have you ever been hurt by a foid?

[zygosmasher]

title. if so how did it affect your view and approach to foids. i was cheated on by a whore who was seeing 2 other guys at the same time, since then i realised if a foid tries to get disrespectful no matter how she looks/ conflict of interest, i will laugh in her face and never give her the time of day, no matter how badly i want them, because most foids that do it try to make an example out of you, and boost their egos. a few times its happened where i got rejected/disrespected, the foid tried to spin the block and get with me, and i shut her down instantly with a smug smile on my face, one of the best feelings ever tbh

 

[Yemuk]

dw bro ill bump for you

 

[Yemuk]

Bump

 

[zygosmasher]

dw bro ill bump for you

 

[Sacrimoon]

Yes. My ex manipulated me into thinking she was suicidal and had been raped at the start of our relationship where i was in a very vulnerable state.

I believed her and stayed in a relationship with her for 2 years, out of fear of what she would do to herself. I was severely depressed and couldn’t really feel much towards her, but i stayed even tho i was completely ruining my own life, and was isolated.

She broke up 2 months ago, where she said I had ruined HER life, and that everything she said to me was just a misunderstanding.

I haven’t had any friends or social life since meeting her. But i haven’t been depressed the past year, and ill hopefully get a normal life again after she left.

Bottom line, im dipping as soon as i hear a foid start talking about her trauma.

 

[zygosmasher]

Yes. My ex manipulated me into thinking she was suicidal and had been raped at the start of our relationship where i was in a very vulnerable state.

I believed her and stayed in a relationship with her for 2 years, out of fear of what she would do to herself. I was severely depressed and couldn’t really feel much towards her, but i stayed even tho i was completely ruining my own life, and was isolated.

She broke up 2 months ago, where she said I had ruined HER life, and that everything she said to me was just a misunderstanding.

I haven’t had any friends or social life since meeting her. But i haven’t been depressed the past year, and ill hopefully get a normal life again after she left.

Bottom line, im dipping as soon as i hear a foid start talking about her trauma.

feel you bro, not your job to carry her burden which she clearly tried to put on you. be happy youre out of there, and lets pray we dont make the same bad judgements again

 

[Sacrimoon]

feel you bro, not your job to carry her burden which she clearly tried to put on you. be happy youre out of there, and lets pray we dont make the same bad judgements again

Yeah thanks bro. It’s definitely a good thing that she left, and WE are not making these mistakes again

Still hurts to know what she did to me, and is now living her completely normal life, thinking i’m some kind of devil.

 

[Clav's Baseball Cup]

Boohoohoo crybaby niggas. Foids don’t care that “your standing up for yourself” they’ll just find another emotional tampon, you mean nothing to them stop being a little bitch.

 

[zygosmasher]

Boohoohoo crybaby niggas. Foids don’t care that “your standing up for yourself” they’ll just find another emotional tampon, you mean nothing to them stop being a little bitch.

Nigga what

 

[Outlander]

Physically. no, but emotionally absolutely. Some girls were nasty little cunts to me back in school but never was friends with a girl or simped for any so they never got to actually backstab me or waste my time like that. The one foid who's hurt me more than any others is my mother because that's the only one I'm forced to live with and interact with daily, and she can be an ungrateful and rotten POS often

 

[Deleted member 255555]

title. if so how did it affect your view and approach to foids. i was cheated on by a whore who was seeing 2 other guys at the same time, since then i realised if a foid tries to get disrespectful no matter how she looks/ conflict of interest, i will laugh in her face and never give her the time of day, no matter how badly i want them, because most foids that do it try to make an example out of you, and boost their egos. a few times its happened where i got rejected/disrespected, the foid tried to spin the block and get with me, and i shut her down instantly with a smug smile on my face, one of the best feelings ever tbh

When I was subhuman and short ye

 

[Sandriguez]

this girl in my class hits me on the head. niggas won’t bat an eye if abuse is from a girl smh

 

[andy321]

When I was subhuman and short ye

same my crush knew I liked her and drew a ugly creature n said it was me

 

[fazehamster]

same my crush knew I liked her and drew a ugly creature n said it was me

“The worst she can say is no”

 

[HighLtn]

title. if so how did it affect your view and approach to foids.

I was mentally abused by my ex and had to quit my professional education, got depressed, tried to kill myself twice, got addicted to drugs (speed, xtc, benzos, tilidin, pregab etc.)
And now ive been unemployed for 3y and only LDAR

I dont really have the urge to fall in love again or to get into a new relationship.
Its actually pretty chill when ure just by urself. No one who spikes your cortisol and no one who cheats on you or lies to you.

I know that if i get into a new relationship it might happen again
U cant trust anyone these days and thats just the harsh truth.

