Gym approaches.

[Gymguy1]

Hey guys, this is not meant to be a PUA thread ( we know that shit does not work and that looks matter most with LMS being most important ).

But does anyone have experience with approaching girls in the gym? Obviously common sense shows not to approach in the middle of their set, or to be annoying/weird.

But what I have been doing is while working out if I see a girl who I think is attractive I look in her eyes and gauge to see if she looks me back and if she does I smile and see if she returns the smile. Obviously some girls are just polite and not interested but others it could be a sign that they are atleast open to talking to you. After doing it a few times and seeing if she keeps smiling I walk towards her and wave and they usually pull out their headphones, I introduce myself and we talk about stuff like fitness or training.

Now here's the part where I have a question ( I know the answer is always to be Chad ) but obviously people are here (myself included ) to workout and you don't want to spend 5+ minutes in between sets talking about random stuff and someone is going to eventually leave, do you guys recommend the first time talking to the girl if you feel she seems interested to go straight for the number/social media/ ask her out, or do you think it's better to build rapport and talk to her ( see her a few times ) and gauge from there, before doing it?

Any guys have a lot of experience picking up from the gym? Also is it fair game to assume that any girl who is coming in every day and training and does not ever bring a guy, is single?

 

[Deleted member 27939]

just be confident bro

 

[Gymguy1]

Anyone have experience?

 

[BearBoy]

Anyone have experience?

Yeah just take a sniff off her ass while she is doing squats from behind

 

[Vermilioncore]

Nigga thinks he’s Stephen king na I ain’t feel like reading a book today fam maybe another day

 

[AscensionMan98]

Hey guys, this is not meant to be a PUA thread ( we know that shit does not work and that looks matter most with LMS being most important ).

But does anyone have experience with approaching girls in the gym? Obviously common sense shows not to approach in the middle of their set, or to be annoying/weird.

But what I have been doing is while working out if I see a girl who I think is attractive I look in her eyes and gauge to see if she looks me back and if she does I smile and see if she returns the smile. Obviously some girls are just polite and not interested but others it could be a sign that they are atleast open to talking to you. After doing it a few times and seeing if she keeps smiling I walk towards her and wave and they usually pull out their headphones, I introduce myself and we talk about stuff like fitness or training.

Now here's the part where I have a question ( I know the answer is always to be Chad ) but obviously people are here (myself included ) to workout and you don't want to spend 5+ minutes in between sets talking about random stuff and someone is going to eventually leave, do you guys recommend the first time talking to the girl if you feel she seems interested to go straight for the number/social media/ ask her out, or do you think it's better to build rapport and talk to her ( see her a few times ) and gauge from there, before doing it?

Any guys have a lot of experience picking up from the gym? Also is it fair game to assume that any girl who is coming in every day and training and does not ever bring a guy, is single?

The safest way to approach gym foids in the me to era is basically smiling at them if they look at you, and if your fairly jacked and good looking then you might see them hover around in your area while you lift in the dumbbell section. Don't wear any ear buds or headphones so that way they are more likely to look at you and then you can have a convo with them.

Once their near your vicinity you can try to talk to them in between their . Finish your set as well quickly do a shorter one. Then just ask them how their workout is going . Then they will take about them, and then you can introduce yourself from their.

You don't have to flirt with them then and their. But this introduction will allow you to say hi to them next time. And then if you have a flirty conversation you can then ask her out. And cause the gym is a Casual environment, just ask for coffee vs asking for the drinks immediately.

That only works in bars and clubs which are a inherently more sexual environment. Cold approach is mixed. It may or may not work but you can always do a coffee date first, and then a drink date second. Smashing on the first date also is not needed.

I find it harder anyways unless alcohol is involved. Alcohol boosts the chances of fucking tremendously. But it can be done sober if the chemistry is good. All depends

 

[Gymguy1]

Update just got a lay out of it.

Little latina chick with a big butt a week ago saw me doing squats in the rack and smile at me and went to warm up near me, I let her use the rack and then I went do leg press and she went to the smith machine near me to do lunges, I helped her with put the weight on and introduced myself.

The next week I see her again and wave at her and smile and she smiles everytime she sees me and I go and talk to her, later that day I see her again and get her instagram and then talk to her for 2 days and then we workout together ( she only weighted like 110 lbs ) so I do pull ups with her on me and easily lift her around lol and then I drive her back and I smash.

 

[Deleted member 21735]

approaching at the gym is the worst idea after facebook approaching

 

[Deleted member 29089]

approaching at the gym is the worst idea after facebook approaching

because the amount of jacked men with more SMV than you is absurd (im only 16 so almost everybody is older or bigger than me)

 

[Deleted member 21735]

because the amount of jacked men with more SMV than you is absurd (im only 16 so almost everybody is older or bigger than me)

women dont want to be aprproached there and gym girls have boyfriends

 

[socialcel]

if they look at you, and if your fairly jacked and good looking then you might see them hover around in your area while you lift in the dumbbell section.

wait is this IOI? If, for example chick moves to bench next to me, even tho the dumbells she’s using is from the other side of the db area?

 

[AscensionMan98]

wait is this IOI? If, for example chick moves to bench next to me, even tho the dumbells she’s using is from the other side of the db area?

If their is no one else in the dumbbell sections besides you and the foid then yes generally speaking. If their are multiple groups of other men and their are maybe like 1 or 2 other empty benches she might have just picked that spot.

You can also do the smile test. Smile at the foid and see if she has a slight smile back. That could be another ioi .

Ultimately though at some point you need to make an excuse to talk to gauge real intentions. So next time the foid is near you, make sure you dont have ear buds , and then make up some shit like " wow the gym is quite busy", or " the gym is dead " , and then see if the foid engages in meaningful conversation. If she wraps it up quickly, then probably not interested.

If she talks a lot back, then shows more interest. The main goal is to get the name of the foid, and then hopefully you bump into each other again.

As the gym is a social place this first instance, I would avoid asking her snap and stuff. You can if you feel a good vibe, but as the gym is a social setting and we live in the me 2 era, have to be careful. I would say after 2 meetings , or 3 as well, ask the snap

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

wait is this IOI? If, for example chick moves to bench next to me, even tho the dumbells she’s using is from the other side of the db area?

IOI if she stares and smiles towards you

My opener is just to chit chat about exercise

 

[socialcel]

If their is no one else in the dumbbell sections besides you and the foid then yes generally speaking. If their are multiple groups of other men and their are maybe like 1 or 2 other empty benches she might have just picked that spot.

You can also do the smile test. Smile at the foid and see if she has a slight smile back. That could be another ioi .

Ultimately though at some point you need to make an excuse to talk to gauge real intentions. So next time the foid is near you, make sure you dont have ear buds , and then make up some shit like " wow the gym is quite busy", or " the gym is dead " , and then see if the foid engages in meaningful conversation. If she wraps it up quickly, then probably not interested.

If she talks a lot back, then shows more interest. The main goal is to get the name of the foid, and then hopefully you bump into each other again.

As the gym is a social place this first instance, I would avoid asking her snap and stuff. You can if you feel a good vibe, but as the gym is a social setting and we live in the me 2 era, have to be careful. I would say after 2 meetings , or 3 as well, ask the snap

IOI if she stares and smiles towards you

My opener is just to chit chat about exercise

alright thanks for the advice!

 

[AscensionMan98]

alright thanks for the advice!

best of luck bro, hopefully you get to bust inside balls deep inside some cute gym Foid's hole