Halo effect (wealthy GF)

[johnny4612]

Is increasing one's social standing through "commitment" with a wealthy family always a "beta" thing, and therefore, negative, for a man?

Let me give you some examples:

I know a friend who got engaged to a girl from a rich family.
She gave him a job, now he's the right-hand man at his father's company.
They have three children and are married.
They've been together for 15 years.

Yes, there have been stories of her having moments where she wanted to end the relationship (because she'd certainly seen other, more handsome men), but the two are still together, and above all, he has work and social goals, in addition to having an incredible status.

From a relationship standpoint, he's an arrogant beta. So we can say he's a betabux. An ATM, in short.
And his wife gives him sex when she wants it, or when she needs to manipulate him.

For those who are unaware of what is happening outside, this person has won everything in life, when if we put him outside this family, he is just a poor wretch.

 

[Whirr22222]

If you dont act like a "beta" I dont see an issue

 

[shikimorilover69]

Nah in all honestly i'd be RICH cuck beta than POOR slummaxxed incel and I think anyone wouuld agree
your pride as a man is not worth drinking sewage water for

 

[HtnGymcel]

Create your own path fr

 

[the foid stalker]

Is increasing one's social standing through "commitment" with a wealthy family always a "beta" thing, and therefore, negative, for a man?

Let me give you some examples:

I know a friend who got engaged to a girl from a rich family.
She gave him a job, now he's the right-hand man at his father's company.
They have three children and are married.
They've been together for 15 years.

Yes, there have been stories of her having moments where she wanted to end the relationship (because she'd certainly seen other, more handsome men), but the two are still together, and above all, he has work and social goals, in addition to having an incredible status.

From a relationship standpoint, he's an arrogant beta. So we can say he's a betabux. An ATM, in short.
And his wife gives him sex when she wants it, or when she needs to manipulate him.

For those who are unaware of what is happening outside, this person has won everything in life, when if we put him outside this family, he is just a poor wretch.

He didn't win. he has leased out his life.

The job, the status, had to be leased from her family. He is not the C.E.O. He is the highest-paid employee. The title is only the pretty collar.

Yes, he is comfortable. But comfort is the price he pays for his subserviency. The sex? It is for the purpose of keeping the property in line. He is not a partner. He is a property in charge of the investment.

He appears to have made it from the street. But he has not built anything. He has merely been adopted into a richer system.

It is not alpha or beta that matters, but who does the leading. He exchanged the throne for a more beautiful cage. If it is all right with you, it is all right. But don't confuse his place with power, he merely lives in some other dudes house.

 

[unfortunatehobbies]

he's the right-hand man at his father's company

worth it if he thinks so. he's now rich, he definitely made a decision to sacrifice some elements for others (just like how guys in IB sacrifice health and sleep for money).

in fact, i personally could see myself doing something similar. sometimes you have to kiss ass to get far in life, and sometimes you have to kiss a woman's ass, which is no different.

inb4 'cuck allegations'

 

[freshpeppermint]

Depends on how you look at it. Assuming he inherits all the wealth after death of his wife's family then you can pass that wealth on your kids.

Again this is assuming they want kids and have them and the kids are indeed his. His kids will have a better life.

 

[gigacumster3000]

you just described the american dream lmfao cope harder you poor beta

 

[LTNUser]

you just described the american dream lmfao cope harder you poor beta

Why u hating on people for no reason under every thread?

 

[shikimorilover69]

He didn't win. he has leased out his life.

The job, the status, had to be leased from her family. He is not the C.E.O. He is the highest-paid employee. The title is only the pretty collar.

Yes, he is comfortable. But comfort is the price he pays for his subserviency. The sex? It is for the purpose of keeping the property in line. He is not a partner. He is a property in charge of the investment.

He appears to have made it from the street. But he has not built anything. He has merely been adopted into a richer system.

It is not alpha or beta that matters, but who does the leading. He exchanged the throne for a more beautiful cage. If it is all right with you, it is all right. But don't confuse his place with power, he merely lives in some other dudes house.

May be so, but his children will benefit from this cause they out of the poverty loop now. Will go to a private school with good education and get a prestigious job