Has a mentalcel ever escaped inceldom?

[Vista]

imagine you woke up looking like chad tomorrow, would you even be able to pull girls after years of rotting on these forums and psychological torture?

honest question, because I feel like looksmaxing is fruitless if you're a mentalcel and your aim is for deincelification by ascending, thinking that girls will just be magnetically attracted to you.

idk, i feel like its fucking brutally over for me, even after years of looksmaxing it really doesn't address the untreatable root cause inside my head - some people were just never meant to exist in this world

 

[fuxkdakikez]

just stick your junk in her trunk it’s not hard bud

 

[Cyrus]

mentalceldom is a joke

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

Chad is not a mentalcel

But the entire mtn section of the spectrum can be.

Possibly low htns aswell

 

[swt]

yeah me,

i’m still a mental”cel” but i slay

 

[Vista]

just stick your junk in her trunk it’s not hard bud

i wish it was that easy, there wouldn't be any incels if it was so straightforward

 

[Vista]

yeah me,

i’m still a mental”cel” but i slay

how tf do u slay as a mentalcel? what did you do?

 

[swt]

how tf do u slay as a mentalcel? what did you do?

nothing, i sat there and got approached

 

[swt]

nothing, i sat there and got approached

awkwardly

 

[Vista]

awkwardly

ur lucky, praying that i can experience this

 

[Wexilarious]

just mentalmax bro

 

[Vista]

just mentalmax bro

 

[faustianspirit]

me

 

[Vista]

me

what did u do bhai

 

[Darkeningstar]

This is a question that the teenagers on this forum can hardly answer. It's not necessarily the case that mentalcels have difficulty starting relationships, the problem is maintaining them.

 

[greycelzoomer]

stupud

 

[valentine]

yes its possible

 

[faustianspirit]

what did u do bhai

the root of my mentalceldom if u want to call it that way was that i had my growth spurt at 18/19 so i didnt have any positive reinforcement from foids nor respect from other men during my growing years. (when i was a kid i was normal because i looked good for that age, but my teens were the worst part of my life)

last years of my life ive been living in a body which didnt match the mental image i had made of myself.

the only way out for me was talking and interacting with more people, and see that they really treat me good because i look good, and slowly i am changing the mental image i have of myself and that translates in more confidence when talking to foids and random people in general

im still working on it and i do sometimes doubt myself but yesterday for example i went out with random people that dont even speak my language that much because they like me. first time i fucked a girl i was doubting myself until the very moment i was in her bed, i was paranoid as shit thinking she was trolling me because foids did similar things to me during my teens.

sorry for all that text, also everytime i go out i try to inhibit the rational part of my mind as much as possible, and that makes me more confident, but my final goal is to be always confident.

 

[FacialStructure404]

would you even be able to pull girls after years of rotting

You wouldn’t even have to pull women. They would pull you.

 

[faustianspirit]

the root of my mentalceldom if u want to call it that way was that i had my growth spurt at 18/19 so i didnt have any positive reinforcement from foids nor respect from other men during my growing years. (when i was a kid i was normal because i looked good for that age, but my teens were the worst part of my life)

last years of my life ive been living in a body which didnt match the mental image i had made of myself.

the only way out for me was talking and interacting with more people, and see that they really treat me good because i look good, and slowly i am changing the mental image i have of myself and that translates in more confidence when talking to foids and random people in general

im still working on it and i do sometimes doubt myself but yesterday for example i went out with random people that dont even speak my language that much because they like me. first time i fucked a girl i was doubting myself until the very moment i was in her bed, i was paranoid as shit thinking she was trolling me because foids did similar things to me during my teens.

sorry for all that text, also everytime i go out i try to inhibit the rational part of my mind as much as possible, and that makes me more confident, but my final goal is to be always confident.

i was also on meds for epilepsy and adhd during my teens, which made me even weirder. i suspect those meds were the reason my growth was so delayed too. fucking jews...

 

[Vista]

This is a question that the teenagers on this forum can hardly answer. It's not necessarily the case that mentalcels have difficulty starting relationships, the problem is maintaining them.

I just feel that after being an incel for so long its not possible to ever be in a relationship.

its kind of like how children who don't learn a language during their critical development period are never able to speak - the same principle applies here.

I think starting and maintaining relationships are both difficult for mentalcels, obviously maintaining them is slightly harder though

 

[Vista]

You wouldn’t even have to pull women. They would pull you.

its not really about "pulling" per se.

looksmaxing will make you more attractive, leading to women being more interested in you.

the problem is actually leveraging your attractiveness to derive value, whether that be sex or a relationship.

its kind of like a blind person in a sports car, the car looks cool on the outside but inside its a complete wreck and the blind person isn't able to properly use the car.

its the same for a looksmaxed mentalcel

 

[Vista]

the root of my mentalceldom if u want to call it that way was that i had my growth spurt at 18/19 so i didnt have any positive reinforcement from foids nor respect from other men during my growing years. (when i was a kid i was normal because i looked good for that age, but my teens were the worst part of my life)

last years of my life ive been living in a body which didnt match the mental image i had made of myself.

the only way out for me was talking and interacting with more people, and see that they really treat me good because i look good, and slowly i am changing the mental image i have of myself and that translates in more confidence when talking to foids and random people in general

im still working on it and i do sometimes doubt myself but yesterday for example i went out with random people that dont even speak my language that much because they like me. first time i fucked a girl i was doubting myself until the very moment i was in her bed, i was paranoid as shit thinking she was trolling me because foids did similar things to me during my teens.

sorry for all that text, also everytime i go out i try to inhibit the rational part of my mind as much as possible, and that makes me more confident, but my final goal is to be always confident.

its good that you're improving yourself, and aligning your own mental and physical identities together. hopefuel

the issue for me is a lot more grim, i have no friends let alone any female interaction and i am the most fucking non NT person alive, i also get the paranoid feeling every time i talk to someone as though they're trolling me or something - the same as you

i've been looksmaxing for a while, and am an honest chadlite physically, so women look at me but i can't approach them due to anxiety and me just finding it "cringe" (it feels embarrassing or something idk how to describe it).

