Having a girlfriend while knowing deep down that you're unattractive is one of the worst feelings

Solo6.6feet

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I wake up anxious on the days we're supposed to meet, spending two hours just trying to fix my appearance. I'm constantly scared she might be talking to someone else or cheating. Every time we’re about to meet, I feel sick to my stomach and almost throw up from the stress. Sometimes I even have to skip work because of how anxious I get.

I've been to the doctor, but they couldn’t figure out what’s wrong.
But deep down, I know the truth — it’s because I don’t feel like I’m good enough for her. I feel ugly, and that belief eats at me every day.

I know I’m not the only one who can relate to this. And seeing all those TikTok videos like “your girl is cheating” just makes everything worse.

It feels like hell to be with her sometimes, even though I love her with all my heart.
 
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Mind showing me your face? You can't look that bad
 
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It can't be that bad bro unless she's stacy and you're ltn
 
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just get someone to do a loyalty test (get one of your good looking friends she dosent know about to do it)
 
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Mind showing me your face? You can't look that bad
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tbh ur not that bad looking, your just fat
Why would she want a fat guy? OFC I belive she with some skinny guy with abs lol.
 
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Have been doing it for 6weeks rn lost 20kg, but most of it was water....
Focus on debloating, there was a good debloating guide somewhere on .org
 
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Youre tall and have a very strong looking phenotype/body, thats probably what she likes. If you cut its over for us because of your height/muscle mass. And btw how old is your gf? You look like youre 15+10years old (in a good way)
 
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Youre tall and have a very strong looking phenotype/body, thats probably what she likes. If you cut its over for us because of your height/muscle mass. And btw how old is your gf? You look like youre 15+10years old (in a good way)
GF same age as me "15" But she looks like 21. Strong cheekbone, latina, tall, and skinny (some what of abs.) Why wouldent she want someone as good looking as her?😄
 
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GF same age as me "15" But she looks like 21. Strong cheekbone, latina, tall, and skinny (some what of abs.) Why wouldent she want someone as good looking as her?😄
JBW pill
 
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get lean asap, dress like a mature male and get a haircut, nothing to worry abt
 
GF same age as me "15" But she looks like 21. Strong cheekbone, latina, tall, and skinny (some what of abs.) Why wouldent she want someone as good looking as her?😄
I mean people have preferences, personality pill is real and youre very masculine (tall and strong) so theres no reason for her to not take you
 
100% mogger once you lean out, do it ASAP.
 
I feel u on the throwing up when letting her part
 
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just get someone to do a loyalty test (get one of your good looking friends she dosent know about to do it)
this is good advice ngl

he doesnt even need to do that

he can just larp as an attractive guy online and dm her
 
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this is good advice ngl

he doesnt even need to do that

he can just larp as an attractive guy online and dm her
If she cheats like that I would have killed my self
 
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15y
I wake up anxious on the days we're supposed to meet, spending two hours just trying to fix my appearance. I'm constantly scared she might be talking to someone else or cheating. Every time we’re about to meet, I feel sick to my stomach and almost throw up from the stress. Sometimes I even have to skip work because of how anxious I get.

I've been to the doctor, but they couldn’t figure out what’s wrong.
But deep down, I know the truth — it’s because I don’t feel like I’m good enough for her. I feel ugly, and that belief eats at me every day.

I know I’m not the only one who can relate to this. And seeing all those TikTok videos like “your girl is cheating” just makes everything worse.

It feels like hell to be with her sometimes, even though I love her with all my heart.
Bro go to therapy or some shit, that or work on yourself until you don't need to worry. I struggled with that for a long time but it only got better when I stopped worrying so much about what she does cuz you can't control her, the best you can do is be at peace with urself and if she chooses to go for someone else, let her. She wouldn't be worth it if she did something like that
 
15y
I wake up anxious on the days we're supposed to meet, spending two hours just trying to fix my appearance. I'm constantly scared she might be talking to someone else or cheating. Every time we’re about to meet, I feel sick to my stomach and almost throw up from the stress. Sometimes I even have to skip work because of how anxious I get.

I've been to the doctor, but they couldn’t figure out what’s wrong.
But deep down, I know the truth — it’s because I don’t feel like I’m good enough for her. I feel ugly, and that belief eats at me every day.

I know I’m not the only one who can relate to this. And seeing all those TikTok videos like “your girl is cheating” just makes everything worse.

It feels like hell to be with her sometimes, even though I love her with all my heart.
Dude it changes when you get in a relationship. Maybe you aren’t the most attractive dude she can sleep with, but that’s literally every man in a relationship ever. I promise your the most attractive to her because you’re her boyfriend, just like, unless you’re weird, you would leave her if a more attractive girl offered to sleep with you.
 
Bro go to therapy or some shit, that or work on yourself until you don't need to worry. I struggled with that for a long time but it only got better when I stopped worrying so much about what she does cuz you can't control her, the best you can do is be at peace with urself and if she chooses to go for someone else, let her. She wouldn't be worth it if she did something like that
Textning Ai daily for support. I just dont belive the things she does. She has lied about being Virgin then when I "took it" she dropped the bomb lol. Cant really trust but working on it. Thx for the text ❤️
 
the problem that BP has is that there are still some preferences maybe yor girl likes a more cubby guy
thats why she choose you and not some skinny guy
 
the problem that BP has is that there are still some preferences maybe yor girl likes a more cubby guy
thats why she choose you and not some skinny guy
 
sry shit wif
the problem that BP has is that there are still some preferences maybe yor girl likes a more cubby guy
thats why she choose you and not some skinny guy
sry shit wifi pls dont ban me
 
bro how did u pull her?
 

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