Having a girlfriend won’t do shit for your mental health

[Deleted member 7240]

Sure it’s nice and all to cuddle and kiss and fuck her but if you think all your mental problems will go away you’re deluding yourself. It could probably make it worse even

 

[Deleted member 10551]

Short term it will be great, but you will always have the same mentality you had before. Trust me.

 

[Lasko123]

I see

 

[Deleted member 110]

As a KHHV i find this hard to accept

 

[Deleted member 7240]

As a KHHV i find this hard to accept

It’s the cold truth. It’s only good for a couple weeks and then you’re back to your same mindset

 

[Deleted member 7240]

I see

U Better

 

[Deleted member 110]

It’s the cold truth. It’s only good for a couple weeks and then you’re back to your same mindset

Been blackpilled since 3 years and very aware of the above fact since about 1 year,
still the only thing on my mind is getting a GF.

Sex drive is not the problem, its the feeling of going to bed alone,waking up alone,having nobody to cuddle when theres 1m Snow outside.
Even neutering probably wont fix this issue.

The male brain is dumb.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

literally one of the lowest iq posts on the site. so many studies are out there showing the positive benefits of having a mate

 

[Deleted member 6939]

Sure it’s nice and all to cuddle and kiss and fuck her but if you think all your mental problems will go away you’re deluding yourself. It could probably make it worse even

Should I read this OP?

 

[Deleted member 7240]

literally one of the lowest iq posts on the site. so many studies are out there showing the positive benefits of having a mate

I was speaking from personal experience and from some of my bros. It didn't do shit for us. Idk what studies there are though

 

[Deleted member 7240]

Should I read this OP?

Yeah go for it bro

 

[Deleted member 4612]

I was speaking from personal experience and from some of my bros. It didn't do shit for us. Idk what studies there are though

maybe your girlfriends were shitty?

 

[Deleted member 2205]

Real friends help. If you're super lonely then gf will help as well

 

[Deleted member 7240]

maybe your girlfriends were shitty?

Idk tbh I think I was the shitty one. Maybe that was why it wasn't a good experience lol

 

[Ritalincel]

 

[Deleted member 7240]

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[Slayer]

High octane cope

Having a gf makes u feel like a normal nt functional human being (in addition to all the sexual benefits ofc)

We as humans were meant to have a monogamous partner at all times. Not having one puts u in a constant subconscious high cortiosol state until you find one

"Nah bro getting constant dopamine and serotonin is actually hella overrated"

 

[Deleted member 7240]

High octane cope

Having a gf makes u feel like a normal nt functional human being (in addition to all the sexual benefits ofc)

We as humans were meant to have a monogamous partner at all times. Not having one puts u in a constant subconscious high cortiosol state until you find one

"Nah bro getting constant dopamine and serotonin is actually hella overrated"
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I’m saying it’s not the go all be all to fixing you’re mental problems

 

[spark]

indeed you need a girl early in your life

once you've missed out it doesn't count

 

[Timelessbrah]

IMAGINE COPING THIS HARD

 

[Deleted member 5542]

and here we... COPE

 

[Deleted member 10185]

I can confirm based of people that I know.

 

[Warlord]

Sure it’s nice and all to cuddle and kiss and fuck her but if you think all your mental problems will go away you’re deluding yourself. It could probably make it worse even

No it will make me the happiest man alive.

 

[tyronelite]

Truth. Also depends if you have for Ex: schizoidal tendencies like me you’re less likely to want a long term partner.

 

[Deleted member 6128]

In fact it worsens it over time

 

[magnificentcel]

literally one of the lowest iq posts on the site. so many studies are out there showing the positive benefits of having a mate

Can you show some of these studies?

 

[magnificentcel]

High octane cope

Having a gf makes u feel like a normal nt functional human being (in addition to all the sexual benefits ofc)

We as humans were meant to have a monogamous partner at all times. Not having one puts u in a constant subconscious high cortiosol state until you find one

"Nah bro getting constant dopamine and serotonin is actually hella overrated"
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Proof?

 

[Deleted member 2854]

Disagree.

Getting my first ever proper GF who loved & adored me & was cute actually permanently raised my self-esteem. After that relationship I looked at myself differently forever because it proved I was considered fuckable to a cute girl. It made me more confident in all aspects of my life including my job. It made me more resistant to the emotional pain of rejection as well because I knew there was hope for me because she chose me.

I'd say having a decent looking girlfriend is a rite of passage most men need to go through.

 

[Deleted member 2854]

indeed you need a girl early in your life

once you've missed out it doesn't count

Definitely counts if the girl loves you & is young & not a jaded roastie.

 

[Deleted member 10172]

Sure it’s nice and all to cuddle and kiss and fuck her but if you think all your mental problems will go away you’re deluding yourself. It could probably make it worse even

you're actually retarded if u believe this. U must be talking from sort of privilege. If I had a girlfriend all my mental problems would go away

 

[Deleted member 5634]

High octane cope

Having a gf makes u feel like a normal nt functional human being (in addition to all the sexual benefits ofc)

We as humans were meant to have a monogamous partner at all times. Not having one puts u in a constant subconscious high cortiosol state until you find one

"Nah bro getting constant dopamine and serotonin is actually hella overrated"
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facts, not all of your problems, but the oxytocin, serotonin, dopamine, even noradrenaline is fucking adictive, thats why when people cheat, the other partner can even off themselves from the withdrawals

 

[Deleted member 275]

Disagree.

Having a gf was great for my outlook on life, overall mental state and self esteem. Becomes much easier to be positive when you know someone cares for you.

 

[Deleted member 10172]

Disagree.

Having a gf was great for my outlook on life, overall mental state and self esteem. Becomes much easier to be positive when you know someone cares for you.

^ And it also motivates you to improve yourself. You don't wanna mess up your relationship with your girlfriend so you're going to be way more respectful, way better dressed, you will be a better person.

 

[Selfahate]

Wrong just plain wrong

 

[Deleted member 5698]

literally one of the lowest iq posts on the site. so many studies are out there showing the positive benefits of having a mate

 

[Deleted member 4362]

literally one of the lowest iq posts on the site. so many studies are out there showing the positive benefits of having a mate

Truth. There’s plenty of studies on this too. Idk why these bluepillers keep coming here trying to shit up basic blackpilled facts.

‘Ur not entitled sweaty’, ‘You can be happy being alone’ JFL