Even when i have talked to women i feel like there's nothing there, like talking to a fucking beanbag or inanimate object, idk. then women just get weirded out and leave.

 

[hanji]

Mentals me

 

[faustianspirit]

its good that you're improving yourself, and aligning your own mental and physical identities together. hopefuel

the issue for me is a lot more grim, i have no friends let alone any female interaction and i am the most fucking non NT person alive, i also get the paranoid feeling every time i talk to someone as though they're trolling me or something - the same as you

i've been looksmaxing for a while, and am an honest chadlite physically, so women look at me but i can't approach them due to anxiety and me just finding it "cringe" (it feels embarrassing or something idk how to describe it).

Even when i have talked to women i feel like there's nothing there, like talking to a fucking beanbag or inanimate object, idk. then women just get weirded out and leave.

this might be bluepilled for ugly people but if you have the looks exposure therapy is actually great, at least it worked for me.

the thing about not having friends is something i cant help you with because thankfully i maintain my friends from preschool, so i never was alone (aside from some years where my anxiety and paranoia were so bad i thought they hated me too).
but i moved to live on campus this year and came here with 0 friends and now im cool with everyone on my residence and made some close friends, and what i did was putting myself out there. it there is a party, or an event or whatever ill go and act normal, and people like me so i make friends easily, eventho i dont believe i have much in common with "normies".

the thing about girls being "boring" also happens to me, what i do is just trying to look interested in the conversation, so they dont get weirded out.

i also found cringe approaching and talking to women because in my mind someone like myself (the mental image i had) shouldnt do it, but i just tried to mute that thought and do it anyways.

basically my life is kind of a permanent act so to speak currently, until i completely align both of my identities into one and can be happy and myself.

 

[Vista]

this might be bluepilled for ugly people but if you have the looks exposure therapy is actually great, at least it worked for me.

the thing about not having friends is something i cant help you with because thankfully i maintain my friends from preschool, so i never was alone (aside from some years where my anxiety and paranoia were so bad i thought they hated me too).
but i moved to live on campus this year and came here with 0 friends and now im cool with everyone on my residence and made some close friends, and what i did was putting myself out there. it there is a party, or an event or whatever ill go and act normal, and people like me so i make friends easily, eventho i dont believe i have much in common with "normies".

the thing about girls being "boring" also happens to me, what i do is just trying to look interested in the conversation, so they dont get weirded out.

i also found cringe approaching and talking to women because in my mind someone like myself (the mental image i had) shouldnt do it, but i just tried to mute that thought and do it anyways.

basically my life is kind of a permanent act so to speak currently, until i completely align both of my identities into one and can be happy and myself.

thats actually really interesting, especially how you muted the voice that you shouldn't be talking to women.

i think a big difference between us though is that im not the type of person to fake anything, eg if a conversation isn't interesting I won't pretend to be interested. maybe you just have to fake it till you make it.

 

[faustianspirit]

thats actually really interesting, especially how you muted the voice that you shouldn't be talking to women.

i think a big difference between us though is that im not the type of person to fake anything, eg if a conversation isn't interesting I won't pretend to be interested. maybe you just have to fake it till you make it.

i just fake it when i think i can get something that benefits me out of that interaction

if not i will just act the same as u, until they get weirded out and stop talking to me

but such is life, you sometimes will need to fake it in order to get what u want

 

[valentine]

yes its possible

@deadstock im deadass whats funnt

 

[deadstock]

@deadstock im deadass whats funnt

No such thing as a mentalcel

 

[valentine]

No such thing as a mentalcel

usually refers to autism or abuse victims

 

[deadstock]

usually refers to autism or abuse victims

Still just a looks issue

Foids will find it cute when ur goodlooking enough

 

[valentine]

Still just a looks issue

Foids will find it cute when ur goodlooking enough

if ur chad maybe.

 

[lookingforward]

if ur chad maybe.

Even htn tbh maybeeee mtn but it will be a phase that burns out just as quick

U can slay as amentalcel if u go for women that are similar to you

Everyone of the girls that liked me always had some sort fatherly issue or autistic as shit but I was just a little less autistic than them

 

[Vista]

No such thing as a mentalcel

bluepilled nigger

 

[Vista]

Even htn tbh maybeeee mtn but it will be a phase that burns out just as quick

U can slay as amentalcel if u go for women that are similar to you

Everyone of the girls that liked me always had some sort fatherly issue or autistic as shit but I was just a little less autistic than them

so you have to be attractive and just go for autistic bitches? you think that the dynamics dont change?

 

[vanillaicecream]

imagine you woke up looking like chad tomorrow, would you even be able to pull girls after years of rotting on these forums and psychological torture?

Yes, easily. I would just approach any girl I wanted because I would know I could get her. My brain chemistry wouldn't matter.

 

[lookingforward]

so you have to be attractive and just go for autistic bitches? you think that the dynamics dont change?

pretty much either be good looking or women with issues

I’m solid mtn and have slayed a good amount

Autistic women are very easy to manipulate and no I don’t think it changes