Has literally every SINGLE girl been in an "abusive" relationship nowadays?

[Alesund]

I've been talking to a few girls from this social circle I recently got into and all but one have told me they've been in a relationship where they were abused and manipulated by their bf or whatever.The funniest thing is all of them got together at least one more time after breaking up(what I mean is they end the relationship and they go back crawling to their "muh abusive" ex just to call it quits a few weeks/months later for real).

Even my former oneitis(a 17yr old girl that was genuinely a nice girl and is heavily involved with her local church) from a few months ago, that told me about her abusive bf when we first met and had later broke up with him because I told her she deserves better, not even a few months later they had gotten back together. What the fuck do girls really mean when they say they used to be in an abusive relationship?

 

[Deleted member 6217]

Being with dark triad chad

 

[Deleted member 6789]

Depends it can be bullshit or it can be actual abuse. Usually bullshit. I personaly try to abuse and degrade girls im with so they never forget me. And when you white knight cucks marry them youll know I already force fucked and mentaly abused her while she was younger. She will never forget the pain I drilled in to her at a young age. All you can do is try to fix what I already broke.

 

[Entschuldigung]

Not being a beta that does everything they want = toxic

 

[Subhuman Philtrum]

alot of them actually manipulate themselves into believing they were abused in a relationship

some girls:

 

[Alesund]

Being with dark triad chad

The weirdest thing about this phenomena is that they're not even good looking- literally all of the guys are as plain as it gets, average height+looks+social presence, absolutely nothing really makes them stand out whatsoever. My former crush's bf was even ugly tbh- he was short af and looked really goofy and underdeveloped.

 

[Danish_Retard]

read up on redpills lightswitch theory. It seems legit to me but what the fuck do I know.

 

[Vidyacoper]

alot of them actually manipulate themselves into believing they were abused in a relationship
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some girls:

fuck man i still remember that. so fucking brutal

 

[Alesund]

read up on redpills lightswitch theory. It seems legit to me but what the fuck do I know.

"And just like that, her emotional state defines a new reality, where nothing was ever good and everything was based on a lie. Like a light-switch goes from on to off, everything that you two had built disappears into the off position, as though it had never existed.

Many men at this stage try to bargain. "After all we've been through together, how can you throw this away? We can still salvage this!"

And it's a pointless question. What is she throwing away? Absolutely nothing, in her mind. If there was any value in the relationship, she wouldn't feel this way. Therefore there must not have been value in the relationship."