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There is no magic recipe or miracle cure to heal a man's broken heart after a breakup. There is no therapy or any method to learn how to deal with the devastating fact of parting with your oneitis. It is almost like an existential catastrophe for most men to go on with a normal life after abandoning the 'love of your life' and many men even take the drastic decision to end their lives. In this sense, it highlights one of the few tips where the bluepill is right, 'the only thing that can heal a broken heart is time' But, in this guide I will include other mental exercises of the blackpill to remove your oneitis from your brain.
This feeling that many men go through is totally ignored by modern society, which sweeps it under the rug, the old paradigm of 'you're a faggot man, get up, don't be a crybaby' as if men's feelings don't matter, and they are nothing but abused dogs that don't have to feel emotions and feelings, the old social construct that men should be 'tough and not cry' which was actively promoted by women.
And yes brother, if you end up in a relationship, you can cry, you can vent on the shoulder of a friend, but never, ever, show your feelings to women, because they will see you as a sissy. Nor less, make the mistake of going back to your oneitis and telling her how much you miss her because you will do nothing but generate repulsion in her. No bitch is interested in men's feelings, as much as feminists and tiktok foids tell you they love 'men who open up' yes, women are deeply contradictory, they say and act differently.
Here we go; as a man, you have the vital instinct to reproduce, only equated to the survival instinct, for this, your brain is conditioned to release a series of endorphins related to the feeling of 'being in love' and to pair you with your 'oneitis' a mechanism to guarantee commitment and seek procreation, a plausible explanation why men cling passionately to a woman, is because since prehistoric times they have a shorter life expectancy than women, so they have a very low time gap to spread their genes, think that our ancestors did not live beyond 25 years, so ensuring your reproduction with a woman is your only option, because at any time you're going to die.
On the other hand, women have a different phenomenon, they have a higher life expectancy than men, either by biological/psychosocial factors, they have a much longer time gap to be able to establish themselves, and they see men as disposable, due to the constant mortality that exists in their surroundings.
Which transforms men into a disposable product, and easily replaceable. That's why when you break up after a relationship, you will notice how your ex outgrows you after a week, and sleeps with other men, while you drown in shit, one, because she has more options than you and the SMV of any average woman is higher than that of a chad, and second, because she has encoded in her brain the easy overcoming of male loss, while your male brain does the opposite, and asks you to go back to her.
So this is where the black pill and evolutionary psychology come in, and the only thing that will get you out of this state is a deep introspection about female behavior and psychology, cheating nature, being aware of the predestiny you are being subjected to. What you are feeling are just chemicals in your primitive brain that make you want to miss her and get back with her, while she doesn't give a shit about you, hate, resentment, are legitimate mechanisms to forget her, and contrary to what conventional therapy teaches, valuing your honor, your dignity is what matters the most. Because at the end of the day, you were the tourist on duty who passed through her vagina, before and after you, there will be more men to whom she will say the same cheesy crap that she said to you. This mental game will serve you a lot and is what will truly trick your brain.
This feeling that many men go through is totally ignored by modern society, which sweeps it under the rug, the old paradigm of 'you're a faggot man, get up, don't be a crybaby' as if men's feelings don't matter, and they are nothing but abused dogs that don't have to feel emotions and feelings, the old social construct that men should be 'tough and not cry' which was actively promoted by women.
And yes brother, if you end up in a relationship, you can cry, you can vent on the shoulder of a friend, but never, ever, show your feelings to women, because they will see you as a sissy. Nor less, make the mistake of going back to your oneitis and telling her how much you miss her because you will do nothing but generate repulsion in her. No bitch is interested in men's feelings, as much as feminists and tiktok foids tell you they love 'men who open up' yes, women are deeply contradictory, they say and act differently.
Here we go; as a man, you have the vital instinct to reproduce, only equated to the survival instinct, for this, your brain is conditioned to release a series of endorphins related to the feeling of 'being in love' and to pair you with your 'oneitis' a mechanism to guarantee commitment and seek procreation, a plausible explanation why men cling passionately to a woman, is because since prehistoric times they have a shorter life expectancy than women, so they have a very low time gap to spread their genes, think that our ancestors did not live beyond 25 years, so ensuring your reproduction with a woman is your only option, because at any time you're going to die.
On the other hand, women have a different phenomenon, they have a higher life expectancy than men, either by biological/psychosocial factors, they have a much longer time gap to be able to establish themselves, and they see men as disposable, due to the constant mortality that exists in their surroundings.
Which transforms men into a disposable product, and easily replaceable. That's why when you break up after a relationship, you will notice how your ex outgrows you after a week, and sleeps with other men, while you drown in shit, one, because she has more options than you and the SMV of any average woman is higher than that of a chad, and second, because she has encoded in her brain the easy overcoming of male loss, while your male brain does the opposite, and asks you to go back to her.
So this is where the black pill and evolutionary psychology come in, and the only thing that will get you out of this state is a deep introspection about female behavior and psychology, cheating nature, being aware of the predestiny you are being subjected to. What you are feeling are just chemicals in your primitive brain that make you want to miss her and get back with her, while she doesn't give a shit about you, hate, resentment, are legitimate mechanisms to forget her, and contrary to what conventional therapy teaches, valuing your honor, your dignity is what matters the most. Because at the end of the day, you were the tourist on duty who passed through her vagina, before and after you, there will be more men to whom she will say the same cheesy crap that she said to you. This mental game will serve you a lot and is what will truly trick your brain.
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