Gym & grocery store approaches

[Shahnameh]

This is more of a general topic for general experiences and discussions about these two environments. I do think they require a different mindset and approach from bars and clubs because women expect to get hit on there, so I think you can use this to your advantage. I know this topic has been discussed a lot, but things change and there's always fresh and newer perspectives on this with our rapidly changing culture and sexual marketplace.

My thoughts:

The gym is a little tricky, since your reputation is at stake a little bit if it's a place you frequent, so you have to do it in a way that's not so "all or nothing" but play the slow game. I think it's most effective to literally just say "hi" and start talking about exercising... you don't need an excuse, you are a man and you like attractive women, and for this reason showing "intention" is just as pointless as any other scenario and it can only backfire here if you come on too strong. That said I do still question if hot women truly understand that the only reason men find them "interesting" is because they're hot, or if they're mostly delusional enough to not understand these men just want to smash - so there's surely a way you need to differentiate yourself from the simps who pretend they don't have a ****. All that is to say, I think there's a bit of a gray area here, but it's pointless to analyze it beyond this.

As far as grocery stores...you can be more direct here and possibly even hit on them but it's probably better to just talk about groceries...since, ya know, you're in a grocery store. In my case, I know so much about food ingredients that I can rant about that alone and I do think women appreciate a learned man that can demonstrate some competence in a way that's not arrogant. But I do think a more direct approach, for instance commenting on their appearance, isn't necessarily a bad idea but it needs to be calibrated more.

Any thoughts on this? How do you handle approaches in either of these environments?

 

[RealNinja]

How To Act On IOIs

I just commented this in another thread but it’s helpful info so figured I’d post it separately. If you have a girl that’s giving you consistent IOIs every time you see her- like staring at you, smiling at you, etcetera- this is what you do. ICEBREAKER Just walk up to her and talk to her...

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Read this thread. You can approach any woman you want anywhere even if you don’t get “IOI’d” but the method I wrote in the thread is what you need to do. Basically just starting a conversation with them and seeing how they react so you can gauge their feelings about you (assuming you aren’t completely autistic and retarded.)

I’m not against approaching in the gym but I don’t do it anymore. Last time I did it I actually got a date but then it didn’t work out and she gossiped to all of her friends who go to the same gym .