Farming: Talk like your life is interesting, even when you're being lwk.
Micro Compliments: Compliment people on how they do something.
Mystery: Don't tell your whole life story. Give glimpses lie if you have to.
Status Farming: Talk like your life is interesting, even when you're being lwk.
Micro Compliments: Compliment people on how they do something.
Mystery: Don't tell your whole life story. Give glimpses lie if you have to.
HM:
KNOW WHEN TO LEAVE