 

[4'11 roman]

title. if so how did it affect your view and approach to foids. i was cheated on by a whore who was seeing 2 other guys at the same time, since then i realised if a foid tries to get disrespectful no matter how she looks/ conflict of interest, i will laugh in her face and never give her the time of day, no matter how badly i want them, because most foids that do it try to make an example out of you, and boost their egos. a few times its happened where i got rejected/disrespected, the foid tried to spin the block and get with me, and i shut her down instantly with a smug smile on my face, one of the best feelings ever tbh

shawty made fun of me for getting molested by another foid when i was passed out high asf and tried to make it seem like i was a hoe

 

[emogymmaxx]

got cheated on and the dude was like 5'3 (few years ago)

 

[Outlander]

this girl in my class hits me on the head. niggas won’t bat an eye if abuse is from a girl smh

I hate how women are so comfortable assaulting men while knowing even most of the weakest men could beat them to a pulp let alone average or above average dudes. Society protects them from the consequences of their actions way too much, and it's so bad they don't EVEN FEAR that consequences could POTENTIALLY happen. Them assaulting someone they know could destroy them instantly but expecting the man to always hold back is as stupid as if I decided to just walk out into the highway and hope all the cars would stop in time, and not even considering it a possibility that I could get hit. A foid isn't gonna win if the man decides he's had enough, just like I wouldn't stand a chance against a 2 ton moving machine going fast

 

[HighLtn]

My ex manipulated me into thinking she had been raped at the start of our relationship

Haha same

 

[zygosmasher]

Physically. no, but emotionally absolutely. Some girls were nasty little cunts to me back in school but never was friends with a girl or simped for any so they never got to actually backstab me or waste my time like that. The one foid who's hurt me more than any others is my mother because that's the only one I'm forced to live with and interact with daily, and she can be an ungrateful and rotten POS often

Fair, i understand you totally, if you’re old enough you should probably move out and live alone. That’s what i did and my life got a lot better after that

 

[zygosmasher]

Haha same

Brutal

 

[zygosmasher]

I hate how women are so comfortable assaulting men while knowing even most of the weakest men could beat them to a pulp let alone average or above average dudes. Society protects them from the consequences of their actions way too much, and it's so bad they don't EVEN FEAR that consequences could POTENTIALLY happen. Them assaulting someone they know could destroy them instantly but expecting the man to always hold back is as stupid as if I decided to just walk out into the highway and hope all the cars would stop in time, and not even considering it a possibility that I could get hit. A foid isn't gonna win if the man decides he's had enough, just like I wouldn't stand a chance against a 2 ton moving machine going fast

Most men are brainwashed to step in and beat the guy up that is hitting the woman even if he’s defending himself. Crazy world out there

 

[zygosmasher]

got cheated on and the dude was like 5'3 (few years ago)

Brutal doood

 

[Outlander]

Fair, i understand you totally, if you’re old enough you should probably move out and live alone. That’s what i did and my life got a lot better after that

I'm old enough but with my shit mental health and other life issues it's not exactly easy to work enough/ get a good enough job where I could comfortably afford to move out. Age wise I could have moved out years ago if I had the financial means but I simply don't at the moment

 

[zygosmasher]

shawty made fun of me for getting molested by another foid when i was passed out high asf and tried to make it seem like i was a hoe

Damn man i hope you got away from her

 

[zygosmasher]

same my crush knew I liked her and drew a ugly creature n said it was me

Wow man fuck that bitch andy321 mogs she’s just insecure

I was mentally abused by my ex and had to quit my professional education, got depressed, tried to kill myself twice, got addicted to drugs (speed, xtc, benzos, tilidin, pregab etc.)
And now ive been unemployed for 3y and only LDAR

I dont really have the urge to fall in love again or to get into a new relationship.
Its actually pretty chill when ure just by urself. No one who spikes your cortisol and no one who cheats on you or lies to you.

I know that if i get into a new relationship it might happen again
U cant trust anyone these days and thats just the harsh truth.
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Brutal man, i was once addicted to drugs because the girl i was with was also doing them (ketamine, mdma, xans, lsd) and it’s also a similar scenario. I have bounced back though and my life is getting good, you need to just forget the past and become the best version of yourself. There’s good women out there but they’re rare so once you find one keep her.

 

[zygosmasher]

I'm old enough but with my shit mental health and other life issues it's not exactly easy to work enough/ get a good enough job where I could comfortably afford to move out. Age wise I could have moved out years ago if I had the financial means but I simply don't at the moment

Let me guess you live in the uk? I can understand that. It’s important to find a decent scalable career (40k with 3+ years of experience) and you should be ok. Renting a room in someone’s house is also an option that’s super cheap but I don’t recommend that I done it for 2 months and tbh that was the wildest 2 months of my life (not in a good way)

 

[Outlander]

Let me guess you live in the uk? I can understand that. It’s important to find a decent scalable career (40k with 3+ years of experience) and you should be ok. Renting a room in someone’s house is also an option that’s super cheap but I don’t recommend that I done it for 2 months and tbh that was the wildest 2 months of my life (not in a good way)

Nah USA is where I'm at. It's not easy here either and I just have a lot of problems that make attaining/ maintaining a good job damn near impossible

 

[zygosmasher]

Nah USA is where I'm at. It's not easy here either and I just have a lot of problems that make attaining/ maintaining a good job damn near impossible

I feel you man. All you can do is try right. If you try your best that’s all you can realistically do, but I wish you the best of luck brah.

