SharpOrange
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So, I have had my first-ever female interaction where I was able to hold a conversation for more than two minutes with a female, but I did not get to touch her, so I could lose my handless status.
she was older than me like 2 or 3 years and worked in same industry so my senior you can say
i was having dopamine rushes constantly while just getting a chance to interact with her
this happened last week or so but i am back home and rotting again.
I fist-bumped her when I met her the last time; this is the closest I got to touching a woman.
She said she likes TV shows, and, in the show, there is some Katherine and some other girl. I don’t know the story, but she was telling me this. Then she told me her hobby is listening to music and watching Netflix, and I suggested her 2-3 movies.
When we met the first time, I was talking about general stuff, and then the second day I talked to her about this. On the second day, I was pretending to be a jester to get her to laugh by making self-deprecating jokes. Then, randomly in the middle of the conversation, she was being uncomfortable the way i was making fun of myself and she told me I have very low self-esteem and that I judge myself harshly, and I should treat myself better to feel good.
To which I replied with some BS to look confident but was looking a beta all along;
she was not convinced and recognized that I wallow in self-pity and low self-esteem.
how do i fix this pls if there is some guide or make a thread about how to talk to women.
i was giving vibes of i don't love myself and i seek validation from other by degrading myself and she told me to do better,
it felt to her like hey guys i am too ugly and then others will sympathize with you out of pity sort of like that.
pls help me how do i overcome this.
she was older than me like 2 or 3 years and worked in same industry so my senior you can say
i was having dopamine rushes constantly while just getting a chance to interact with her
this happened last week or so but i am back home and rotting again.
I fist-bumped her when I met her the last time; this is the closest I got to touching a woman.
She said she likes TV shows, and, in the show, there is some Katherine and some other girl. I don’t know the story, but she was telling me this. Then she told me her hobby is listening to music and watching Netflix, and I suggested her 2-3 movies.
When we met the first time, I was talking about general stuff, and then the second day I talked to her about this. On the second day, I was pretending to be a jester to get her to laugh by making self-deprecating jokes. Then, randomly in the middle of the conversation, she was being uncomfortable the way i was making fun of myself and she told me I have very low self-esteem and that I judge myself harshly, and I should treat myself better to feel good.
To which I replied with some BS to look confident but was looking a beta all along;
she was not convinced and recognized that I wallow in self-pity and low self-esteem.
how do i fix this pls if there is some guide or make a thread about how to talk to women.
i was giving vibes of i don't love myself and i seek validation from other by degrading myself and she told me to do better,
it felt to her like hey guys i am too ugly and then others will sympathize with you out of pity sort of like that.
pls help me how do i overcome this.
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