 

[Outlander]

I feel you man. All you can do is try right. If you try your best that’s all you can realistically do, but I wish you the best of luck brah.

Yeah just gotta do what you realistically can without pushing yourself too hard and enjoy the things you have access to

 

[emogymmaxx]

Brutal doood

i was a dick so kinda expected but yk

 

[NoExit]

my old itis sent me to the shadow realm. twice

 

[zygosmasher]

my old itis sent me to the shadow realm. twice

How so

 

[NoExit]

How so

the first time was in person. she told me that i will never learn where her house is, then she started laughing hysterically. after that she told me to take the bus and fuck off.

the other time was on instagram. she told me she has 21cm on reserve and that im outclassed.

 

[zygosmasher]

the first time was in person. she told me that i will never learn where her house is, then she started laughing hysterically. after that she told me to take the bus and fuck off.

the other time was on instagram. she told me she has 21cm on reserve and that im outclassed.

Over

 

[pepotero]

My fuckass gf was always talking about summ "i am fat i am fat" (she wasnt, she isnt, she was beatiful) and like a dog i would be saying "no you arent". She left me 2 years ago and she already found like 2 boyfriends and i still think about her

 

[zygosmasher]

My fuckass gf was always talking about summ "i am fat i am fat" (she wasnt, she isnt, she was beatiful) and like a dog i would be saying "no you arent". She left me 2 years ago and she already found like 2 boyfriends and i still think about her

Attention seeking woman. Be happy you got rid of her

 

[NoExit]

Over

she donates money to gaza people but she wouldnt say a single nice thing to me

 

[pepotero]

Also she was looking a other men and famous all the time. I thougth of leavin her but i was afraid of being alone so i didnt

 

[Scandicel]

title. if so how did it affect your view and approach to foids. i was cheated on by a whore who was seeing 2 other guys at the same time, since then i realised if a foid tries to get disrespectful no matter how she looks/ conflict of interest, i will laugh in her face and never give her the time of day, no matter how badly i want them, because most foids that do it try to make an example out of you, and boost their egos. a few times its happened where i got rejected/disrespected, the foid tried to spin the block and get with me, and i shut her down instantly with a smug smile on my face, one of the best feelings ever tbh

back in 2024, i got broken up with and i cried for 2 months, and recently i got cheated on but i couldnt care less, and i just hooked with some girl 2 days later. so i didnt get a different view in approaching foids, but more a different view of teen love.

 

[zygosmasher]

Also she was looking an other men and famous all the time. I thougth of leavin her but i was afraid of being alone so i didnt

Never be afraid to leave a bitch if she starts disrespecting you. If she doesn’t respect you then you’ve already lost. Move on and find someone better.

 

[zygosmasher]

back in 2024, i got broken up with and i cried for 2 months, and recently i got cheated on but i couldnt care less, and i just hooked with some girl 2 days later. so i didnt get a different view in approaching foids, but more a different view of teen love.

Based, don’t let it fuck up your mental though. There’s good women out there and they’re rare. The last thing you wanna do is fuck over a girl that is good to you the whole time, once you lose someone like that trust me it’s not gonna be easy to find another good one

 

[pepotero]

I was stupid at the time, thank god i matured since then, but thanks for the advise

 

[Scandicel]

Based, don’t let it fuck up your mental though. There’s good women out there and they’re rare. The last thing you wanna do is fuck over a girl that is good to you the whole time, once you lose someone like that trust me it’s not gonna be easy to find another good one

yeah ofc, i belive that when i get older i will take it more seriously with love and all, but for now ill just create connections with women and have fun with all of them

 

[zygosmasher]

yeah ofc, i belive that when i get older i will take it more seriously with love and all, but for now ill just create connections with women and have fun with all of them

You do you pal, just remember there’s no age range where you can find a good woman you can spend a long time with. I say if one comes around you want around even soon then I wouldn’t let go of her easy if I were you, but you will figure that out I’m sure. Good luck to you brah

 

[Scandicel]

You do you pal, just remember there’s no age range where you can find a good woman you can spend a long time with. I say if one comes around you want around even soon then I wouldn’t let go of her easy if I were you, but you will figure that out I’m sure. Good luck to you brah

thanks mate, much love